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I really like this guy alot. I have never felt so comfterble with anyone. the thing is we arent going out.. And im not sure if he likes me anymore. I really just wana belike.. "listen I like you alot and I wana be official." Because I like him alot. I just wana blurt out everything I feel but im afraid he doesnt feel the same way! Also theres another thing. I feel so comfterble with him that I kinda wana have sex with him but im a virgin and ive never even been fingerd! But I dont wana give myself away cause im afraid to lose him! WHAT DO I DO?! (link)
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Whatever you do, do NOT have sex with him. If he likes you as much as you like him, then he'll want to be with you. He may lie to you and say he likes you in order to have sex with you. Chances are, before you two do decide to have sex, he will finger you to loosen you up a bit. There's nothing to be scared of. But your first person to have sex with will always be a part of you and you will never forget about them. He can hurt you majorly if he isn't sharing the same feelings that you have. So be careful!
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does anyone know what the website is where it gives you sex tips? .. ive seen it posted on here a couple times a long time ago and i cant find it .. (link)
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www.teenwire.com has tips and advice and everything! You might want to try there.
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Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
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If you ask the doctor not to tell your mom, he won't. What you tell the doctor is meant to be kept secret. They don't want you to feel pressured into having to lie, so be honest. They can usually tell if you have had sex before anyway. So honesty is the best way to go.
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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??
ill rate high.
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The first time you shave, you can get irritation bumps..That's probably the rash your experiencing. The itching only occurs after the first time shaving, you'll eventually get used to it. The lotion only makes it worse, it'll burn and the bumps will increase. It will go away shortly though, so don't freak out.
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oh and to all those people with the ? when is the right time to have sex? its when you are ready.
no body can tell you when to have sex.
and ways my ? is..
how long into the relationship do you have sex.
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It doesn't really matter when you have sex. I have friends who waited a week, a month, a year. It varies depending on your feelings for the person. If you think you're ready, then go for it. But make sure he truly likes you and isn't just using you for sex.
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Okay well, I really like this guy. He's everything I want. Funny, intellegent, cute, long hair, sweet, kind and he skates. There's nothing more that I want then for him to like me back. The bad thing is that my friend likes him to. No one knows that I like this kid and I've been hiding it for a really long time. I don't think he has a clue and we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him.
I need help and FAST.
I'll rate for the advice you give. Just help. :{ (link)
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If I were you, I'd be open about how you feel to him. Tell him the truth, it may help..and may not. He is most likely feeling the same to you, or he wouldn't be such good friends with you. If he's really what you want, let him know.
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Me and my best friend,kay have been friends for 4 years and were totally close. Around Christmas, birthdays, or special occasions i tend to get big gifts. Like on time i bought her a green flower necklace ($20) and earrings ($10). At christmas i gave her a adult make up kit ($30) and her birthday this year i got her the black eyed peas cd (monkey business)($14), a unique black shimmering purse ($50), green 7up label shirt ($6) and a black shimmering belt($3) to go with the black purse. Then for her last year birthday i got her Nordstrom pajamas ($20-$30)and a piggy bank with her name panited on it ($40). Is that too much? But thats how i share my love for her. That's just the way i am i go a little over, but there neccessary. I hate if someone else got the gift i wanted to give her before me or i see something perfect and i don't get it. I don't really look at the cost that much. Everything i gave she liked because of her personality and the way she favored them. When she buys my gifts she feel there like 5 levels under mine. She doesn't have the money like my parents do, but i love and cherrish whatever she gives me. I love everything she gives me even if it was a damn peanut. I just the thought of her thinking about me. She wants me to tone it down. It will kill me! My mom even thought to give her a coach purse ($198- $300). I said no that's no what she would like that's something i would lik so. This is just the way i amd and my family we go overboard. Basically we go to the best stores for the gifts we know won't fall apart. I never had anyone complain about me giving them too much. She always talks about the cost all the time like a she's an adult and it gets annoying and takes the fun out of a few things. What should i do should i ddown size or just stay me? HELP ME (i rate high*)!!!!!!!!
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I don't think you can ever give too much. It shows that you do care, but at the same time..I can see why she might be embarressed about what she buys you. Maybe you should tone it down a little bit. But it's up to you, if she needs the things you buy her then I would continue spending whatever you do on her. And if you have the money, I don't see why not. hope this helped?
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i realy like this guy and i think he likes me to, but im not sure. how can i tell and how do i get closer to him
I'm 14 and a female
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In order to get closer to someone, you need to hang out with them as often as possible..but not too much, or you may get sick of each other. Let him know you like him, you can just say "I don't expect you to say anything back, or have the same feelings..I just want you to know I like you." see what he says, maybe t hat will help you guys become closer. It's hard to tell when a guy likes you. Some are sneaky and lead you to think they like you when really, they don't at all. It depends on the type of boy you're crushing on. Think about the things he says to you, you should find out whether he likes you or not.
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Well did you ever date a boyfriend that lied far away??? i did and when he came to see me he wanted to do things that i didn't want too do so what do i tell hime if he calls or im me?
well he said that i broke our relaionship but we both did at the same time !!
Thanks beth !! (link)
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Be honest with him..Let him know you weren't ready to do things with him. Tell him you don't want to be forced into doing things that you don't want to do, and that's the reason you broke it off.
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ok, there's this guy that I really like...he's in one of my classes and we're pretty good friends. I think he knows that i like him, but it seems like he likes me too...i'm not exactly sure though. When i come in class, he always meets me at my desk and we talk...then we talk at lunch and we talk about personal things too...but he does the same thing with other girls to! I'm getting total mixed signals!! does he like me or not?! (link)
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He might like you. Guys have a weird way of showing their feelings and it can be hard for them to show you how they really feel. You should probably ask him if he likes you or not because you start liking him too much.
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A guy that I'm good friends with just moved to another state for a job. I was hoping one day we would be an item. Well right before he moved he was acting like a real jerk to me. He said he would visit me before he left and never did and also didn't phone me like he said he would. It's been a month since he moved and since then I havent received any emails from him.
My question is that I had wanted to get him a Xmas gift, but since he is being such a jerk and just stopped contacting me I don't really want to. After all this I still have feelings for him. Should I wait for him to contact me and get me a Xmas gift first? If he does then I will still get him a gift and will know if he still is interested. Otherwise, if he doesnt get me a gift I'm not getting him one.
What do you think I should do? (link)
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If I were you, I would send him a gift anyway. It will remind him about how much he cared for you. And may hopefully he will start contacting you more often. Maybe you should email him first.
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ok i kno this is long but i rate high for good answers...im a f & im 17 well i jus broke up w/my bf not too long ago i feel like a part of me is missing & im kinda bored now & i dont kno what to do i hang out with my friends but its not as fun anymore without being with him...now my friends dont want me with him because they hate how he has been acting towards me since we broke up..i miss him & a part of me still cares alot about him...i dunno what 2 do i dont wanna sit around all sad & depressed & i havent been ive been busy all week with friends homework new guys calling me but its just not the same...i want him back...but i dont think i can take him back cuz im so sick of him tryin to get with other gurls while hes with me when he claims he "loves me" so i dont know what to think anymore...i will jus try to let him go...try...plus all my friends will be mad & dissapointed if i go back out w/him...help! (link)
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I've had the same problem going on with me, and I made the mistake to go back out with him. He was always being a jerk to me and he knew that no matter what he did, I'd take him back. Trying to get with other girls should be a message to you to move on. If he can do it, you can too. It's hard to get over someone, and I'm not telling you to do that. Just be careful if you DO go back out with him. Letting go of someone you really care about can be very hard.
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My bf and I started going out a few days ago. Thing is, I am not the most pretty person. In fact, I reaally lack in the beauty department. I am bigger than my bf PLUS I am ugly. I have already heard of assholes staring at my boyfriend and snickering and whatnot. It sucks how these people could possibly break apart a relationship with potential. I mean, who wants to go through this critisism and crap like that? Any tips on how to survive the first few 'judgement' days (or maybe weeks) as a couple? I dont want him to break up with me over something so stupid as this. (link)
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If your boyfriend truly likes you and truly cares, he won't let a few stupid guys laughing ruin your relationship. I think the first month of a new relationship is the hardest. It takes time getting used to being with someone, and to get comfortable around them. Once he's comfortable with being with you..things should change. Maybe you should ask him about what he thinks about the way you like. You must have done something right to be going out with him. Looks shouldn't matter.
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what should i get my bf (15) for x-mas? (link)
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A shirt, jeans, or gift certificate would be a nice gift. Maybe a cd of his choice, or movie.
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Okay, 15/f him 16. This guy and me like always hang out in this one spot between classes. And like sometimes we hold hands and crap. And i said i didn't wanna go out with him, and he got all hurt. but then today he was sitting on the ground n he like tried 2 pull me into his lap but i jsut sat next to him n held his hand. n he was like i looove you. n i was jk n like u better. (cause i dont wanna say it if i dont mean it) and like so when we had to go we hugged and crap n i had given him a note saying i really liked him but i didnt kno what he wanted n he should wait 4 me or like write me back. so today i looked for him n it didnt look like he was there. so wtf? like did i just not see him? or what is with him??? (link)
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It sounds to me like he really likes you. Him saying just kidding is just because he was scared of rejection..knowing you wouldn't say it back. The note was probably a good idea, talk to him as soon as possible about it. Whatever you do, don't lead him on.
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Something really bad happened to me when I was a senior in highschool with a guy. I thought that I had put it behind me and had moved on, but the thing is my tenth year reunion is coming up next summer and I'm terrified of running into him again.
I still get nightmares of what happened. Well he was really popular and I was a nerd. He found out I liked him and basically made sure I would be either humiliated or uncomfortable around him. He never once talked to me but he would wait for me to walk down the hall and then make out with his beautiful and popular girlfriend just to see my reaction. He would laugh whenever he caught me blushing, and would come right up to one of his friends whose locker was next to mine just to see me skirm. At my prom he walked right up to my best friend and hit on her and ignored me. He also treated me like this my first year of university because his girlfriend went to the same school as me. The last time I saw him was at the bar when I was 19. I walked up to him to tell him it was my birthday and he just ignored me and walked away.
Well the reunion is coming up and if he's going to be there I know I'm not going to have a good time, it will just drag up all these memories. The worst part is that I never told any of my highschool friends about this because they all liked him and thought he was a great guy, and I didnt want it to get out. It would just make me look bad and he would deny it anyways.
How should I act at the reuinion if he is there? (link)
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I would go, you can't let him control you. He might have changed, you never know and by not going, you'll never find out. You can't hide because of him. Make sure you look REALLY good when you go. And don't make it seem weird, try not to talk to him..Let him approach you.
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Okay...Theres this guy at my school that I have liked for a while, and I like REALLY like him. He knows I like him but he said he didn't like me. Its weird though because I always catch him staring at me in class. Does he like me know or am I just kidding myself?? (link)
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Maybe you should ask him again if he likes you. And next time you catch him staring, smile. He could be looking past you, or maybe you are getting the wrong impression. Hang out with him a few times, and be flirty with him..that might make him like you a little bit more.
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my best friend (ill call her susie) was dating this guy (ill call him bob) for almost a year. they were always together, and it was obvious that they were deeply in love. susie is very loud and outgoing, and is not afraid to speak her mind. she can be a little bit of a pain sometimes. ive gotten in many (non-physical) figts with her that were so bad, that we had to go to counseling just to stay friends. weve been okay for the past 5 months or so. now throughout their relationship, ive always felt a little bit of chemestry with bob, and ive gotten to know him very well because susie would always take me with her to see him. they just broke up 2 months ago, and have both moved on. susie has a new bf, who is bobs friend. theyre not friends anymore. and unfortunatly, bobs moved on to me. i have no doubt in my mind that im in love with him, and i can tell that he feels the same way about me. susie doesnt know, because i know that if she finds out she'll never talk to me again. shes threatened that if i ever do anything with him, she'll never talk to me again. im in love with him, but i dont know what to do. (link)
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I've recently had the same problem, only the girl wasn't my bestfriend. If she has moved on, I don't see why he couldn't. First, you need to decide what's more important..Love or friendship? I, personally, would go for the guy. If Susie gets mad at you over it, then you shouldn't be her friend anyway. Moving on to Bob's friend wasn't nice of her either. Whatever you do, don't ask her about what she would do if you two were together. Just let it happen and then see what she has to say.
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a guy that likes me that i'm friends with is always pretending not to know things about me when he really does. For example, he knows darn well how old I am and what day my birthday is but when he's in front of others he'll say, oh your (not my age) right? Or {when is your birtday?) He also treats me really bad when he's with his guy friends. He will ignore me, and when I talk to him him won't give me eye contact. But when he's alone with me he's sweet and attentive.
Why is he so afraid of what his friends think? Is it that he's embarrassed that he likes me? (link)
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Could be. Maybe you should talk to him about it, and ask why he does that. Guys, just like girls, have a funny way of expressing their true feelings for girls. Talking to him about the way you feel may help.
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I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please! (link)
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I think you should talk to her. Girls have a funny way of getting to guys. Maybe dating other people is a way to make you jealous and want her even more. Tell her you like her, and be honest with her. Make sure whatever you say is sweet, but not "demanding", like she has to be with you. See what she has to say, maybe it will get you two together.
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