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I have been searching and searching for a job but I can't find ANYTHING I am intreseted in! Ive looked at Baskin Robbins, Black Eyed Peas, Eckerd's and they just dont look fun! Have any good, FUN places to work that pays well?
Thanks!!
I think you should go to your nearest mall and work at a clothing store!! They are lots of fun to work in and you get discounts off the clothes, so pick a place you love to shop! You could even work at a tanning salon or as a receptionist at a salon! Good luck job hunting!!
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does anyone know any really cute things they did with their room or ideas they have.. like with picture frames, furnature, poseters, umm and just plain wall decorations!
please helP!
If you like to read magazines, start tearing out pages of actors/actresses you like and other ads that are cute and glue them at the top of your wall like wallpaper! OR if you dont like that idea, paint your wall a light color and whenever your friends come over have them sign your walls with permanant paint pens! It's so much fun and you can always look back at what your friends had to say!! Good luck hun!!
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im startin a job in like a week and im waitressing and bussing and im really nervous howdo i get ova it?
Thats really fun that youre getting a job!! You shouldnt be nervous, but excited! I think the best thing to do is take a hot bath (with bubbles =) the night before your first day and just try to relax! Good luck at work hun!!
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ive got 3 yrs left @ school nd i wna make it go as quick as possible, how can i deal w/ name calling?
Name calling is really immature, especially for high schoolers! I would try and ignore it and dont let it bother you. Dont worry because school will be over before you know it and if you tried to make it go by as fast as possible, you will miss all the fun stuff high school is all about! Good luck!! =)
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Does any one know of any cute make-up styles to wear for a casual date? I have a budget but I do have a lot of products. Can any one help me?
I say go for the brighter colors on the date. When I wear pink shirts I love wearing pink glittery shadow and liner and peachy blush with pink gloss! It looks great!! Another good idea is no blue eyeshadow, you dont want to look like youre from the 80's!!
Here's some great websites to visit you and help!
www.covergirl.com
www.seventeen.com
Good luck on the date!!
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Hey...
This is an awkward question...but when do you start to shave"down there..?" Everyone says its not necessary but ..I am joining swim team this year as a freshman..and idk.....thanks.....(oh and im 14 gonna be 15 in october)
You can start whenever you want to, its really best to shave whenever you have alot of hair and especially when you start swimming! It's so unattractive and just plain sick when you see womens bikini line in their swimsuit!! Good luck!!
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i was wondering the best way to... "enhance" my chest, thick bra, gel, etc,. i dont want to use tissue or any thing like that. is it true pushups, and milk enlarge breast? thanx again
Pushup bra's dont make them grow it makes them look bigger, it grabs everything and pushes it up making it appear bigger. Milk doesnt make your boobs grow either. Thats a rumor. I would go with water or gel cupped bras, like a 32A gel bra. Or just a normal padded bra! Go to a department store and look for yourself! Good luck!
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I really like this guy who is a year older than me and can drive (I cant for a few more months) Well, my mom knows about him and said its fine if we hang out. He invited me to a party with a bunch of people but she said no!! I was so pissed off because she said we could hang out but she wont let me go to parties... any ideas to convince her to let me go?! Thanks!!
Ask her nicely or say friends will go with you and never leave you alone! Good luck!
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I like this guy who I'm not really friends with, but we do talk occasionally. Usually we only talk about school-related things, so now that school's over, we haven't been talking a lot at all. I want to ask him to hang out with me one day during the summer (and hopefully have that one time evolve into more) but I don't know how to ask him.
If you want to hang out, casually bring up hanging out together. If you have a pool, invite him AND some friends to swim... OR invite him to go to the movies with a group of boys and girls. Talk to him while yall are hanging out with everyone and maybe eventually it will turn into just yall two swimming or seeing a movie. Good luck!
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ok, im 12 and im so flat! is it possible to grow boobs over 1 summer? im going to a new school and itd be cool if i had achest
am starting to grow. will i be able to grow in time? if so how big?
i know looks shouldnt matter but every girl i no has a chest
thanx
There isnt anything you can do to grow boobs, there isnt any boob miracle grow. I was flat until the summer before 9th grade, they cant grow in a summer but what I did to feel more comfortable with my chest size was bought a thicker bra and padded swimsuits. Eventually my boobs grew into the bras and swimsuits and I could go sizes bigger. Dont rush into anything! Good luck growing those bewbies of yours ;)
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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him?
Wow! Thats GREAT you dumped him because of drugs, those are a nasty addiction! It would definitly affect your relationship if he did drugs.. I dont think you should take him back. Tell him that he chose drugs over you and that hurts. Maybe if he completely stops, then yall can take it slow and get back together! Good luck!! =)
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad?
The best way to approach the subject is to have them sit down (maybe at dinner or in the living room) and calmly say mom I think I might be pregnant, and if you used protection, tell her! If she asks who the father is, and you seriously dont know, maybe you should say the last guy you slept with. Im so sorry this happened to you! Good luck!
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The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =(
If yall arent dating then I would keep liking him. Just dont be around when hes drinking and the more you hang out, the less he'll drink! I suggest staying away when hes drunk, you never know what crazy things he'll do! Good luck!
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do u have 2 get permission by the golf course 2 do this? that's a really good idea, and there's a golf course really close 2 where i live called kistlers. thanx.
It depends on the golf course, we did it right beside our neighborhood which wasnt golf course property. If you do it on a street curb or sidewalk, most likely you wont have to get permission. Maybe you should make sure, just in case! Good luck!!
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I am a Christian girl. My parents like to go to a supposedly "Christian Phycic" He says that God gives him his powers. I dont really believe in ANYTHING a phycic says, but my parents do. Is this phycic a sin in God's eyes? Please help me understand!
I am also a Christian... and I have been raised to believe that phycics are against God. They cant get their "powers" from Jesus. It doesnt work that way, no matter how convincing he may! Hope I helped!
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Im 5 ft and i weigh 91 Ibs...is that fat?
Not really, you could have alot of muscle and weigh alot but you arent fat.. you know? How old are you? That makes a difference too!! If you think youre fat, try pilates, yoga, or working out! Good luck!!
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what should we do .. there are 2 of us and its about 4:39 pm.. do you have anything to do that won't take to long, doesn't make a huge mess and doesn't involve a computer game or to become an advicenator! please helP! :)
Do each others hair or nails...Watch tv...go running or swimming...play a board game/cards...make up a screenname and talk to people you dont like (cuss them out) thats always fun! haha! good luck!!
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I need to earn some cash 4 my summer vacation. We leave July 15 and I really need to save and make some $ so I can go crazy spending!!!! Lol. I get $20 midmonth and end of the month so when I leave, I'll have $40. That's ok, but I'd like 2 make some more by then. Any suggestions how 2 make some extra cash working around the house or anything? I can't babysit, no little brothers or sisters. If u have any ideas on how 2 make fast and easy $ doing work around the house, tell me!! Thanx.
Luv y'all, Erin (15/f)
A few summers ago, my best friend and I sold lemonade, ice tea, cookies, and water right next to a golf course so whenever thirsty golfers drove by, they always stopped! We made almost a 100 bucks a day! Thats a great way to make money! Also, clean out your room and have a garage sale! I suggest nothing on Ebay because it costs money to put it up then to send it to whoever purchases it! Thats spending money more than making it! Or do extra chores around the house OR walk/watch neighborhood pets OR do neighbors yard work!! Good Luck!!
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my boyfriend is heterosexual (where he likes to get pedicures, manicures, and facials) and it doesnt effect me because it makes him look so much cleaner and nicer, but i think he might also like guys.. at the movies i pointed out that chad michael murray was looking good and he agreed and then he saw 2 guys holding hands at the mall and he was just looking at them and said thats kinda cute.. wtf?! do i ask him or just let him be?
Oh man.. that one is a tough question. If you really need to know if he might be gay, then ask him. But otherwise I would never bring it up because he might get upset or offended and you dotn want that to happen! He might just think that some guys look good and thats okay! My boyfriend said that Brad Pitt looks good and I know he is NOT gay!! Good luck hun!
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my mom met one of my male teachers the last week of school when she had a parent teacher meeting and she actually liked him, my mom is a single parent and well now guess who she is dating?! my teacher mr reeves who i actually had a crush on once.. omg its so weird and i HATE it
should i tell my mom?
You should sit down with your mom and tell her that you are uncomfortable with her dating one of your teachers but only if it bothers you THAT much. Your mom obviously really likes this guy and you shouldnt let it interfere with you, especially when he wont be your teacher anymore next year! Good luck!
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