Well, I really love helping people with stuff, it makes me feel good, and I am going to school to be a psychologist and fashion designer(kind of, haven't decided). I'm 18 and my favorite movie right now is The Wedding Date, because the lines are really cute. Oh and I think the hottest guy ever is Spike(James Marsters) from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, he isn't the only hott guy I like but he is on top of the list.
I have a knack for understanding guys and girls I've been told, and thats good because I don't think I would have made it through school if I didn't.
Well hope to hear from you soon, and by the way just because I'm 18 doesn't mean I'm not mature, I may be young but I know about the world. So questions from all ages are welcome.
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How do you give a good hand job.. like any secret tips?
Also do guys like it when you play/tickle there niples?
Do they like it when you kiss there niples?
Do they like it when you rub your hands on your chest softly..? (link)
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Well mostly guys kinda will take anything, but fast up and down motions along with the area right below the shaft in between the shaft and teh testes, that skin is super sensitive, you can lightly rub that that with your fingers, guys like that. They like it when you suck on the nipples, kissing is good too. Lightly suck on the nipple, and use your tongue to make designs on it, andlight nipping is good too. yes rubbing your hands on the chest get them kind of excited. Pointer: the skin just below the Adam's Apple is sensitive, if you lick that area, it will drive him crazy, good during foreplay. Anymore questions ask away.
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Is there anyway for people to know you and ask you personal questions. I have had only a few personal questions and I wish I had more. Is there like i said anyway to get more popular on this site, or well known?!? (link)
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I think the best thing to do is look up questions and just answer them, because people read and rate. The more questions you answer the more ratings you get.
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year we've even planned on getting married, I'm crazy over him but i always find myself jealous over other girls exspecailly his ex. He wasn't a virgin when i met him and i was, so you know where the story goes from there. I cant help but think that he still loves her sometimes. I mean i dont believe he talks to her but i'm just so afraid of losing him to her. On top of that fear, latley i find myself argueing with him over stupid things, half of the time i dont even remember why the arguements started... I even told him i hated him( i was mad and didnt mean it) I think i'm pushing him away or going crazy... whats my problem?? How do i fix it?? Wht do i do about the ex?? The Jealousy?? plz help me i cant lose him........~luvlee~ (link)
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Honestly, you just need to talk to him, get everything out in the open, if you don't then you will keep having stupid fights, because you are letting it build up inside. Jealousy is just part of life, you can't not be jealous, its nature. If you don't tell him what you are feeling then the relationship is doomes and you and I both don't wan that especially if this is poten tially the guy you are going to marry, you need to be sure about his feelings for you. By the way if he doesn't talk to her, then I don't think he still loves her, i could be wrong, but if he still loved her then he would trying to get in contact with her so he could talk to her or be near her. And you never kow he might still like her but he could just want to be friends with her and you could be friends too, you never know. I know eerything will work out for you, best of luck.
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PLEASE READ WILL RATE 5 I PROMISE JUST PLEASE HELP!
13 f
Ok well i know this is going to be long but i just need help.
this past summer summer 05' i meet the most amazing guy EVER!he was the completely best guy ever i meet him at a school dance i danced with him the whole night he was so cute to me and he was just adroable! I really felt in love so the first week of summer me and a few friends got together to go to the movies and i new he was going to it was a first date kinda thing right and well about 45 mins into the movie we kissed this was my first kiss. too and instead of just that first kiss we also made out that night and i just couldnt belive it. it was amazing i loved him so much. i always got in trouble for talking on the phone with him so late. But i didnt care i was in love we stayed on the phone all day long...even if we wernt talking we could sit there for hours with complet siclence and we'd be happy our next date was at my house he meet my mom and my dad they aproved and so on then he came back for a 2nd date to my house for a while with one of my friends my friend pushed me in the pool too and he jumped in and so on so we just all swam the whole day in our clothes. so we had a few more dates and things where like magic i rember one day we decidec to go to this little festival thing and we kissed this one kiss in the rain for like a min. and i dream about that moment all the time when im asleep so time past the summer went by and well things started getting boring... i didnt wanta break up but i had thought about it but i just didnt want to lose him so time past we spent longer time apart then school started i saw him there but he was a grade ahead of me so i he wasnt like in any of my classes then when i got home he called me he asked how my first day of school was blah blah and then like for no apprent reason he said Sarah i think we should see other people he said i still like you i just want to be single. i said ok and hung up i cryed all the rest of the day and cried that whole week because i really loved him.
SO now like 4 months after all this i still miss him just somehting i havent gotten over i have only been out with on guy since but i broke up with him cause i just didnt want to get back together and see i know i can have any guy in my school that i wanted i mean im not some but ugly fat chick ok but i just still miss him so much every time i hear out song i cry i dont know what to do i need help i would go out with another guy but like i dont wanta sound despret and ask another guy out i want some guy to ask me out but all the stupid boys at our school are to scared to ask me out i just totally need help
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Ok, calm down no need to worry. Now you are 13 and that is really young to be in love, I think you just miss being with him because he was your first, naturally you are going to want be with him. You said you were getting kind of bored with him. I think you should just ask guy out, it won't look like you're desperate, these aren't the dark ages, girls ask guys out all the time. Plus you don't have to have a guy in your life, be an independent woman, guys are always attracted to the girls they think they can't get. And neve cry over a guy its juts not worth believe me. Don't worry about love, it will come to you in time if its right. Hope this helped, good luck in love.
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i'm 15 & female, and i think i have a problem, this may be a little long, but i promise i rate high for good answers. I lost my virginity when i was 14, yes i know a little young, please don't lecture. but it was my boyfriend & mine's first time. after that we ended up having sex 7-8 times, within 7 months. but for some reason, i couldn't ever get an orgasm? sometimes, i had to even fake it, just because i was afraid he was waiting too long. i just figured that maybe he was finishing too early or something? But then him & i break up, and i get a new boyfriend, to whom i've had sex with twice. and he knows that my old boyfriend never got me an orgasm so he tries, so hard. and we even last 2 hours, yet he can never get me one either? sometimes i think it's because of the way i masturbate. i can't seem to get an orgasm by fingering myself, but by only rubbing really fast. i don't know if something is wrong with me? is there anything that i can do, to help me get one faster? please help! (link)
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Ok, well first off, its been medically proven that women don't orgasm everytime they have sex. But since you have had sex several times, you should have orgasmed. Honestly I would see a doctor but I can't see how if you are soo young and I assume your parents don't know. All I can ask is do you think having sex is ok, because sometimes girls subconciously don't let themselves oragasm because they think something is wrong or they don't like the guy or they think having sex early or just having sex is wrong. Maybe you can tell me a little more and I can see if I can help. Best of luck
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i want my make up to look nice and probessional,not slopy and over-done. Let me tell some of my features.
I have : Brown Brig eyes,with long eyelashes(no need for mascara),Brown Layred (shortest layer...a little long there the top of my ear) hair that goes down to a little shorter to the middle of my back. Fair-Olive skin that is Normal/Oily.Black bushy eyebrows (getting them shapend on saturday!)Dark Circles under my eyes..(how do i get rid of them?)Um...im only 13 so you cant tell i have high cheekbones yet,but im going to be 14 soon.And pink,normal lips.
Soo,what im asking is what make up exactly should i use for the movie-star touch,what brands,what is a good facial cleaners that tightens pores**and prevents and fights blemishes,and what would be the perfect style for my hair?! tomarrow is a big day,and i really need a good impression on some people!! (link)
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I would suggest this mask its called(Queen Helene Mint Julep Masque) it helps clean out pores and gets rid of pimples and blackheads, even if you don't have any, use it for glowing skin.
Make-up and hair:
Natural look:
Face: use a nice loose powder that matches your skin tone or a light weight foundation on your face so not to clog your pores too much.
Eyes: a shimmery dark brown, put on with a brush not a sponge applicator, the sponge applicator will make it too dark. On the skin between your lid and brow use a sheer brown( do not put the shadow under the shped part of your brow).Under the brow where it is shaped use a pearlyor opal white shadow to highlight the brow, so just under the brow where it is shaped loosely put some of the color I suggested there.
You might want to use a brown mascrara, just a little so it completes the look, and maybe a light brown eyeliner to define your eyes and make them pop.
Lips: use a colored gloss, maybe a light pink, keep your lips light and natural, kind of like Jennifer Lopez or Eva Longoria.
Cheeks: a rosey pink lightly put on with a blush brush will be nice, right on the apple of the cheek.
For a glowing look, you can brush a bronzer over your face, a bronzer that matches your skin tone, don't put to much bronzer on it will look fake and horrible if you put too much on. And that pretty much completes the make-up and it will look glam. Go here if you want more advice on it, its a how to site
http://beauty.ivillage.com/makeovers/makeuplessons/topics/0,,4tbl,00.html
just copy and paste that into your URL line.
Hair: soft curls that hang, flowy and pretty, don't use too much hairspray, just nice and natural, its all about enhancing your beauty.
Hope this helped, more questions, just ask me, Have a great night!
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i have liked this guy for a while, and i think he likes me, but i dont know. i asked this question before, and the answers i got were just another lot of questions, so im putting all the answers to the questions, and from that, i hope you all can tell me if he likes me. (Btw, he kinda flirts with me in class, but he told me once he liked this girl that he went out with last year, but he still likes her, and almost alwayz walks her to class every other day.)
1. Is he always trying to talk to you? yea
2. Does he smile a lot when he talks to you? yea
3. Is he shy and afraid to look you in the eye? When we talk to each other, its not like he's shy, but looking me straight in the eye and its almost like he's daring me to look away
4. Does he always offer help? no
5. Does he sit next to you? he has to during class, but idk if he would if he didnt have 2
6. Does he walk w/ you after class? no, he walks with this girl that he told me he likes
7. Has he made an attempt to hang out after class? sometimes we listen to my ipod after class if that counts
8. Has he gotten your Screen name or telephone number? both
ill rate high 4 good answers...thxx (link)
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I'm going to try not to ask any questions, I might ask some rhetorical ones though.
It sounds like he likes you, but on a friend level, he is kind of focused on this other girl, now if you want to you can kinda hint to him that you like him, guys are big flirts in the first place, so just flirting with him is just like a normal daily thing. Maybe after class you can see if he wants to walk you to class, like maybe accidentally have to much stuff to carry to your next class and see if he will help you, that could work. I think he likes you, but maybe the other girl too, so you have to seperate yourslef, but not to much, he might not like really forward girls. So just take some of my suggestions if you want. Good luck, hope you get your man.
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Okay I realllllllly want a dog. But my mom says No because I dont take care of the dog. How do I convince or talk to her so she can let me get a little puppy! Please help me .
And if I do get one what should I name her.
I have already had dogs named : Chiqui Nena Reina Princess Dutches Taina Sice
So I wanna try something different. Please help ! thanks . (link)
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Well to conviince your parents it is going to take more than talking, you are gonna have to prove you are responsible, like maybe cleaning your room a little more often, doing homework in front of them so they think you are being a good student. When you talk to her, tell her you just want someone to play with, every boy or girl has their own dog. You can tell her that getting a dog would help you be more responsible. Hope this helped.
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lately my boyfriend has had girls all over him or at least tryin to be. i dont go to the same school as him or get to see him all the time. i see him like once every two weeks. anyways here is my problem he used to like this girl be4 he meet me. he asked her out and she wanted to except she didnt because she thought he was a big flirt so didnt. and now she is going back to liking him and she trys to be around him all the time. (from what he tells me) and i know that he likes her still because he still talks to her and flirts with her. (i know guys are big flirts) but lately i have been getting jealous that she can spend more time with him then i can. one more thing on top of that i barely get to talk to him on the phone anymore. his phone is ALWAYS busy. and he has his own line so his parents dont use it. i know for a fact that no guy can talk to another guy for over 2 hours. i want to tell him how i feel except i dont want him to think that i dont trust him. because i do i just dont know or want to know her or trust her. someone help me out!! please. (link)
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While a lot of the people on here will say he is cheating, or he's not trustworthy, think about his perspective, he could just being trying to get you to focus more on him. He is the one telling you this stuff right? If you haven't seen it first hand then I would say he is just wanting you to be around him more, craving attention from his girl, most guys need lots of attention. Also, guys sometimes aren't the brightest people, so him not calling you is a big deal, but he probly doesn't think about it, he is a guy, he just figures you are gonna call.
Now that I have said that, if the above is not the case then I would try to ask him, ask him casually, like if he is talking about that girl, just saknhim if he still likes her. Yoi are never gonna find out until you ask, and you can't go behind his back to find out, that would be kind of snooping and if he found out he could be a little angry, honesty is always best.
Hope this helped.
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What do you do when you've got two people that really like each other but they are both really shy?
The guy that I like ( and he likes me back) is really shy. We've done things together as friends like played tennis and gone to hockey games. But he's never tried to kiss me or even go to second base with me. The most we have done is hugged each other. I'm really shy too so I've never tried anything with him, but I'm worried that if I keep waiting for him to make the first move it will never happen!
I want to break out of character and make the first move the next time I see him.
Does anyone have any advice on how I could do this without freaking him out! (link)
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Since you are kinda shy and I am too, I would start by hugging a little longer than normal, and see what his reaction is. Maybe link arms while you walk, that is flirting but not to forward. And someone said kiss his cheek, thats good too. And you won't be going out of character, you do what you want, anything you do is coming from you, you just wanna bump the relationship up a little more, and thats not out of character. Good luck with the guy, he sounds cute.
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alrite 1year ago doctor said i had carpal tunnel he gave me a brace to wear it didnt work so he then gave me a splint(like a half cast goes on the bottom half of your arm) i wore that for about 4 months. he said it would last about 6months but it is still hurting a yr later.. i put the brace on it like 4 days ago and only take it off to take a shower. but i is hurting really bad and mom says i just aggraveted the nerves i want to go to the doctor again.. to see if anything else is wrong.. should i or do u thing it is still the carpal tunnel??
answers a.s.a.p would be really nice thx
ill rate 5 unless u give me crappy answer..
kim 16/f (link)
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I would ask the doctor for sure, something like that can be painful and could mean the doctor isn't exactly right, maybe you should get a second opinion, because the doctor apparently isn't doing an awesome job. Hope you feel better soon.
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ok I am talking to my X Boyfriend and we are thinking of dateing again cause we cant really let each other go...and my mom dosnt like him at ALL!! she calls him a jerk and all that....I have been asking her to give him another chance cause he really has changed....and my x boyfriend (might be boyfriend) he keeps talking about how I hurt him and he tells me that he was heartbroken for a month or 2 and he feels better that we might be dateing agian...but how can I get my mom and dad to approve of him again???
PLEASE HELP ME!!! I will rate all 5's I just really need ADVICE!! (link)
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Just like someone else said, try to prove to your parents that he is changed, but before you do that make sure he has changed, because if he has not changed and you find that out in the middle of the realationship, your parents will never let you live it down. Also, I just wanted to say that its good you are giving him a second chance. Now when you say can't be apart do you mean all the time, just make sure you can be independent, that will make sure he won't become too clingy, and things will go great.
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i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx (link)
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Yeah, try to sit near if you don't have assigned seats, move at leat one seat and maybe sometime you can casually ask to borrow a pen or paper. If you can't do that, then this one always works, ask him what the homework assignment was, he will just think you forgot and be happy to tell you. If none of this works, contact me and tell me a little more about him.
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Does the book...A Midsummer Night's Dream have a hero's journey to it? You know... The call, the threshold, the threshold guardians..? Because I'm not sure what's going on in the book because my vocabulary sucks.. (link)
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Well, not really, the book is more about love and the lessons of love, and also some jealousy in there. Anymore questions, talk to me,I'm not quite sure what you are asking.
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