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Im a jazz dancer and i love dancing! i also love singing. Im the youngest out of my 4 older brothers and i live in indiana. I want to be a performer when i am older and i also want to be a journalist. Feel free to AIM me because i *LOVE* to chat on it! Im also good at giving advice too. =]

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okay well ive had really bad lower stomach cramps for like the past 4 weeks or so... i got my period like 2 weeks ago adn then i just got it agian last night-- im really scared bc i dont know what could be wrong--could this be some sorta probelm?? or should i just like not even worry about it

take some midal and go to a doctor!

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well, my mom was acting really crazy last night. she got mad at me and my sister for no reason and starting yelling at us. it's been like a whole day and she hasnt even talked to either one of us. she makes me really depressed and it makes my stomach hurt. i dont know what to do. i think she hates us.

you mom doesnt hate you! shes just going threw a stessful time. i think that everybodys mom love them. My mom does that sometimes too. Just clean up the house and make dinner and tell her that you love her and things will get better!

hope i helps..rate high!

Love Cierra

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Is Ellen Degenirus a lesbian? I dont know! Help!

yes

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♥'s Cierra

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I have dated this girl before (I am bisexual, I am also female). She cheated on me once, but at least told me. Then I left her, and then about 4 months we went back out. Now we are on a break again. I am waiting 'till she gets her car, but the problem is.. I am not sure if I can COMPLETELY trust her. What do you all think?

I really love her.. she makes me so happy..

dont date her again! relationships revolve around trust! just be friends until you can trust her.

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I have dated this girl before (I am bisexual, I am also female). She cheated on me once, but at least told me. Then I left her, and then about 4 months we went back out. Now we are on a break again. I am waiting 'till she gets her car, but the problem is.. I am not sure if I can COMPLETELY trust her. What do you all think?

I really love her.. she makes me so happy..

i wouldnt date her again..relationships revolve around trust. just be friends

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How can I get this guy I like in jr.high that is 12-13 to notice me even though he says he does not like me?

look cute.

rate high and i'll give more advice!

xO Cierra

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omg i flipping out cuz i have these zits i want to get rid of. can someone plase put the toothpaste steps easly understandable ! nd i also popped one ... how can i make it heel faster?

tooth paste doesnt work that great.. i would go out to CVS or the dollar general and get some clearasil and put alot over all of ur zits at night time and then get some face wash and wash your face in the morning then put moisterizor and then put some foundation over it.

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xO Cierra

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Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends?

i wouldnt label it like boyfriend/girlfriend tell him to take it slow and your see. =]

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xO Cierra

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ok this mite be a lil confusing. I like this kid Pat..I have for a while he just hasn`t known but now he finally does and he acts like he likes me too but he doesnt really TELL me he actually likes me he just tells me that he thinks im soo hott..and have a gorgeous face and perfect body hes 2 years older then me but thats nothing new because i am always going out with older guys..but he wants to be my 1st also..but he said he isnt DYING to do it with me and stuff..i just dont know if i should..and i know everyone is probly just going to say that i shouldnt but i would because i KNOW that he would ALWAYS be there for me as a friend no matter what happened. also right now he has a girlfriend probably the toughest girl in school or the 2nd or 3rd and she could defidently beat me up or what ever so on top of that i would get my ass kicked. which SUCKS but he told me and all his friends that he was gunna dump her anyways..but i just cant let her find out because i would get my ass kicked. so i dont know if i should just like hook up with him or not but i would because he would ALWAYS be there for me and thats a garentee...cuz me and him are bestfriends and probly always will be..is it a good idea? because its mostly just a friendship kinda thing. thanks this is kinda important but kinda confuseing...bye..

* Confused

this is a lie..a BIG old lie lie lie lie lie

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Ok heres whats going on...I am 9 weeks and 1 day pregnant and my boyfriend who lives with me just got a new job today...well the job that he has is like washing horses and doing stuff around a farm...well he just got home and said that the guy who he has started working for wants him to go out of town to vagrinia and me and my boyfriend which are engaged live in georgia...well they would go out of town for the whole week and my boyfriend would only be home for the weekends, and I dont know what to do I mean I want him to have a job and everything but I dont want him to be that far away from me...because what if something happens...I would only be able to see him 3 days every week untill the baby is born and he might keep the job...well I wanted to know what yall think I should do...I know I'll miss him so much and I dont know what to tell him about if he should go or not..so if anyone can help me with this I will rate high..thanks..bye

tell him that you want him to have the job but not until after the baby is born..tell him that ur scared that something will happen and he wont be there. he will under stand =]

please rate high

xO Cierra

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I have really bad panic attacks and they seem to be controling me. I am running out of ideas on what to do. I have had aniexty since I was 4 years old. I am 15 now. I just need to get my life back in order. I am just not sure how. If anyone has panic attacks, can you give me ideas to get over them?

I also I many mental issues. Like angoraphobia, O.C.D, Panic disorder, Aniexty, and alot of others. I have been to two mental hospitals and 50 or more doctors and consualors.. I am losing all hope on myself.

get someone to talk to.

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okay well, my best friend and i, we just got super close, and well yeah. He has a girlfriend, but before they hooked up I told him i liked him like 3 weeks ago, and things got odd, but then got better. Anyway. So everyday he sits with me when the lunch periods almost over, and we talk, and even though his friends sit at the table right next to us and theyre right there, he wont talk to them and he talks to me. So a couple days ago i went to his house with my friend and he just payed more attention to me. Like when we were playing basketball he passed the ball to me every time and never to her. Then today, he was sitting with me and we were looking at pictures, and we could have been far appart but he leaned in really close. And then my friend dom told him this sixth grader didnt like him anymore, and he's like, okay i dont care im not cheating on my girlfriend, i dont think, and he looked me directly in the eye and we made eye contact and he stared at me for a minute and then some one started talking to us. So then at this assembly thingy, 2 of the people he sits with said something about stabbing him, like joking around, so i told him, and he was like, what nicks not my friend. and so i told nick and hes like, shut up bitch, in a playing way, but i told him anyway, and he was like, Yo, WHAT DID YOU CALL HR? WHAT? and then later today he was like, i would have said something but our reading teacher was right behind us. and i we kept talking and anyway im just wondering if he thinks were more than just friends??


and i have another question. today he had a break down and he was like, i dont have any friends, the only people i have is my girlfriend and you and my other friend, and me and his other friend are REALLY worried that he's going to like kill himself, because when we told him to hold on he said he'd held long enough. What can i do to help him?

i would tell his parents or some teacher at school..it might be tattle-taily but at least u could save him.

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SO ONE FRIDay i was playing around with my bff's and on propse i opned that the bathroom door on one of them 9 don't ask me why i did it) & it was kinda funny, so i laughed. then i went to the bathroom and they diched me. it didn't make me mad cause thy do it all te time. i figued they were mad & figured that they would be over it by monay.they didn't. today is friday that was a week ago. i tried to write an apoige letter before i sent it she sent me a letter. it was really mean the called me a "no longerer" & cused me out.so someone went an talked to them & told them that wrote a letter but didn't send it( do u blame me) so they she worte me another letter saying they didn't want to be mad and sayed should apoliged at the beginning not know. so i still haven't sent the letter yet & i don't do. i'm really hurt & want to be their frirnd agian. they are some of their best friends i have ever had so what should i do any body have an idea please help, ask your friends,I'm desprite!!!!!

i answered this already..you shouldnt have dont that..just try to be friends again and if that doesnt work get new friends!

-Cierra

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Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me

well if i were u i would have the baby but i would but it in a foster home until i could take care of it. i wouldnt run away and stop trying to kill yourself! you are carrying a baby and for the babys sake take care of urself! stop using drugs to bcuz now ur not only killing urslef but also the baby. please be careful!

-Cierra

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this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl.

that is really scary! i would get on my knees and pray to God to get those voices out of my head! and doing witchcraft is messing with satan..if i were u i would watch it! and PLEASE be careful!

-Cierra

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help!! okay i dont know what to do, for about three weeks now my hair has been falling out in like little clumps and when i wash it or brush it so much hair falls out, i dont know what to do because about half my hair is already gone! its not really noticable that its been falling out though cause my hair was really think to begin with. i eat more than the required enough amount of protien so i was wondering what could be causing this?? could it be my medicene...amitriptyline? please help i will rate 5s for anyone who can help me!

maybe some medicine your taking might cause it? if i where u i would go to the doctor ASAP!

-Cierra

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SO ONE FRIDay i was playing around with my bff's and on propse i opned that the bathroom door on one of them 9 don't ask me why i did it) & it was kinda funny, so i laughed. then i went to the bathroom and they diched me. it didn't make me mad cause thy do it all te time. i figued they were mad & figured that they would be over it by monay.they didn't. today is friday that was a week ago. i tried to write an apoige letter before i sent it she sent me a letter. it was really mean the called me a "no longerer" & cused me out.so someone went an talked to them & told them that wrote a letter but didn't send it( do u blame me) so they she worte me another letter saying they didn't want to be mad and sayed should apoliged at the beginning not know. so i still haven't sent the letter yet & i don't do. i'm really hurt & want to be their frirnd agian. they are some of their best friends i have ever had so what should i do any body have an idea please help, ask your friends,I'm desprite!!!!!

i think that u have learned ur lesson. tell them that and say sorry again but if they wont forgive you and be friends again then forget about them and go and get new ones.but i kno friends are hard to find so if you get new ones dont screw up!

-Cierra

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ok um im gonna put this very bluntly....my mom only has only about 1 month and a half left to live and i love her and im tryin to deal wit it the best way I can may not be the best way to everyone else but even my counseler said ppl react to this shit differently and this is just how im dealin wit it....there are a few girls in my skool who keep callin me slut and shit because i had sex twice wit a guy ive been datin for 5 months and sayin how i only try to get attention when im in skool and shit and they said no one feels bad for me and my little issues at home. That fukin hurt me like hell but im not gona say anything to them or cry bout it bc i dont want to show them that what they said got to me...how do i deal with this how do i get them to understand without fukin TALKING to them (because we all kno that dont work wit junior high bitches) or without literally holdin a gun to each one of there temples and scarin the shit out of them til they respect me what the hell do i do im offically screwy now...idk what to do. plz help

well try not to cuss as much in ur little post..im reading a book right now thats called *you shouldnt have to say goodbye* its a book about a girl loosing her mom to cancer..its a really good book..you should read it and see how she gets threw it..and forget about those mean girls at skool dont let them get to you! just hang out with your friends. spend the most time with your mom..pray for her and ask God to get into her heart and to forgive her. because im sure you want her in heaven. maybe try to go to a church. God can make it all work..and it would be nice to know shes in heaven watching over you. and also listen to your councler..they are good and im sure they can realate!

-Cierra

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I'm looking for a nice dress for the end of the year band banquet but i dont know where to do besides Macy's and JCPennys...is there any other store you recommend i can go to for some dresses...i want the nice long dresses, almost like prom but it doesn't have to be fluffy. thanks in advance!

Sears, Kohls, Oldnavy, Elder Berman, & Hottopic, (for punky dresses)

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Hey ok so im really good friends with this girl.. and well i kind of did stuff with her brother uhm yeah and he went back and told her what we did.. so now she hates me! But i couldnt help it.. i really like him and now she gets on my case about lieng to her and i cant stand it because she doesnt understand because she thinks that she is the only one that can feel strongly to her b/f!.. And even her mom tried talking to her about it and i still think she doesnt understand.. but ive also went out with her brother before and she didnt care.. and i dont know what to do or to say to her.. and its making me mad that i cant even talk to her about it and the fact that she doesnt trust me either!!!

well maybe u surprised her..i mean u did do "stuff" with her brother..i kno i would be mad..put urself in her shoes..then maybe u will see how she feels.

-Cierra

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