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junior high bitches
ok um im gonna put this very bluntly....my mom only has only about 1 month and a half left to live and i love her and im tryin to deal wit it the best way I can may not be the best way to everyone else but even my counseler said ppl react to this shit differently and this is just how im dealin wit it....there are a few girls in my skool who keep callin me slut and shit because i had sex twice wit a guy ive been datin for 5 months and sayin how i only try to get attention when im in skool and shit and they said no one feels bad for me and my little issues at home. That fukin hurt me like hell but im not gona say anything to them or cry bout it bc i dont want to show them that what they said got to me...how do i deal with this how do i get them to understand without fukin TALKING to them (because we all kno that dont work wit junior high bitches) or without literally holdin a gun to each one of there temples and scarin the shit out of them til they respect me what the hell do i do im offically screwy now...idk what to do. plz help
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hun there's not a lot that you can do, they are just being childish little girls. you're going through something that they could not possibly understand and that's why they are doing that. lately i've started saying this "if you've got one person to stand by you, you can take on the world." if you've got someone that you can talk to when you're upset about your mom then you don't have to worry about those little bitches who are treating you like shit. the next time they say something just simply smile, say "thanks for the attention" and walk away. nothing pisses off a bully more than having them think that they aren't bothering you at all with what they're saying, all you've got to do is be strong, i'm sure that's what your mom would want
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Your counsler is right, everyone does deal with that kinda thing differently...and it's a lot of shit for someone your age to deal with. I'm sorry to hear about your mom spend all the time you can with her.
About the lunatics in your school...they are jealous, do your best to ignore them. They are probably the ones without boyfriends, and if they have one they are probably losers. You are not a slut, their opinion is not important, nor will it be believed by those who know you. I wouldn't worry about getting them to understand anything, they are not worth your time or energy.I know it makes you feel bad but since they are stupid and have no idea of the emotional trauma you are experiencing at home right now, the best you can do is just ignore them all together. Hang in there as best you can. :)
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I say, forget about them. If they see that you are being hurt by them they will continue to do it for there own pleasure. Whatever you do do NOT put a gun to someones head. I know times may be hard but, the only way to handle a situation like this is to CONFRONT these bitches and tell them how you feel. Get it clear through there evil minds that they are torturing you for something they dont know the whole story about. Its your life and your bussiness they dont need to be innvolved. Hope i helped
<3// meghan
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Babe, try really hard to get the little bitches out of your head, you don't need them right now what so ever. You have much more important things ging oon then that, don't let them waste your time, you be the one to be like 'Oh okay, thankyou for you comment, shove it up your ass next time' or somthing, i dno.. just think that your the better one to not be sayin somthing. If they keep up with it, slap her or somthing. But forget about them, be with your mom & friends, they dont need your time. Hey goodluck with your mom, sorry to hear about it.. these things happen, keep your head up, be with your friends, keep doing the things you loove to do and try to give your mom the last few amazing days of her life.. show her you care and make her feel as special as possible and stay strong hunn :) hope i helped
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well if i were you i wouldnt be worrying about what those other people thought about me..you're doing what you're doing for you not for them, and its really none of their business
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well try not to cuss as much in ur little post..im reading a book right now thats called *you shouldnt have to say goodbye* its a book about a girl loosing her mom to cancer..its a really good book..you should read it and see how she gets threw it..and forget about those mean girls at skool dont let them get to you! just hang out with your friends. spend the most time with your mom..pray for her and ask God to get into her heart and to forgive her. because im sure you want her in heaven. maybe try to go to a church. God can make it all work..and it would be nice to know shes in heaven watching over you. and also listen to your councler..they are good and im sure they can realate!
-Cierra
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