ok this mite be a lil confusing. I like this kid Pat..I have for a while he just hasn`t known but now he finally does and he acts like he likes me too but he doesnt really TELL me he actually likes me he just tells me that he thinks im soo hott..and have a gorgeous face and perfect body hes 2 years older then me but thats nothing new because i am always going out with older guys..but he wants to be my 1st also..but he said he isnt DYING to do it with me and stuff..i just dont know if i should..and i know everyone is probly just going to say that i shouldnt but i would because i KNOW that he would ALWAYS be there for me as a friend no matter what happened. also right now he has a girlfriend probably the toughest girl in school or the 2nd or 3rd and she could defidently beat me up or what ever so on top of that i would get my ass kicked. which SUCKS but he told me and all his friends that he was gunna dump her anyways..but i just cant let her find out because i would get my ass kicked. so i dont know if i should just like hook up with him or not but i would because he would ALWAYS be there for me and thats a garentee...cuz me and him are bestfriends and probly always will be..is it a good idea? because its mostly just a friendship kinda thing. thanks this is kinda important but kinda confuseing...bye..
karenR answered Thursday April 28 2005, 11:01 pm: Nope. You should learn right now that there are no guarantees in this life as far as love goes! If he wants you without committing to only you, then he will be using you. It is never a good idea to just go do it without a committed partner. Boys will tell you anything to get what they want, please don't learn that the hard way. If he really likes you, he will break up with the current girlfriend, he will take you on proper dates, and then if the relationship holds up for awhile and you are truly ready for it to happen, it will. This is one time when you have to use your head and not your heart...hard as that may be. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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