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There is a guy from my work place who I know has a huge crush on me. I decided to give him a chance after months of him flirting and started flirting back. He was acting all lovey dovey and I was certain he would soon ask me out. Well I went on a weeks holiday from work that I had booked months in advance. When I got back from my holiday the guy from work was acting distant and I almost got the feeling that he was angry at me for going away! Does anyone have any ideas about what is going on with him?
he could have missed you its true and he could be mad. but sweetsz he has no reason at all to be mad. tell him that you noticed. and that its hurting you the way hes acting. but remember hes doing it out of love pain. so he doesnt hate you. or maybe he's just bored. make fun conversations the way you used to. be funny and keep trying.
im 15/f. my boyfriend and i have been going out for two years, but several months ago he cheated on me. he admitted it, and apologized, and told me it was the worst mistake he ever made, so i gave him another chance. since then things have been pretty good, but im having a hard time getting past that. he flirts with girls all the time (even the one he cheated on me with), and even though he swears that he loves me more than anything, i cant help feeling jealous and suspicious. i few times ive talked to him about how his flirting hurts me... but i hate doing that because i dont want to drive him away by being an overpossessive gf. plus it makes me feel guilty for not trusting him, because he tells me that im the most important thing in his life and that he cant live without me. so why cant i just believe him? sometimes i just get mad and act mean to him without telling him why im mad, which i know is stupid because thats just gonna push him away too. but i hate seeming like im nagging at him or dont trust him. i love him so much, and i really wish i could trust him... but for some reason i cant. how can i get over this?
well it seems you have the standard non comunication problem.i mean your talking but hes not listening. well the way your describing the way you handle the situation i can tell that you must be soft spoken. if he really loved then he would stop (tell him that) and sweetie the puppydog look isnt going to work anymore. get serious and get mad. if it hurts you bad enuf then say to stop or he might loos you. (dont actually do it. that should scare him and make him stop) but lovey you could be paranoid. alot of girls hoo care about their boyfriends want to make them happy and feel like their flirting with every girl.
I am 15/f.
There is this guy who I almost went out with... we hung out almost every weekend for months...then he went out with someone else and I got over him. We stayed friends. He just turned 18.
Yesterday I saw him at his graduation, and he asked me to hang out. It was already around 10, and he was going to be hanging out with a few other guys, and that he would take me home. I said, "I don't know..." because I felt it would be awkward with just me and his guy friends. (Not that we would do anything bad, at all.) He said, "It's ok if you don't want to."
So I didn't, and I kind of wish I did.
But anyways, i am going to have a boring weekend.
So should I ask him to hang out?
yah go right ahead. yous still friends even though its not going anwhere. if none of your girl friends a free for the weekend then ask him
so last night my sister [17] had a bunch of her friends over. i'm 15 [turning 16 in september] and one of her guy friends [17] likes me. i just met him last night, and he apparently really likes me. but he was sweet about it and didn't say i was hot, but said i was very attractive. and we sat next to each other and he was very casually putting his arm around me and kept moving closer.
i could tell that he definitely wanted to make out with me, but i just felt weird about it since i just met him. i mean he's really nice, and i kinda want to make out with him, but i just felt weird at the moment about it.
he's coming back over tonight, and i can't decide what i should do. should i make out with him tonight? i mean i know it would only be a harmless hookup but i'm just not sure.
thanks!
well if you dont want to make out then you dont have to. satisfy him with a snuggle up on the couch. but really i say go for it. live you life to the fullest. whens the next time youll ever make out with somebody. but he'll understand if puts the move on you and you gently push him away tell your not comfortable. or take him to the kitchen and tell him there if you dont want the preassure from your friends
ok..srry this is gonna be long...i got a bf at school..even though i'm not allowed to have a bf (i'm 15/female) and a week and a half later my mom and dad found out...and i've only hugged and held hands w/ my bf,fyi...my dad said i can hold hands w/ him..and hug him only, but as friends. so i asked him " why would i hold hands w/ one of my friends" he said "take the offer or leave it" and i told my bf all this and he said "whatever ur parents dont know wont hurt them" but if i ever went out w/ my bf to the movies or anywhere my parents said we had to go w/ a group...and i want to kiss him and stuff but if i went out w/ him its for sure that my parents would ask "did you two kiss" and i cant lie..i dont want to lie...i have my parents trust and loosing it would be awful...but i'd die if i had to be his gf and not kiss him or anything...and i like him a lot! any advice?
well you can go to the movies as a group then just go see your own movie. as to kissing your bf is right 'whatever your parents dont know wont hurt them'.
Hi, I am 15/f. This will be long--sorry.
I have never had a boyfriend, first kiss, etc. The thing is, I always thought I would, by now.
Many people have told me I can get any guy I want, that I'm pretty, I should be a model, etc. But when I look in the mirror, I don't see a pretty person. I see a person who has to wear makeup to look pretty.
I'm tall (5'7") and I think I'm smart too (2nd in my class of 400).
A few guys have liked me and I have almost went out with one, but then he went out with someone else.
Some of the guys I push away (not intentionally, but I'm not sure) by being mean to them if I don't like them. And unless a guy I like is outgoing and talks to me first, I usually ignore him and pretend that I don't like him.
I don't know why I do this. Is it because I subconsciously don't want a boyfriend?
And here's an extra factor: I'm Chinese but I live in a small town where there's very few other Chinese kids (3 in my entire school pop. of 1700). I have grown up with mostly white kids, so I like mostly white guys.
My question is:
Why don't I have a boyfriend? Am I too smart? Too tall? Not pretty enough? Is it because I push them away? Or because I am Chinese? Does race matter?
Thanks.
never be mean or ignore the guy that like you. because how you act will reflect from the guys to their friends. and they will think your too mean or stuck up. always be outgoing. you need to make the boys come to you. you cant just wait around for the boy. sweetsz i think you want a boyfriend but you just dont know how to go about it. race doesnt always matter in love. when you find the right guy he will love you for who you are. no your not too smart. just dont make youself to geeky. hang out with your friends and be in the 'in-crowd' and tell everyone you have places to go on the weekend (geeks are always home on a saturday night) you might be a little tall but at 15 all the boys shoulf be 6" by now. if you had boys that have taken an interest to you efore then of course your pretty. make-up still wouldnt hurt. not too dark though and never be without lipgloss
how do i go about admitting to a boy that i actually like him when i've turned him down about fifty times? he's a tenacious kid and he hasn't given up and i think that's why i like him. but i just CAN'T imagine actually admitting to him OR my friends that i'm actually interested in him. help. :(
well dont let the pressure off your friends ruin your love life. the gboy is obviously very serious about you. but you dont like him and he needs to get the hint. dont tell him in front of yo friends and dont smile when you see it (he will just think your kidding) be serious if your serious. tel him that you dont want your friendship to suffer. and that you dont anything to seem too uncomfortable. he will stop
unfortunatly, ive fallen in love again. im 13/f and can thelp the way i feel. the guys name is matt. hes a grade above me, and school is going to end soon, so how do i get him to notice me? the second i saw him i felt some kind of connection. hes really nice and sweet, but im not suure what to do? all help is appreciated, and if you have any questions ill clear them up
thanks
where lip gloss. tight clothes without looking too slutty. skirts recommended to show off your legs. pastel make-up (aplied lightly not to dark) and theres nothing wrong with twisting the way you walk. laugh loudly to show you have a sence of humor. stay close by without actually fallowing him. catch his eyes without staring at him (then he knows youve really noticed him) and hold your head up high to show confidence
ok well im thinking about getting my belly button pierced, and my ears peirced, does it hurt? any advice or soemthing i should do before going in.
i recently got my ears pierced. they sit you down and quickly take this gunlike thing and click. it doesnt hurt at all. trust me and its super fast and simple. just sit in the chair they dot your ears and ask if you think their even and 1 2 3 'click' your done. belly button is more complicatted. you lie down they clean you belly button. they then put a clamp on your belly button to keep it still. then they insert the needle (dont worry they tell you everything before they actual do it) its a little preassure but it doesnt hurt that much. then they remove the needle and put the ring on.
i understand love but my 2 bffs are in love and dating. but their my 2 best frinds and their dating(girl and guy). im 13/f. i dont want then to break up and fall apart and me be in the middle which i think theyll never hate eachother. but their soooo lovey i guess. and they have alone time but around me or on aim or the phone their so 'oh i love you sooooo much and ooooo stop that there tickeling eachother and kissing and they always lick and suck on eachothers ears wats up with that. anything anywhere like ill say when we go out as friends can u stop kissing long enough to get in the car gawd. i dont want them to end up hating eachother. and i dono what to do to keep them together or as friends. and i dono what to do when their so gushy. what do i do? im lost?
well you could be feeling like the third wheel. i understand how you feel. try getting a bf of you own. or get some of you other friends and hang with them a little more. your bffs love you they just want to be a couple too. dont crowd them so much. theres really nothing to do about there relationship wise.
ok so me and my girlfriend broke up because all we did was hug but we only went out for two days
so monday im going to show her how far i will go with her by doing something... but i dont know if we should go out because were realy good freinds but i think she takes things to fast so if we went out eventualy she would get bored of me and break up to go out with someone else right someone please help
well youve been dating a few days and all your doing is hugging. thats going a little slow.talk to her and go on small dates. (its too soon to go to dinner dates) go to the movies but dont invite her over. and theres nothing wrong with kissing. (not frenching)
Hei!
What does: "V nashi okna po nocham letjat letjat letjat" mean?
I am seeing it posted in hundreds of forums but nobody ever offers to translate it and there is no translation I can find!
Help? What does it mean? What language is it?
well its russion if you need help with any translations type in 'babel fish'in you search engine and the number 1 website shouldsay translation in it
ok on myspace i was trying out different layouts and then i looked at the page and was wide, i mean really wide.like you couldn't go up or down, just left and right. what do i do to fix this? please help me.
it could be that layout or that the layout codes are wrong. go to www.tennayalayouts.com thats what i use. their cute and thy work.
sorry this is kinda long?
i dont know if this is in the right category but wat ever. ohkay. so my hair is so frizzy. ive tried hair spray, gels, frizzy stuff (the kind you jsut rub in your hair), and tring to clip it down and then doing a head beand and shampoos and well basically none of its worked i have really curly hair and its dry. im too self concicous (sp?) to do anything with it besides putting it in a bun. So what im asking if anyone has styling ideas for someone with long curly hair (pics if possible and steps) not like a pony tail i know how to do that. and how to deal with my frizzy hair. please only respond with thing that work. sorry i have so many requirements but this hair thing is really aggivating.thank you in advance
i have that same problem. DO NOT BLOW DRY YOUR HAIR. put some pink lotion(hair product) in it. let your hair dry out then tie it down with a bandana for a day. that should squish you hair. then put some mouse in it. you can also traighten it afterwards. but you have to keep it up. the reason your hair is dry is because of you pillow(it sucks all liquid out) so sleep with a badanna tightly on your head. when you wake up gel the edges and brush it back. in just a couple of days your hair should improve
my hair always dries frizzy after i shower even after using frizz free shampoo....
how do i get sleek straight after i shower
i have that same problem. DO NOT BLOW DRY YOUR HAIR. put some pink lotion(hair product) in it. let your hair dry out then tie it down with a bandana for a day. that should squish you hair. then put some mouse in it. you can also traighten it afterwards if it doesnt work for you.
Okay this is the deal I've been dating this guy for a month and a half now.. we've been really close. BTW I'm 14. I've been to his house he's been here.. I've met his family so and so. Last year we went out for 4 months but ended up breaking up beacause my friends were jerks. BUT ANWAYY....last night he called me like he usually does and asked me if we could take a break. I asked him why and he said because he has so much shit at the end of the year to do. He said because he has baseball, regions , tests, and doesnt want to deal with a girlfriend untill summer. Summer is 2 weeeks away and I like him a lot so I figured I would give him his space. But theres this girl down the road from him and once or twice while we were dating he would go hangout with her. I think he really wants to be with that girl and not me but when i asked him about it he got annoyed and told me of course he likes me and wants to go back out in 2 weeks when schools done. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. I like him a LOT. he has been the best boyfriend I've ever had.
I'm so confused . HELP
he shouldnt get mad your just worried. if he wants to take a break then thats OK. summer is just 2 weeks away. try talking to the other girl and see what she has to say. talk to your bf alot to show him your not boring. give him no reason to like another. after all it is only for 2 weeks sweetsz
hey ok well my boyfriend is soo protective and well i someitmes like talk to my ex bf on the computer but the thing is im good friends with him and soo funny and i lost my verginity to him so its like i cant not talk to him. my bf told he he doesnt want me talking to him online or in public bc he thinks hes gonna take me from him. how can i settle this where eveyrones happy bc i love talkin to my ex as a friend but my bf doesnt and im not gonna let someone tell me what to do but idk if im making the wrong choice.
your boyfriend does not rule your life. he might b apart of it for now but face it lovey he wont always be there. its great that your friends with your ex(not alot of people can do that). i say stay friends with your ex and if your bf cant take it well its his personal problem. if you want to keep your bf(if you really think hes a great guy) then calmy and nicely tell him your ex is just a friend and nothing more. dont bring it up breezily. say it slowly and seriously to show that your serious
Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
Thank you!!
take him somwhere that you can talk and that is romantic (like a dinner NOT the movies)sit him down and easily, but seriously, tell him everything you feel. he will understand and you will start to talk about each other. then take him home with you and have your own movie night. 'stay close and be close' remember that it could help next time you have issues with your bf
ohkay so theres this guy and he likes me. all my friends are telling me to give him a chance, and they are all friends with this guy so there on his side, they arent taking in to consideration that i like somoeone else. they really dont care. so i ended up giving this guy a chance and to find out he kind of annoys me. hes trying to be soemthing hes not. or trying to act liek the guy i like. i dont know but i dont like him. so what do i do. hes gained the confidence (from my friends) to ask me to places such as the movies and dances. idk i dont liek him what do i do????
well your problem here is 'peer preasure'. dont let your frieds rule your life. if you dont like the boy then nicely dump him (there are lots of ways to dump someone nicely)feel free to speak you mind. you will still have your friends and you will be free to go with the boy that you like. =)
latly i have been eating so much food... every second of the day i will think im hungry when im oviously not. i dont know what to do, i have noticed that i'v put on weight...
how do i stop eating so much before i put on to much weight and cant get it off... cos look in the mirror and think i look so fat..(just my mummy & thighs) i weigh 55kg and my height is 157cm if that helps
also how can i make my tummy flat again
help!!! thanx in advance
ok sweetsz to make your tummy flat again your going to need to do alot of crunches. i recommend going to the gym (they have good stuff for that) cut your daily intake in half. make smoothies (their swweet and super healthy. just dont add any sugar) eat fruits. try staying away from carbs, fat, and swwet. always find something to do because if your bored you will start to think and get hungry (and you dont want that.)