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last night
so last night my sister [17] had a bunch of her friends over. i'm 15 [turning 16 in september] and one of her guy friends [17] likes me. i just met him last night, and he apparently really likes me. but he was sweet about it and didn't say i was hot, but said i was very attractive. and we sat next to each other and he was very casually putting his arm around me and kept moving closer.
i could tell that he definitely wanted to make out with me, but i just felt weird about it since i just met him. i mean he's really nice, and i kinda want to make out with him, but i just felt weird at the moment about it.
he's coming back over tonight, and i can't decide what i should do. should i make out with him tonight? i mean i know it would only be a harmless hookup but i'm just not sure.
thanks!
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if both of you have the same intentions,
harmless hookup as you put it,
and you both realize you
don't want anything more,
go for it.
but make sure you're both clear
that you don't want this
to lead to a long term attatchment.
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it sounds like this would just be a harmless hookup but you never know.. it could lead to something more. maybe if you talk to him again tonight and you do end up making out with him.. he will get to really like you and you guys will sart talking.. i think that you should take the chance and hook up with him because one thing might lead to the other and you guys could be talking soon..he could turn out to be a really nice guy and maybe there could be a realtionship waiting to happen.. but youll never know for sure unless you take a chance. whats the worst that can happen?
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You can do whatever you want, but I say be careful. Do you really know that much about this guy? I think you two should know a little more about eachother, or at least be going out before making any split decisions. A kiss conveys love and affection. Do you love him?
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well if you dont want to make out then you dont have to. satisfy him with a snuggle up on the couch. but really i say go for it. live you life to the fullest. whens the next time youll ever make out with somebody. but he'll understand if puts the move on you and you gently push him away tell your not comfortable. or take him to the kitchen and tell him there if you dont want the preassure from your friends
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