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guy from work is giving mixed signals
There is a guy from my work place who I know has a huge crush on me. I decided to give him a chance after months of him flirting and started flirting back. He was acting all lovey dovey and I was certain he would soon ask me out. Well I went on a weeks holiday from work that I had booked months in advance. When I got back from my holiday the guy from work was acting distant and I almost got the feeling that he was angry at me for going away! Does anyone have any ideas about what is going on with him?
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Guys get moody, too. I would not press the issue for a bit, but still be friendly. He does not owe you an explanation really, so don't ask for one. It might make him think you are stepping on his boundaries and scare him away before you get started. Is it possible he thought you would ask him out or call during your vacation? There really are too many possiblilities for his aloofness, and he may have be unaware of the impression he gave you. Life becomes more complicated than it needs to be when we take things too personally, or get offended easily. Our feelings and moods really do color our perceptions of what is happening and what we think others are thinking about us. It could have been that you were extra-sensitive and he was extra-shy that day. Don't give up on the two of you.
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he could have missed you its true and he could be mad. but sweetsz he has no reason at all to be mad. tell him that you noticed. and that its hurting you the way hes acting. but remember hes doing it out of love pain. so he doesnt hate you. or maybe he's just bored. make fun conversations the way you used to. be funny and keep trying.
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