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E-mail: poohluvr904@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Glen Cove, New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: ButterflyKizzxx3
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 164
Last Update: August 10, 2004
Visitors: 7848
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yeah well, my friend is having trouble. Her name is samantha and she really likes this kid and wants to have sex with him and she's afraid to tell himh ow she feels. they've been friends for life actually he didnt really start to think of her as a friend until last year.. he actually hated her, but now he finds himself attracted to her to.. i told him to ask her out.. and he said he might and she asked me if he liked her since hes my best friend and all so i would know. But i told her he wouldnt tell me who he liked, should i tell him how he feels and should i tell him how she feels..b.c i mean there not even gonig out and she already wants to have sex with him.. ahh what should i do .. please help me!!!
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Well if they both like each other, yes you should tell them. That way they can build up a relationship. How old is your friend? If she's too young to have sex tell her, and also tell her not to take it too quick with him. I mean if they haven't kissed yet then she shouldn't be thinking about having sex with him. Good Luck!
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Hey what are some really great back-to-school must have for a girl plz help asap i rate really good (link)
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Do you mean like clothes or accessories must haves?
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what r some things that i can say 2 the guy i like?? how can i become a better flirt...lol...?? (link)
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Does the guy you like know you like him? When your talking to him in person joke around and when he says something funny push him and hit him. That's a way to flirt. Online you can drop hints like " I need a boyfriend" and stuff like that. Good Luck!
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i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho. (link)
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Well are you quiet? Most guys don't like quiet girls. Try and be a little more friendly, like at a party socialize a little more and then a guy will notice you. Guys like to cuddle and kiss with are kind of rare. You need to find some as mature as you. Not someone that's immature ecspecially if you mature. Hope I helped. Good Luck
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a guy friend says u look sexy or u look cute, or good in a particular outfit does that mean he likes u?? (link)
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That doesn't neseccarily mean he likes you, he just likes how you look. Maybe that's a hint towards you that he might in fact like you.
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I know this sounds really nasty but I'm bulimic, but instead of throwing up, I take laxatives. I don't know how to make myself stop. My dad knows and he isn't really doing anything to stop it. Has anyone dealt with an eating disorder who can tell me? (link)
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Don't take laxatives, they will hurt your body a lot more then throwing up would. You should tell a therapist or someone that way you can get help before it's too late. Please try your hardest to stop. Good Luck!
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my mom won't let me get a thong...she's says im too young but she won't by one for me and i dun wanna get one behind her back...how do i convince her to let me have one? (link)
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Tell her that everyone's wearing them, that it's not like your gonna be showing the boys it and it's just something you wanna try. You shouldn't get one behind her back because if she finds out then your not gonna get another one. Tell her you just want one to start out with and she'll see how she likes it. Good Luck!
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my bff likes this boy and i dun think he likes her but i like him too b/c i feel like he turns me on in a way but idk wat to do...Help Me!! (link)
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If he doesn't like her then you can probably tell her you like him. Since you guys are best friends it shouldn't matter. Good Luck!
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Okay im not fat now but i want to lose weight in certain places likes my butt because most ppl like big butts but for some reason i dont n the other place is my tummi i sorta kinda have a belly but thats onli after i eat but then if i eat dinner i will then when i wake up i dont have it and the last place is my thighs so if u guys have ne exercise other then go to the gym that well help me out alot thanks! (link)
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you can't loose the fat in your butt..its just natural..even if you don't like it, guys will lol. for your stomach you can do crunches and ab workouts and for your thighs the crunches will help too.
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Okay-- there is this kid.. who liked me for about a year now. Every time he's signing off. .he says *iloveyou* an if i dont say it back, he gets all pissed and says stuff liek "Wat you dont love me anymore" so then i feel like i have to. Cuz one time, he cut himself because he heard that i had started to like someone else. hes one of my best friends.. but idont want anything more. And i reallly REALLY dont want to hurt him. .. help.
~ dont wanna *love* (link)
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wow thats a toughy. so your saying if you tell him you don't like him he'll cut himself? don't tell him you like don't like him b/c then he might physically hurt himself, but just keep saying i love you b/c you love him as a friend, ask him if he still likes you. one time i made myself look really bad towards someone who liked me, maybe you can do that, but if he's liked you for a year then he might not let go
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ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks (link)
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Don't worry about it, just because he thinks she's banging doesn't mean anything. He's going out with you, most of his focus is probably on you. If you need someone to talk to IM me at Butterflykizzxx3.
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I have a big freckle on my fore head, and it makes me look ugy. Is their any way to get ride of it or make it not as noticeble? Please help!!! (link)
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To hide a pimpel or a freckle you can use cover-up or a type of bronzer that matches your skin tone. A bronzer makes your skin look tanner and would probably cover it up better.
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Okay, I'm pregnant. I chose to see my family dotor who has been my doctor for years to go see for my checkups. The problem is everytime I have an appointment and go to tell my in-laws about it they are always comparing my doctor to thier family doctor. Like they say "well Doctor So&So would have never done it that way". And they compare the hospital I'll be delivering in to the one they go to as well. You know, it pisses me off because I think it is my decision what doctor I decide to see, especially in this time of my life, I trust my doctors because i have known them for so long. And I refuse to change doctors because I shouldn't have to. This is my choice. The problem is lately I've been trying to bite tougue my in-laws oppinions but its is getting harder. I don't want to say something mean because they are very nice to me and do alot for me and I don't want to come off disrespectful, so what can I do to keep myself from blowing up at them? (link)
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When you in-laws say a comment about your doctor or something, just swallow it, try and let it go. In-laws always do that. Like the show 'Everybody Loves Raymond'.
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what are some good songs you can dance to at a party?
any type of music is fine w/ me thanks! (link)
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Songs for a party have to be fast not slow. Do like: Get Low, Turn Me On, Yeah, Jesus Walks and Scandolous. Any song thats not slow. Do people like Kayne West, User and Lil' John.
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I have a Question obviously. What do you find attractive in a guy... personality (if so which type) fashion agian which style. If you could clarify this alil for me I would be most appreciative. Thanks alot Kenny.. (link)
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In a guy I find attractive a sense of humor (they have to make me laugh), they have to be confident and they can't think they're like the best thing in the world. Fashion, abercrombie, armani exchange etc.
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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.
When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.
I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. (link)
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Your probably seeking his approval because you've probably always had his approval and you don't want it to change. You should ask him how his parents felt when they found out he was having a baby at a young age. That might make him look in your point of view a little bit.
Any other questions you can just ask me. Good Luck!
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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Wow, that's a tough one. Your friend does need to stop smoking ecspecially if she's only 13!! And she gave "it" up already? Wow. Well I think you should tell her what smoking does, all the side effects and everything. How often does she dress slutty? All the time or just when she's with guys?
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I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....
What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...
my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....
Please help me! (link)
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Kool-aid? are you crazy that doesnt work..you can use a temporary hair dyer that you can find in a store. Or you can used colored hair spray to die it. Definatley not kool-aid.
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does anyone know a good way to get your jumps better in cheerleading? i practice everyday and nothing seems to be working. help! (link)
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Cheerleading, my one obsession lol. I have a trampoline and i practice my jumps on there and then practice them on the ground it makes my jumps so much better.
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me n my boyfriend always break up and then make up. it's getting kinda old and i'm always getting hurt. i just cant help myself from going back to him all the time, i guess its because i truly love him. i'm just so sick of getting hurt when one day he'll be all lovey-dovey to me and the next day he'll be so rude n ignorant. i feel that we're going to break up again and in a lil while he'll come running back. what should i do? i think we really do love eachother though. (link)
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You should tell your boyfriend that you get hurt when you guys break up and that he means a lot to you. Then maybe he'll realize that he has someone that loves him. Tell him your sick of breaking up over and over again. For what reasons do you guys break up?
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