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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.

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I'm 13/f and don't have any ideas for a Halloween costume. I want a HOMEMADE costume. I wanna be something cute and maybe get my crushes attention but still be let out of the house wearing it. I dont wanna cut holes in pants and ruin clothes or anything but I'm open for ideas. THANKS SO MUCH in advance!

I think you should be a cow girl, bunny ( sweet not playboyish ), or maybe even a sweet lil devil girl! Lol, wear all read stuff. That way you won't have to cut anything! ♥

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how can i host a good halloween party?! i rate 5's thanks

Hi Kate! I might host a halloween party too! See my birthday is comeing up fast. I am thinking about having a halloween birthday party. Just don't let anything get out of hand. You got to have scary music, and maybe it could be at night. Have lots of spooky stuff! HoPe YoU hAvE a BlAsT! ♥

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last year i was new to my school i i met my best friend there. but now this year she dosent tellme anyhthing and dosent trust me she ignores me sometimes andwe get into alot of fight, she has new friends and she telles them her secrests but to me she dosent even tell me who her crush is i feel we cant be frineds anymore but me and her are realy close when we are getting along. what should i do? female 13

I think this friend of yours isn't really your friend. Try slowly breaking away from her. ♥

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Well i have this really good friend lets call him george.. well george and i have known each other for a long time.. and he is one of my best friends.. so anyways my other friends have been saying they think george likes me but im not so sure. how can you tell if one of your good friends likes you more as just friends? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH!

You should just ask him. ( Are you shaking your head no? ) If you are you probably not ready to ask him. Have one of your friends ask him. If he says yes you should ( if you like him ) go on to the next step. Talking to him closer. ♥

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is it possible to open your own web page? like one not conected to any other links? and one that is TOTALY COMPLETLEY FREE? ill rate 5's

13/f

I don't think so, I will have to look more into it. ♥

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my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what?

Always have an open home. If she wants to run away let her come to your house or one of her other friends. She is not overreacting. This would probably be very scary for her. Put yourself in her shoes. What would it be like? Talk to her all the time. Hope this helps!♥

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i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?

Just go with the flow, hang out and make sure you tell him your don't have feelings for him. ( no connection ) If it gets to far though stop hanging out. ♥

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Any cute ideas for a Halloween costume? Thanks.
13/f

Witches, you can never go wrong with a good ole witch! A clown ( That's what I am going to be ), a HulaGirl, a vampire, cheerleader, ghost, and you could always dress up as your friend.♥

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does 3 way calling on a regular phone cost money? how much?

I do it all the time! I don't see much of a difference in my phone bill.
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My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help...

I know that you might have heard this in other answers but I think you should be very sensative and ask how she feels. Be gentle right now she could be feeling very weak.
AdviceAbby

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i need a list of a LOT of rock bands. dont ask why.
over 5-6 is a five. rock bands, but not gay bands like simple plan and good charolette.

OMG! I love rock. Green Day, #1, MCR ( My Chemical Romance ), Papa Roach, Rolling Stones, AC/DC, and * thinks * The Used, The Killers....( wait the front man looks gay. ) NVM.

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i have a big lump of cheese and its kinda glowing and green, but its not exxpired yet, is it safe to eat?

I wouldn't, but if you really have to just cut that part off. The glowing green stuff is mold.(duh) Haha, eat it with some crackers it will go down just fine! ( I hope )

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How should I ask a girl if she will go out with me?

Be very nice and truthful. That is what I would want. You better be nice and/or cute. Girls dig this.

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i heard that by putting tissue in your boots/sneakers can keep your shoes from creasing. does that really work? and if it does.. what do i do?

I have never heard this before. I would give it a try though.

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for myspace .. how can you change your colors font?

I think you can go to a certain link, click on that and there you can type in what colors you want.

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hey there!
is the age for a girl to be in playboy 18 or 21? i am unsure because i have heard both. thankyou!

It is 18, I have read about it.

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This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love.

I know the feeling...Recently, a guy at my school wouldn't leave me alone. I told a teacher and he stopped. I think you should tell him what you wrote. (above) If he keeps contining go to a trusted adult.

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i cant stop bitting my nails and my mom wont let me get acurlic is there anthing that will make them grow ffaster or make me stop bitting thx bunches!

Everyday dip them in nail polish remover, then they will taste natsy. If this doesn't work over then next few days go see a doctor.

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I have had a cough for 6 months after i had the cold the cough stayed i have had anti biot from the doctor but this has not stopped it when i cough i start to gag and can not get breath it is as if i am chocking.

I think you should go to the doctors. Maybe even the emergency room.

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My friend is sleeping over tonight. What are some fun things to do? P.S. We cant go out OR outside - :)

Board games, movies (at home), gossip, and TV. That is all the stuff I did last night. It is fun. Once you and your friend have started talking the fun won't end.

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