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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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Hi, I'm a dancer and we are making up our own hip hop dances and I want a cool song to dance to. I also want a song that would be easy to make dance moves to. Any suggestions?

Well... I know of a song but I'm not sure if it would be apropriate.. it's calle Culo by Pit Bull and Lil Jon. It's a very good song and I hear it alot when I go out with my friends. It's fun to dance to. Another song is Lil Romeo My Cinderella. Those are the only ones I can think of because I really don't listen to Hip hop and rap. I'm more of a hard core/punk/indie/ska person. I do listen to hip hop occasionally though. Hope this helped.

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My gym shoes.. both pairs.. smell really bad.. i wear socks all the time.. and i have tried putting dr. scholls powder in them.. and odor eaters shoe spray.. but they just make them smell worse.. does anyone know a way to TOTALLY get rid of the horrible smell in my shoes?

Thanks!

p.s. I tried 3 different perfumes too.. still didnt help!!

Still use the Odor eaters and wash your shoes once a week. It sounds crazy but it will keep them free and odor free. I had that problem. Now all my shoes are clean and they smell good. Hope this helped.

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Ok well i'm kinda stuck.. everyone from my school is calling me prude and stuf because i won't do stuff or anythign with anyone from my school and the past weekend i kinda just touchy feely stuff with someone who kinda like but he watned me to give him head. and yeah i know what it is and everything. but i never have and i'm not sure what to do. he thinks i have but i don't really tell anyone what i do so they assum 'cause they think i "get around" just cause i have a lot of male friends . but anyways yea i'm 13 i'll be 14 soon and i'm supposed to give him head or he wants me to and i dont' know what to do. its not like i'm not ready to or anything. just i'm kinda scared like what if i do something wrong. i don't know. please help. thanks

Well, first off if you feel like he's forcing you to do it, then don't. Also, if you really don't feel comfortable with giving him head then just don't. But if you are comfortable with doing it, here are a couple tips: Start out with making out with the guy and slowly bring your down to his zipper and unzip it, he'll automatically get horny as soon as you're even close to there. Best way to do it also is to start out by giving him a hand job (rubbing your hand on his dick) Get some hand lotion and put a LITTLE on your hand and start rubbing it on his dick up and down near the top of it and when he least expects it go in for the kill so to speak. Start out by licking the top of it and make it go in and out of your mouth, word of advice DO NOT DRAG YOUR TEETH!!!! You'll end up biting it and it will hurt a great deal... for him lol. What I've heard... so you don't think I'm a whore... alot of guys like it when you give them hickies on their dick. If you do a good job and he likes it, he MIGHT cum in your mouth... it's like this really gross taste and its slimy and salty. You can either spit it out or swallow it, its your choice. If he tells you that he is about to cum though, because most guys will tell you that, try to get his dick out of your mouth before he does. Always keep a hand towel and a small bottle of hand lotion if you're going to be doing that. Hope this helped. If you need any more details about it just drop it in my box.

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okay i'm doing this project and we need to knoe when were ever going to use math like when we grow uo and stuff. well i want to be a professional basketball player and i was wondering what kind of math would i need to know for that? thanx

They just say that you need to be good in all subjects because in some way it relates to real life. Math of course has pretty much nothing to do with basketball. They teach you that crap for when you are living on your own and have to pay bills and shit. So, just do good in school and you'll get into a good college and you'll be a great b-ball player... just keep practicing. Hope this helped.

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Does any body know how to do a half and half bun?

You put half of your hair up in a pony tail and the other half is down loose. The part that is in the pony tail you make it into a bun. Take the hair in the pony tail, twist it and wrap it around in a circle and then tie it with a hair tie. Hope this helped.

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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever?

It depends on how easily you scar. I don't scar that easily and I used to cut but they were deep so I have scars. Put neosporin on it and get those scar minimizing things that just came out. They work. I'm happy for you that you're trying to stop. If the scars are really bad they may never go away, but you'll have a reminder of how stupid you were... I have about 30 reminders... Try that and they might go away and they might not. If it wasn't that deep they might go away within like a year or so. Hope this helped.

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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

Certain Dri and Secret Platinum certain dri is really expensive and it helps with the prespiring and the smell you put it on at night and then in the morning you put on a little of the secret and you're good to go. Hope this helped.

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OK so i missed the One Tree Hill episode last night (so upset!) and i dont know what day/time it reruns. Does anyone know?? Please help me... Mods you can delete when i get a few answers... just like one! I rate really well!! Thanks

Sundays the do reruns of all the new shows they played during the week. I don't know the exact time of the rerun but I know it's on sunday. Hope this helped.

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18/f here-does anyone know a really good deoderant to use? Not for smell, but to greatly reduce sweating? I have to change my shirts all day because they keep getting wet, it's gross and embarassing. And if no one has found one off the shelf, is a prescription one expensive, do you have to see a doctor (no insurance) or just ask a pharmacist? Deoderants I've tried are secret platinum soft solid, and adidas smart technology. And botox would be too expensive (it's supposed to stop excessive sweating). thanks guys.

I understand what you're goin through... I have the same problem. I use this antipersprant called Certain Dri... yep it's spelled just like that. It's in this small little tube thing and it's a roll on and a liquid. It works great, you put it on at night and a little in the morning with a little bit of regualr deoderant. I use secret or dove. Try that for about a week and see how it works. Certain Dri is expenisive though but it's worth it... a small bottle is about 7-10 dollars but it works great. Hope this helped.

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ok i'am 13 and i wear a 38d bra . they have been this way since like ever and i grow out of my shrits in three months evey time i buy them .and my boobs keep on geting bigger and bigger how can i make my cloths fit better and i all ready wear an extra large in shrits because of my chest.please help i rate really good.

merle

God damn, you're only 13??? Jeeze. I think what would be best for you to eventually get surgery. Large breasts like that cause major back problems, especially since you're so young. If you talk to your mom about it you might be able to get it done. Get them to at least a C or a B... small boobs do go a long way. I know plenty of guys that hate big boobs because they get in the way of everything. You could have alot of problems in the future because of your breasts. Talk to your mom about it, even your doctor. To make the clothes fit better, try to wear shirts that won't draw attention towards your boobs like low cut shirts and really tight shirts. Hope this helped.

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Ok well to start off the question...I have a boyfriend named..lets call him bob....well we broke-up over a really dumb reason, but we got back together yesterday....I like him a lot but He is always rude to me and He told me [when we broke up] that he was thinkin about it a week be4? and I think now that were goin out again hes just screwing me over I dont kno!..well plz help me
Also I have feelings like I just want to break up with him because I love bein single and I have a crush on sum1 else!

If you read through what you just wrote, you pretty much just answered your own question. If he's an asshole and he said he was thinking about breaking up with you a week before he did it, then he's no good. Also, you even said that he was rude to you which makes it even more of a good reason to end it with this guy. On top of that if you like someone else, there is really no sense in being with the guy. Again, I will say this, 93% of men are ASSHOLES. It's been proven many many many many many times. If you're scared of getting screwed over (which many of us are afraid of) just forget about the guy, dump him and move on. Stay single for a while and when you're sick of it, go out there and search for another guy. It's not the end of the world. I promise. Hope this helped.

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okay. i'm a girl and i have hair on my....breast area, and i was wondering if there was anything i can do about it. plz help!!

Well first off, it's completely normal to have hair in that area. All girls do but on some girls the hair is lighter so you can't see it. Don't try to do anything to it, especially don't bleach it. I know a girl that did that once and it messed up her nipple. Some girls shave it off... others just leave it. It's really up to you what you do. Just don't bleach it or use a hair removal product on it. The skin around your nipple is very sensitive and it could harm it. Hope this helped.

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hi everybody! hehe. okay, so how exactly do you get strech marks? and how can you get ride of them (without buying any products)? please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xokatie

Stretch marks are exactly that, stretch marks. They are caused when your skin is stretched quite a bit and it leaves these scar looking things. Women who are pregnant normally get stretch marks. The only way to get rid of them is to buy lotion with cocoa butter in it. Other than that, there isn't much you can do about it. Also, try to put Neosporin on it. Hope this helped.

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I need some codes or sites for all the little pointers, pop-ups, back grounds, etc. I'll give all 5's (unless your just leaving somthing like,"why in the hell would i know") I want to bring my profile to life, plz help I really want music on mine, so if you can help, thanks sooo much! I'll give yah all 5's!!!

http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx... that site has everything you'll need to spice up your column. Hope this helped.

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What are moderator levels or whatever? Thanks

Everything you'll need to know about that is in the FAQ section of this site.

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Before you get your first period do you aloways feel angry and stuff and do you always get cramps? Thanks!

Well, when I first got my period I did feel different. It felt as though something was wrong. For some of my friends when they first got their period, they were moody and were overly emotional and had weird pains in their stomachs (cramps). Those would be signs of PMS (pre menstural sydrom). Not all women have PMS, some get it very bad and others feel nothing. Hope this helped.

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You see, I have to go over my friend's house everyday, because my mom has to work overtime. My friend has this other friend who is a guy that lives across the street. I really like this guy so much. But the problem is that I don't that he likes me. My friend and him always jump over a fence to go to a ditch on the other side. And when I was with them, I did too, but I was really slow. I feel really "girly" around him, and I don't think he likes me--not even as a friend. What should I do? I like him a lot, but I don't enjoy the things he does and if I ask him out, I am AFRAID of rejection.

First of all TOUGHEN UP YOU PUSSY! I'm JOKING! I don't mean it so don't take it personally. What you have to remember to do is to laugh at yourself. In doing so, it will in essence show that you are comfortable with yourself enough to make it a point to show your imperfections. No one is perfect. Try to talk to him at least, don't be so shy. Talk to him about sports, movies, school... that kind of stuff. When I met my boyfriend, we had like nothing in common. He played soccer, he skate boards he likes baseball... all things I hated to do. I started watching a game of soccer and baseball and I got really into it. I went to the skate park with him and watched him skate for a while and found it quite intresting. You have to try to expand your hobbies. Also, about the rejection part of it, rejection is part of life. No one likes to be rejected in any way. Whether it's with a boy/girl you like, not getting into the college you want or getting turned down by a job you really wanted. It's just part of life. At our age, we are all afraid of rejection and getting hurt like that. Just try to talk to him some more and open up about things. Even talking about your likes and dislikes can help. Try to smile too when you're around him. Not one of those cheesey HUGE smiles but just a little smirk. Guys love a nice smile. Good luck and I hope this helped.

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hey im 14years old.and my ex bf now,asked me out sometime in june he promised me that he would never hurt me and would love me forever and all that crap ummm hes 16 well everything was fine for a few months then like 2weeks ago he started calling me less..well my friend called me and said that he was cheating on me with one of my friends i had no idea she knew..i went crazy they were talkin about having sex and here im thinking u know his parents are going through a divorce maybe he just needed time i felt like i didnt something wrong i love him still and i know i shouldnt what do u think about this whole situation reply back i will rate good..thanx

First off, if she was really your friend she wouldn't have done that to you. Second, you're exboyfriend is an asshole. Also, you have to keep in mind that about 93% of men are assholes. Guys will say anything and everything to get some from you. That whole "Baby I love you, I promise I'll never hurt you or leave you." Oh yeah, been there, done that MANY times. Every single boyfriend I had cheated on me. All of them. I haven't had many but the few that I had all cheated on me. My last boyfriend I was really in love with and I found out that he might have gotten a 17 year old girl pregnant. Yep, it sucked. The only thing you did wrong was you fell for the wrong guy. We all do it. Example: ME! I know exactly how you feel, I promise you will feel better. As for your friend... What is she thinking? If she's your FRIEND she wouldn't go and do that to you. That same scenario happened to me with my first real boyfriend. I though the chick was my friend and I find them making out in the back of a car. What a friend she was. You really need to let go of this guy and your friend. It's gonna hurt for a while but I promise you will get over him. You just have to think is it really worth it. I'm with a great guy now (5 months as of Friday). You'll find the right guy for you that is worth your time and he won't hurt you like that. For now, you have to try to forget this guy and try to move on. Go out and flirt. Go to the movies with your friends, do anything that is going to make you happy to help get over him. You don't deserve to be hurt like that, no one does. Feel better. Hope this helped.

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Has anyone here had rhinoplasty done? If you have can you please share your experience in full detail. Starting from consultation, price, (to) procedure, healing time/swelling. Thanks

I've never had one done but my cousin who is 26 has. She went crazy for about 3 weeks trying to find a well known plasic surgeon. She finally found one about an hour and a half away from where she lives. She scheduled an appointment and basically he took pictures of her nose and showed her where he would be making the cuts, and all that grousome stuff. For her it was about 3000 dollars and it came out beautiful. You just have to make sure you go to the right place to get it done. You MUST MUST MUST do lots of research to find a good surgeon. The healing time and swelling and all that depends on you and how drastic the surgery was. For my cousin it took about a month and a half to two months to completely heal. She was in a great deal of pain for about a week but after the second week the swelling had gone down, the bruises were going away. For the procedure, I couldn't tell you really, that would be something that the surgeon would have to tell you. The sugeon will go through it step by step what he/she will be doing. After you have your consutation with the doctor you can schedule an appointment to have the surgery which could be up to 6 months after you had your consutation. Good luck and I hope everything turns out well for you. Hope this helped.

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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??

I think it's sexy personally, but you know how stupid people are. Try to keep them covered up until they grow back. That will be about..... 3 weeks until they are fully grown back, could be longer if you have blonde hair because blonde hair is hard to see. But the shaved legs are sexy ;-) My boyfriend would never do that. I wish he would just one time but no... he won't. Anyways, just keep them covered up to avoid the "YOU'RE A FAG" comments coming towards you.

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