about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

is it ok to shave downstairs?.. i do but im not sure if i should or not because my mom found out one time and flipped out on me. but is it ok if i do?

Yeah, it's fine. Girls are supposed to and many do.

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This is my story:I have this guy friend who i've known for 3 years but we used to hate each other before we made out and well the other night he came over to my friends house and he brought a friend too and well him and my friend were kinda hooking up but he kissed me and we werer really wasted so i didn't know what i was doing and the next thing i moticed was the lights were out and i was dry humping with him.... does that make me a slut and could i get pregnate from that????

That doesn't make you a slut and no you can't get pregnant. You were wasted and it's no where near the defenition of a slut. You're lucky you didn't do anything more than that so next time, be more careful.

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teza i rele need help. i get overheated n feel like passing out everytime a teacher talks about gross things like abortion and that stuff and thats what we are gunna talk about in tomorrows religion class and rele i cant go thru that at all please what do i do?

You should talk to your teacher about it and tell her that you don't like to talk about that kind of stuff and ask her if you could step out in the hall during the discussion. If you have any worksheets or anything else to do, do it while they are talking about it. If you don't feel comftrable talking about it and if it makes you feel bad, she should let you step outside for a while. It's disturbing and especilly the photos.

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do you know ska music. well like i love that music super much and i just dont know how i'd kinda dress to show im ska? or if i even can. maybe just a few suggestions on a thing or to i can wear.

I don't know what ska music is.

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whats that quote that goes something like

it starts out with "years of friendship"
then it ends out with "laughter, lies, and stupid fights. they're my best friends. my heart. my life.

i saw it somewhere and i forgot where and i don't remember it so if you could help me that'd be great. thanks.

I don't know. Sorry.

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WELL i HAD SEX LAST NiGHT FOR MY *SECOND* TiME. AFTERWARDS. WELL LiKE 30 MiNUTES AFTER iT i HADDA USE THE BATHROOM TO PEE. AND iT BURNT LiKE HELL. THiS DiDNT HAPPEN THE FiRST TiME. BUT iS THERE ANYTHiNG WRONG OR iS iT JUST SOMETHiNG THATLL GO AWAY?

He was probablly rough and it might of tore a little peace of your skin. If it doesn't stop hurting, you should try and see a doctor about it but it happens to a lot of girls.

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Hi. I noticed your screen name was "Hollister Babe" And at the time I am actually saving up for an out fit from there. And Abrercrombie.
I was just wondering if you had any ideas at all on how a 13 year old girl could save up like $500 in a short amount of time.
I have about $30 right now. lol. I get $10 a week.
But what else can I do? Where can I find change?Even pennies? Any websites that might help?
Thanks. =)

-Buy and sell used bikes
-Wrap gifts
-Tutor/teach
-Baby-Sit
-Pet sit
-Walk dogs
-Sell lemonade,kool aid,sodas,juice
-Clean houses
-Wash cars
-Rake leaves
-Mow lawns

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i was wondering how people get their picture to make it look like they're on a magazine. like this: http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=14972070&imageID=659634619&MyToken=202edfd5-af20-4230-909f-4555e7114616

does anyone know how to do it?

thanks!

That picture is photoshoped and it's kind of difficult. You have to download the program and learn how to use everything. Ask her if she could do it for you because it's pretty dificult if you've never done it before.

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ok i'm 13 and i got a question. whats the white stuff that comes from your body...girls you hopefully know what i mean. is it bad, or good?

Every girl gets it and it's called discharge. It can usually last for a long time but it means your period is on the way. Just wear panty liners so it doesn't get on your undies.

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im sorry if this is in the wrong category but..

14/f
im going to get a physical soon ..and i shave down there so would it be awkward if he notices it, like would he say anything?

Just like the other columnists said, doctors have seen about every part of the body on a whole bunch of people and he won't say anything to you about it unless something is wrong. It's normal to feel akward but it's also very normal if you shave. Tons of people do and on most physicals doctors don't even check the private.. but I'm guessing your doctor is.

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Sooo for the summer i really want to look good in a bikini..so ive been running for 20 minutes (four days a week) since the beginning of march..and i haven't lost a pound..and i see no difference in my body..i don't know what to do..

To tell you the truth, 20 minutes is nothing. Have you changed your diet? If you still keep eating fats, fried food and unhealthy food of course you're not going to lose any weight. If you eat more then 3200 calories a day and only exercise for 20 minutes a day, that's nothing at all. You're just burning about 200 calories. Eat about 1500 calories and walk or run for about an hour each day. It helps. Trust me. Drink a lot of water, get low fat salad dressing, eat fat free yogurt and basiclly replace all the bad food with healthy food. I'm not saying you shouldn't have any sweets of chips but have a little bit once a day. Make sure you eat breakfast and if you like soda, drink diet soda because it has 0 calories. You should be losing about 2-3 pounds a week and that's really good. If you stick to this, you will be losing more weight. You should also try doing crunches, jump rope and anything else. Just stay active & you will see results.

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13/f
ive heard people say 'howd u earn yur mardi gras beads' and stuff like that and what does 'earning' them mean? thanks ♥

Usually, people show their body parts for those beads. Like girls flash people and they give them beads, so it means what did the person do or show to get them.

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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help.

That expression shows that she isn't interested. She doesn't really want to hurt your feelings, so she uses excuses instead. If she liked you, she would of said yes but give her some time.

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i think you give amazing advice so i added you as a favorite. add me back? .. if you want. [KELLY_ELIZABETH] sorry this isnt an actual question - but yea. okay bye ♥

Thanks for letting me know. I added you back :]

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ok well...i just recently started dating this guy and i wanna know for sure if he really like me,cause like alll mi past relationships the guys just try to use me you know wat im tlking bout?But im really curious,how do i tell if he really likes me?

I don't really know how to explain it, but for me, it's not really that hard to tell. You haven't been going out with him for that long so you just have to wait and see.

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[13/f] hi, okay. so my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. we dont go to the same school but we see each other pretty much week day because our schools have a conjoined track team (i know its wierd..blahh). anyway - he was always putting me on the "back burner" and putting his friends before me. we were together like a month and a half - but have been like doing bf/gf kinda stuff for about 3 or 4 months. he said he just doesnt feel it for me anymore. and its not there. he didnt wanna lie to me and he told me i was an amazing person but just not a girlfriend. hes all i can think about now. and its completely is driving me crazy. everytime i think about like us togetehr i end up balling my eyes out. please dont say start flirting because i already do that - even when i have a boyfriend. the guys at my school are gay, immature & retards. so thats a deffinitate negative. i really fell hard for him, like really. i know - im young & theres other fish in the sea. but idk, its not gonna be the same. any ideas on maybe trying to get him back? .. or just getting over him. i rate high if i can tell you gace it some thought. thanks in advance :]

Break ups are always hard and when you really like someone, you feel like there is no one else out there for you. That's not true. It's not the end of the world and I think he made it pretty clear that he just wants to be friends and that he doesn't see you as a girlfriend. I know it might hurt you, but you have to accept that. It's better to be friends than nothing. You have to try to get over him and there isn't a fast way you can. It's going to take you some time and you just have to date other guys. The guys at your school, forget them. Meet new guys and just go out with your friends and keep your mind off him. It's not the end for you and you will have many boyfriends so don't be upset about him. Be happy.

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are gaucho pants (brown, black) still "in"? and would they be next year (do you think) thanks so much!

They're not really "in" anymore and they probably won't be in next year.

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are grls vg's fat?

I wouldn't know.

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when u measure a guys dick do measure when its hard or when its soft

They can measure it when ever they want but when they get horny or boners, it's longer.

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what are the birds and the bees? and dont tell me to 'google it' because i already did

No offence, but if you're going to ask me a question don't tell me how to answer it. & I don't know.

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