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Q: okay well theres this guy at school. he really really likes me and i dont know what too do. i mean hes really nice and all but not too be shallow but hes not all that attractive. i would date him because hes such a nice guy but when i think about doing anything with him. like sexual stuff. i completely get turned off but its not like that with other guys. what should i do? whats going on?

well, looks arent anything for one, but i mean if you dont like him like that tell him because your gonna hurt him more if your not attractive to him at all.

Q: when i use a hair straightener it straightens my hair but it doesnt exactly get the poofiness out so what im asking here is what can i do? does serum help so my hair will look thin and how much would it cost?

no i as im the same situation as you.. and i havnt thought of a cure lol but i did think of this and its been working so far.. if i use a straightner i spray hair spray over is after im done from a distants and the i brush it witha comb and run a straigtner one more time threw or use a curling iron and run it threw or, leave your straghtner on 30 minutes a head of time then straighten good luck hope i helpes

Q: My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?

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-Kelsey

you give her a thank you note letting her no what a great job she did and is still doing and how m uch you apreciate it. im sure what you are doing for her will make her very happy

Q: My back hurts really bad. I mean when I sit at my desk it hurts right in the spine of it! What can i do to make it stop hurting?? Thanks!

A girl at my school went to see a doctor and that doctor gave her this char looking thing that you place on your seat in school and it really helped her. maybe you should talk to a doctor about it good luck and i hope you back feels better

Q: theres this kid named darron who like is always trying to hurt me because we broke up wut do i do?

you really need to find help for him tell an adult because that is no way to treat you, i had a friend in the same situation as you and he approached her with a knife and i mean she was close to her friends me my brother and some other people, and we walked over there and told him to back off and better stay away from her i mean yes she cried but after we calmed her down he told a police officer. Good Luck,

Q: Okay, I'm having this Halloween party and I don't know what to do, I told them to ware their costumes, and to bring some warm clothes incase it is cold, but I don't know what to do! There are going to boys and girls, along with my parents, little sis, and my boyfriend;) I don't know what we should do that would be fun for kids our age. We are all 13/14 and we want to just have fun, do you know what we could do? ( please don't make it expensive, my family doesn't have verymuch money right now.) thanks!

hey alright thats awesome that your having a party for halloween i been trying to let my parents let me lol any ways.. i think you should have a varitey of music, maybe set up a haunted maze useing things around your home like sheets for the walls you no? umm have that apple game were you gotta bob for apples scary movies .. good luck and have fun

Q: Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so

1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me

2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)

3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.

4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.

5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.

6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.

7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that

8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party

9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.

10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)

11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..

12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know

13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?

thnx 4 your help

This seriously sounds like he has a crush on you and maybe he is a bit shy to make the first move and you should deffintly take advantage of that (do you flirt back) i belive from whatyou said he really likes you and you like him. you should give it a try and tell him you like him (if you do) or ask him if he likes you.good luck

Q: There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.

Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.

But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?

I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think?

alright here is my example; i really liked this guy we shall call him Rob and he didnt like me at first well he always plaied basketball up at the community center so i went i plaied basketball same time he did and he asked if i wanted to play with them so i did he said i was alright for playing basket ball and i was just my self, and i took his cell phone and added my number and told him to call me, and he did we hang out all the time now and he told me he likes me he just wants to hang out with me more more we make it a relationship good luck

Q: Ok, there is this guy that i really like....hes my ex, but now my friend. Hes really cute. And we tell eachother everything. He told me, that if someone asks him if they like someone, he will blush if he does. Well my bff sits behind him in social studies and asked him if he still had a thing for me, he said just as friends then turned around and blushed! I was sooo excited to see this....but heres the thing. He told Ali that if he was single than he would ask me out in a heart beat. Well hes not single. And his girlfriend is really sweet and hes really happy! I don't wanna break them up, but i would do anything to get my baby back. What should i do.

Just Friends

Hey well i think if you like kid as much as you say you can wait for him dont flirt to much but still give him the idea you will always be firends but you like him a lil more than friends but not to m uch to were they break up let him stay with his gf because when they break up he nos he still as a thing with you after they break up he will probly wait a little while and then ask you. good luck Ash

Q: I recently found out that my bestfriend cheated on his gf. And it wasn't just a make out with another girl type of cheating. He lost his virginity to this other girl. And he has no intention of breaking up with his real gf or even telling her. She lives about 2 hours away from here so unless someone tells her, she wont find out. She's also a good friend of mine so i'm questioning if I should tell her. I know if my bf was cheating on me and she knew, I'd want her to tell me. I'm not speaking to my bestfriend right now becasue of the fact. So should I tell his gf?

Yes you should tell her because ones cheat on some one most likely it will happen again and if its with the same girl thats just terrible she should no. i think it would be the right thing just make sure that she doesnt tell him who told

Q: I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!!

alright, you need to explain to her what heppen dont get fustrated with her take it slow or you aint going to even have a chance talk to her tell her how you feel about her by her flowers. or something to show her you care for her. tell her you cant live with out her attempted to write a poem or something even if it sucks give it to her its the thought that counts. and that should also teach you a lesson drinking sucks.it screws stuff up. good luck on getting her back.

Q: Ok so there is this guy that i like but he doesnt even no that im alive but i realy like him and ive liked him since 3rd grade when i moved to my school. i realy want to tell him how i feel but im scared of rejection and once again be more dorky then i am if its even possible!can u help me Withs alot of lovin J.H

hey i been in your position to were i have liked a guy for awhile but he seemed to never notice. well i went up to him and told him hey can we talk like alone. and he said sure and i told him on how i liked him for a while. and i been kind of shy to tell you how i feel. and he understood perfectly were best friends right now and he likes me and i still like him but we wanna no each other even more. we hang out all the time. hint tell him how you feel dont be nervous you dont do it you will never no, Good Luck hope i helped.

Q: My Brother Is Acting Werd What Do I Do

i read some of the answers that people have giving you and thats diffently not away to help you out. well you need to help us by explaing what your brother is doing to be acting werid and his age or something. i know my brothers always act werid such as, there a boy my youngest brother who is 13 has mood swings will be nice to me one min and be really mean the next my oldest brother joined the nevy and is always bossy and stuff now. sit down and tell you brother that he is acting diff, and your worried. hope i helped.

Q: I cheated on my boyfriend and now he is really mad at me. he is thinking about breaking up with me. What can i do to fix this?

im sorry but i would go with him on this way and hopefully it will teach you a lesson im sick of being cheated on over and over again by guys and when a guy cheats on you you will under stand on how it feels to be treated that way like you love or like some one aot and they stab you in in the back

Q: ok..im in love ...head over heels..star struck...but there is a huge problem..the guy i am in love with id 3 years older then me...and i am in 8th grade...so he is a joinor ...and my brothers best friend...but we were dateing...untill last night when i had to break up with him becausea bunch of my "friends" decided that they were gonna tell my brother that something sexuall had happened between me and him...when nothin sexual happened...so my mom and dad found out about this cuz they made it sound like rape and im not even supposed to date..and i had to break up with him because i wont be seeing him at all any more...please help...how can i convice my parents that he is a nice guy and that i love him and he loves me??? ill rate high if they arent bull shit answers

Alright one your why would your Friends do that to you? and to tell your parents hm.. well i think that you should just say give him a chance get to no him and to tell them there taking him the wrong way tell them you no that sexual stuff isnt what your ready for you want to wait (even if its not true at least they will try giveing you a second chance) have them both sitting in the room with you alone tell them to sit down and explain everything to them good luck and i hope i helped you a little bit *ashlee*

Q: Hey, there's this guy who I'm almost positive likes me, and I only like his as a friend. I'm going to see him and his friends tomorow, and I'm pretty sure he'll ask me out. How can I tell him I don't like him that way without screwing thigs up?

alright i been threw the exact same thing your going threw except he did ask me out and i wasnt prepared i told him this though, i really like you as friend and i dont a relationship messing up our friendship and id rather us be friends. it worked for me becuase your like best friends now good luck, and i hope i helped a little bit *ashlee*

Q: im tryin out for freshman girls basketball---i cant do pushups to save my life!! what can i do to work out the "push ups" muscles???

rate 5 for good answers!

hey well stand up aginst a wall and do push ups that way to get use to the motion try 5 at a time every say 15 min. and then the next day move to 10 and so on iif you have trouble going higher than you need to just stick with say 15 for couple days then move up good luck and i hope you make the team

Q: so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me?

yes i think he likes you its pretty obvious from what you have said.. i think you should hang out with him more and flirt with him more ask him for his number show him you like him good luck

Q: I've liked this boy for a year now. Actually, loved him. We've gone out three times. The bad part is..hes NOT a good kid. He's done somethings waayyy out of the ordinary. But it seems even if he was mean to me or something, I'll always love him. All three times it didnt work out. He dumped his girlfriend because she didnt wanna go far with him and i told him that was rediculous. The thing is, when i talk to him sometimes he'll make me uncomfortable by saying its not him after i talk to him. If i tell him i still have a lot of feelings for him..he'll tell everyone and then maybe go out with me. Then everyone would hate me for it. I'm just so confused i really need help to get over him and stop thinking about him.

alright do you really care what everyone thinks?? i mean come on dont let what people say to you get to you tell them its not there bussiness to tell you who to date and who not to say it in a nice way tho. and tell him how you feel about him thats what i would do! good luck

Q: i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up

Do you no her email address or go to her house and explain what you ment i hope i helped good luck

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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.