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ok..im in love ...head over heels..star struck...but there is a huge problem..the guy i am in love with id 3 years older then me...and i am in 8th grade...so he is a joinor ...and my brothers best friend...but we were dateing...untill last night when i had to break up with him becausea bunch of my "friends" decided that they were gonna tell my brother that something sexuall had happened between me and him...when nothin sexual happened...so my mom and dad found out about this cuz they made it sound like rape and im not even supposed to date..and i had to break up with him because i wont be seeing him at all any more...please help...how can i convice my parents that he is a nice guy and that i love him and he loves me??? ill rate high if they arent bull shit answers
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Well first off you got some pretty shitty friends if they were gonna rat on you and tell your parents they can trust you " If you would just givehim a chance you could see how nice he is" Maybe if your parents let him over just to hang out with your bro they could see...
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hmm. that sounds like a tough situation. your friends seem like they are a little jealous of you. you could go 2 ways.
1) Talk with your parents. Invite the guy over, let your parents know what a good guy he is. Maybe even have his parents and your parents talk? Just get everything out in the open. Maybe your parents will realize he is a very nice guy and you will be allowed to date him soon enough. = ]
2) Get over him and wait until highschool. you may not want to, but chances are somewhere along the road of your relationship with this guy, something will go wrong. You still have your whole life ahead of you!!! Play the field a little bit. Flirt, have fun ! Dont get stuck with the same guy until youre truly READY. And who knows? Yes. you may both be in love with each other, but does he feel as strong about your relationship as you do?
Either way, good luck = ]
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Alright one your why would your Friends do that to you? and to tell your parents hm.. well i think that you should just say give him a chance get to no him and to tell them there taking him the wrong way tell them you no that sexual stuff isnt what your ready for you want to wait (even if its not true at least they will try giveing you a second chance) have them both sitting in the room with you alone tell them to sit down and explain everything to them good luck and i hope i helped you a little bit *ashlee*
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Well, you and this guy knows exactly what happened, and tell your parents that they should trust you about your relationships. Tell your parents your friends only told your brother he "raped" you to start crap with you and your parents. Explain that this is a REALLY nice guy, and you really like him. Tell them that you and your boyfriend will hang out only at your house for the next few dates, so your parents can get to know him better. Then, when your parents trust him again, you can start going out alone together (it's better then not seeing him at all, right?). Your parents are just concerned about your safety with him, but I think once you REALLY convince them, the relationship will get better. Don't make it sound like your relationship with this guy is too serious. Just make it sound like you both like eachother, and want to be together more often. If they still say no, then I guess you'll have to accept their descicion. Only hang out with him at school (or talk to him online) if your parents don't want you two together. Then, when you're older, get together with him and become more serious. If he really loves you (which I'm pretty sure he does), he'll wait for you.
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze
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the only way you can have your parents trust you is to gain trust with them. explain everything to them, about the past relationship. it's wrong for your "friends" to make up that rumor about you guys. maybe you can get him to talk to your parents er your brother about it. if your brother approves of him, since they're friends, your parents might change their minds. 3 years isn't too much of a difference, but juss remember that college is coming up for him, so there could be a change of plans. ask your parents about what you can do so they trust you.
good luck!♥
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