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Q: i put icons for my picture on my advicenators page and i was wondering if theres anyways to add more than one and if so how? thanks ill rate.

Hey, leave one in my inbox with your email and I'll email you the HTML code!

Q: My boyfriend wants to go farther than i want to go and ya but i rele like him and hes soo cute and the only reason he wants to is because his brother makes fun of him and yay so should i have sex with him

If you dont want to have sex with him, don't. Just tell him no and if he breaks up with you for it..then he was not worth it anyway! Dont give in to what he wants. Its what you want and if you dont want to give him sex..well that just sucks for him doesnt it! ;)

Q: me and my bf have been together for a long time now. we haven't gone very far at all. he loves me and i love him but he is pressuring me into going further. i know for sure i don't want to because im not ready. im 14. i love him tho and i want to make him happy... what do i do? he respects me and everything so its not like he is like DO IT OR I WILL BREAK UP W/ YOU i can just tell he really wants to and he asks me if i will and stuff. sometimes he tries to do stuff and i tell him to stop but he keeps trying. later i talk to him about it and he says he jsut cant help it. ill rate

You said it yourself, your not ready. Since he's not the type to break up with you, then just dont do it. I think you need to make it clear to him that their wont be sex until you say so and to stop asking for it. Hope I helped!!

Q: is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

No way. its fine! Girls just dont babysit, guys do too. They probably just dont say anything though. Dont worry

Q: 16/f/Ca

I'm going to be a Senior next year, which means I need to start thinking about colleges, majors and such. Even though I've only done 1 play in my life, I was in show choir for one year, and when I was little I was always in chorus in church musicals, I really want to study theatre. When I was little I hated performing, but as I got older, I've just been more interested in the whole acting thing. I've taken an acting class (for television, not for theatre) and even though it was two hours of notes and some acting, I LOVED it. I loved learning the techniques and its something I'm interested in. I'm a shy person when you first get to know me. The second day of class we had to cry in front of the class and I was able to do it, and I loved it. That was probably one of the best moments of my life. The whole class was silent (I was the youngest one. Second to the youngest, was probably a 20 year old), watching me and when I was done, the teacher said I was the best one.
The problem is, is that I'm never in the school plays, or musicals (even though i was in show choir--singing and dancing--musicals aren't my thing, I'm more into acting) because the director picks and already has his favorites and he is so wierd in a freaky way... Anyways, even though I LOVE acting, going to movie sets (I was an extra in a movie) I haven't used my talent at all except for the little things I listed above. If I want to major in theatre, is it bad that I haven't done much yet? If I study it in college, I know that I'll most likely be very active in it (I'm a good liar--which is like acting...so I kind of have a little natural talent). I mainly want to do television/commercial. I've been to plays as well as numerous of movie/tv sets and I think I would love commercial acting better. Is it something I should go for?

Of course. its never too late to start something you want to do. I suggest trying out for show choir, dance, and drama so you could be in all those things next year. If you love it, do it! But your senior year, try to get more expeirence.have fun!

Q: I've been to about 5 different sites trying to find those large Xanga Icons. All of the ones I went to, the pictures wouldn't show up. It would just be the box with the red X in the corner. I would right click all of them and click on "Show picture" but they would never show up. Does anyone have any sites I could go to? Also, does anyone know how to make the pictures show up other than clicking on the Show Picture selection? I've also tried refreshing the page but with no luck. Any suggestions on what to do? Thank you in advance!

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Q: Hey. Where did you get your profile picture from? I've been looking all over for them. I already tried this site:http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=icons________________________A but with no luck. I hope you can help! Thanks.

Q: Hey every1,
I'm here to talk about my friend, Emma. We were eating lunch today and she started talking to me on how she thinks she's starting to loose her memory. She's 15 years old, and I know you loose your memory of old age and stuff...but she's 15 YRS OLD! Emma was telling me how she see's a friend of her's, but everytime she see's her friend, Emma can't remember her name. And Emma was telling me that it's not just that one girl...there's more ppl that she can't remember their names. Also she was telling me how she forgets what she did in the past week. She kinda remembers but it's hard for her to remember. Like she can remember what she did in 3 days ago, but a whole week she can't really remember. I asked Emma if she remembered what she did 2 weeks ago, and she couldn't remember. Is she really loosing her memory? Should we be worried? Is it really worth going to the doctor? Please answer me because I have NOO clue.
~missc~

Well, I cant remember what I did last week. Or 2 weeks ago. I think we all dont really remember..but about forgeting your friends names..thats weird. Maybe she should go to the doctor. Just incase.

Q: um im 13 i just start my period last month and my mom told me that period come ever month or 28 days and it last about 4- a week but this month i still didnt have em yet is that a porb? also i got a friend she is 15 she told me that she have her ever half year or few month is that a big porblems im so scard now i dont like to bening a girl now :(

Nothing is wrong with you. Most of the time its not exactly 28 days. Its a little less or a little more. Its different each month. And since your young, your period will be irregular for a few years. You might even skip a month or two. It all depends but nothing is wrong.

Q: Hey guys! I'm burning my boyfriend a CD for Christmas and putting a bunch of love songs on it. I need a few more and I'm running out of ideas. I was just wondering if u guys had any good suggestions. Thanx so much ! I rate high.

Hoobastank-The Reason. Baby its you-JoJo If you listed the ones you already had that would be helpful. If you want you can leave one in my inbox with the ones you have already and I'll think of new songs.

Q: okay... i really like this one guy... but whenever i talk to him .. i dont know what to talk about!! i need good things to talk about!!! anything!!...helppp!

Upcoming movies and movies that are already out. And that can lead to a "hey do u wanna go to the movies with me sometime" thing

Q: One of my bff's, Becca, who i've known since i was 5 years old has a very bad self image. She thinks she's ugly, but then again I've never met someone who's ever said "wow im pretty" (about themself). She even started crying the other night and saying that she was depressed because she thinks shes ugly. Me and my friend Alicia have told her a million times that shes not ugly but she won't believe us. What are we supposed to do?

She wont believe you because your her friends. I think you should try to find a guy that thinks shes pretty, and make him go up to her and say shes really pretty. You could also make a day wear you do her hair/makeup to boost her confidence and then you guys can go to the movies or something..it works.

Q: Ok, well I have an audition on monday for the school musical and I am going to sing "A Whole New World" from Alladin. Anyways, I got the music from my piano teacher but it is all off key. So, I am trying to find free and printable piano sheet music for it. Plz help! I NEED HELP FAST!
thanx so much!
i will rate high!

http://www.pinkelephant2.tk/ ..go to "Disney sheets" and click "A whole new world"

Q: Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

Theres always a chance of pregnancy. And what do you mean there is "no egg" Girls have like sooo many eggs lol. But in health class, I learned pulling out early is somewhat effective. Just use a condom! Look for info online too..

Q: I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.

Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.

I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.

Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.

My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?

~ClarinetKtM

Yeah its okay, start talking to Ricky more ad tell him that you like him. God luck:)

Q: how do you get inbox? and why don't i have any? and what is inbox? i rate high no stupid answers please

Under "Welcome (Your username)" the first thing it says is "Inbox" when you get a question it will say "1 new" next to the word inbox.

Q: any good colors for braces please list them like this
1
2
3
4
and etc..... need advice freakin here

If your a girl, I saw pink and baby blue on someone. It looks so cute! You could do pink/black too. If your a guy just to colors with green, black, blue, etc.

Q: everytime i try to sumbit my answer to a question on this site, it says "Chatspeak detected. Type in english please" does anyone know why it's doing that, and how to fix it? I Rate High for the effort! thanks~*

When you answer questions, chatspeak detects your words and if the word is spelled in IM-language you cant answer until its fixed. Like "ur" instead of your. This helps because people can read your answers easily.

Q: If your boyfriend doesnt like your bestest bestest best friend in the whole wide world what would you do??????

Nothing. Your boyfriend doesnt like her so what? Just tell him not to talk crap in front of you and then yeah everything should be fine.

Q: You know that little piece of skin between you anus anus and your vagina? Well it burns when I urinate and it started bleeding. What should I do?!

*Scared*