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Q: a couple of weeks ago.. i got in trouble for having a picture trail.. and some of the captions.. but ne ways..earlier like in august.. i got in trouble with aim.. and i really want to earn my parents trust back.. how can i?? they wont let me have a cell phone b/c they can;t trust me.... but the thing is.. i didnt really get in trouble for that stuff.. i just lost their trust, and that fesls awful.. my question is .. how can i earn my parents trust back??
***i will rate HIGH***

Doing little things like obeying them, coming home from where-ever on time, doing your chores, if you dont have chores-doing stuff for your parents when your not told to..dont talk back..just try to be the perfect child and sooner or later you'll get their trust back. hope I helped:)

Q: im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~

Does your crush seem to like you back? There is no point in dating, thats how I see it. Becuase yeah you'll like him but somehow you guys will break up and you'll be heartbroken. You need to be patient..your time will come. But for now just flirt and hang out with your crush more. Good luck!

Q: I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????

* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too

Well, why dont you like him anymore?? I think you should just tell him your better off as friends. If you want, you could sorta ignore him and see if he gets the hint. But I think you should break up with him..

Q: Is being bulimic sick mentally?

No it just means you want to get skinny so you binge and then throw it up...it doesnt have to do if your like mentally weird..

Q: i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high.

You love him, thats all that matters. Just tell them to mind their own buisness..I would actually ignore your "friends" completley. Tell them your going out with him..not them..so dont worry about it

Q: i still cant stop wat i look at on my computer, i have tried everything, but, i feel farther and farther away from god every time. Please help

Are you talking about porn? Well how about blocking all the porn sites. Like somewhere under parental controls or something..block sites that have adult content. OR just pray about it and I'll pray for you too. when you feel like looking at it turn off your comp! or call a friend..keep yourself busy! Hope I helped and good luck!

Q: If you have sex with a condom inside out, do you think that you could get pregnant? and has n e one here ever had sex with an inside out condom and gotten pregnant? I would love the help. :)

Well, I dont think you could be pregnant. Because it still held the sperm and all..so yeah I think its ok. But maybe you should take a pregnancy test in like 2 weeks just to be on the safe side-sherry

Q: 16/f
well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do?

Make it clear to him that even though you love him as a friend, that you dont want to be anything more than that. Thats all you can do...and try to hang out with his cousin more or something.

Q: ok, i have a boyfriend and his name is Chris(and i have had sex with him already), but the other night his brother(Donavan) was sleeping at his house, and me and donavan got really comfortable and me and donavan slept together. and i want to tell Chris but i am scard to. What should i do?

Well, if you tell Chris prepare for the worst. I'm not saying dont tell him..because you have to tell. I know your scared but you did something wrong and you need to fess up. You should tell him before Donavan does.

Q: No offense to anyone. If you take it offensivly, good for you. That is fine and dandy. But get the hell over yourselves.

Why is it that girls are all bitches and guys always seem to be assholes?

On here? Actually I think here most of the people are nice. The jerks are just the people that have an advice column just to talk crap about people.

Q: does anyone know how to make a 746 KB pic into a 600k image? i need help because i guess its too big and it wont load

www.photobucket.com and re-size it that way!

Q: I think I'm anorexic. But I might not be because everyone says that the first quality of an anorexic is denial. I don't know. My friends say that I am, because I don't eat much for lunch and most of the time don't eat lunch at all. I never considered myself underweight, but I guess I would be in like, the 10th percentile. What do you guys think?

Anoerexia would be eating no food at all. But of course you have an eating disorder but its not exactly anorexia. Why dont you eat more? Talk to your doctor about it!

Q: ok well i like this guy who lives about an hour away and .. well he used to like me and all.. but now im thinking that he just told me that he liked me so i would "do stuff" with him. and i really dont want that to be ttrue! cuz i like him a lot i guess. and i only getta see him like every 2 or 3 weeks when he come to my city with friends and .. i dunno .. i talk to his friends a lot and see them a lot but he never tells his friends that he likes me but he doesnt tell them he doesnt either and if he will "do stuff " with me does that mean he might like me a little bit.. if hes willing to do stuff and asks me to do stuff with him.. 14/f

No sweetie. He only likes the fact that you will do "stuff" with him. He doesnt like you. He likes the fact that he might get into your pants. Sorry! But I think this guy is trouble..you'll find a new guy soon!

Q: I have straight hair already, but it is pretty static and VERY flyawayish...and its kinda bushy sometimes...what is the best hair straightener out there? I've heard ceramic hair straighterners are good??

Go to Sallys Beauty Supply and ask if they know of any good straighters. Some are really expensive like the $115 one that the person below me said. But mine was about $50 and it works great. So it doesnt have to be that expensive but dont get anything under $20 or it will suck!

Q: My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do???

Wear warm clothes lol. Thats weird they dont listen to you but for now get our your pants, sweaters, and socks :D!

Q: lol, ok this is really weird but i need a word that rhimes with wish, and i'm having a mental block, lol! i said that this was random! please help me!!!! lol! thanks bunches!

dish, fish, kiss

Q: ok, i've like this guy for a LONG time, 3 years. We've become better friends over the past 3 years since i liked him and i don't know if he likes me. We see each other at school but only in 3rd period but we talk most of the time since it's art. any ideas? i know i DON'T want to tell him how i feel, it would make everything so much harder and more awkward. If you think i should keep flirting, tell me some ideas. I'm 14, and he's 14. I'm a cheerleader and he's a football player but there isn't ne more games b/c the season is over. should i give up on this guy or stick to it?

Keep flirting. Dont give up..you never know..he might ask you to the movies or a dance or something. Keep trying and if he doesnt say anthing..at least you'll be good friends. Its better to be friends than have no relationship at all!

Q: I need some help. My rating just like disapeared, i was at a rate of 4.5 and soon it just disapeared. I hope you can help me get it back.

Every 30 days your ratings erase to give you a fresh start on your ratings. So yeah they erase quite often and they'll go up and down but it shouldent change that much.

Q: I hope you can help me out. I'm a 13 year old girl in need of clothing advice. I need some tips on where i could find really cute clothes for my age. No belly shirts, nothing revieling, i'm not that kind of person. If this is any help, i LOVE green and i only shop at stores that carry some green clothes, and other colors.I RATE HIGH!!!!!!

Forver 21 and Charollete Ruse. SOME clothes are revealing but if you look around you'll find lots of stuff thats fine. www.forever21.com Hollister has some nice clothes...Kohls...hope I helped!