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T'm 14 and I'm a girl. I've never had a boyfriend I don't enen talk to guys. I'm really shy. I really want to have a boyfriend, but I know that no guy likes me anyways. What should I do? (link)
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DOn't look for love... let love find you... just start opening up to guys and flirting... its not the easiest thing... but let guys see wat a good personality you've got
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Im not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. Lately things havent been going good for us. We been going out 3 months by the way. I just got back from a trip and he only texted me twice while I was gone & i just called him to see if he wanted to go somewhere and he didnt barely talk at all, he didnt ask how my trip went, or that he missed me or anything. Right after I asked him, he said no & said bye. I dunno how I should break up with him though, I cant do it in person cuz we have spring break and I cant see him all week for different reasons and I sure dont want to call him again... I dunno please help me. (link)
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it sounds like he wants to break up with you... he's not worth it at all!!... i think you should call him and break up with him... that is probably your only solution unless you want to wait longer... maybe you can stop by his house or something... just to talk things over and if it doesn't get anywhere then break things off
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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not? (link)
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you should definetly still try out... reach your goals.. even if you don't get picked, don't give up... also... maybe you can talk to a counselor about this situation with the coaches and they can maybe do sumtin
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well, tell me please how to make a girl love you truly madly deeply and sincerely till the eternity?
apart from sex? what other things impresses a girl for long? (link)
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here are some things my boyfriend does... there so simple... but it makes me smile...:
1) on his cell phone picture thingy in the beginning it says i love lisa!
2) he has "I love lisa" in his profile on aim
3) he makes the sweetest comments like... "you never look bad though" or "your the prettyest person i have ever met!!" just stuff like that
4) she should no that your truely into her and would never cheat on her
5) compromise
6) take time out of your day for her like call her or wait for her after classes even though you may be a few seconnds late for your next class
7) over the summer... don't loose touch... show her you want to make things work
8) wait for her to sign on on AIM even if you have to wait for 2 hours
hope this helps... i am madly in love with my boyfriend and those are a few things that he does to impress me... good luck
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me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad? (link)
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i think its a good thing youve never fought... me and my boyfriend have been goiing out for 2 months and we haven't fought and we're REALLY happy... but try not to spend tooo much time together because than there won't be anything to look forward to and you might get sick of each other... you can try spending time with each other in a group of people... this way its not always like its only you and him... have fun
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ok me and my boyfriend recently broke up..it was really hard because of rumors..anyways theres this guy name bradley and well im starting to like him. hes been holding my hand and stuff and me him and my friend were walkin to gym and i had grabbed his wrist to show him this girl and he slid his hand and we ended up lockin hands and he started rubbing my hand.im so confused because 1.this guy named lets call him joe is supposed to ask me out because he wants a girlfriend 2-because bradley can be known as a player sorta and 3- because i still love my boyfriend.what should i do? (link)
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wow... ok lets cross joe off the list since he is only asking you out cauz he wants a girlfriend... so its between bradley and your ex... ok... first you have to figure out who you like more... you have to do the pros and cons about joe and bradley... if you decide to go out with bradley you'll have to take a risk since he is sorta a player... but your boyfriend may have no feelings left for you... i can't choose for you because its your choice to deside... but i would choose bradley since it sounds like he has an interest in you... good luck
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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP! (link)
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if you like him than go for it! its ok to like someone younger than you... i have a boyfriend who is one year younger than me and he is sooo sweet!! it sounds like he is really interested in you... but i would wait a little and get to know him better and then when the time is right ask him out!
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Ok im really skinny im 15 and about 92 pounds. Anyways girls are always saying how guys want skinny girls, but i dont think thats true. I thought it would be cool to be able to eat anything i want and never gain a pound but now i really am trying to gain weight and i cant! Today some guy told me i should eat the paper because i needed to gain weight. So coming from guys perspective i was wondering if guys really do like skinny girls and if they find them more attractive? People usually think im really skinny or aneroxic and its really pissing me off, because the guys are "suppose to " like skinny girls, but thats bull crap.. and i just dont understand guys.. because your either to fat or to skinny soooo I guess my question is any advice from a guys perspective on girls , and what can i eat to gain more weight?? And dont tell me it will catch up to me because you burn the calories now , you dont store them, and please dont tell me to not care waht people think! I will give 5's to anyone who gives a good answer! Thanks so much (link)
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to gain weight you can use wieghts and build your muscles since muscles way more than fat... im not a guy... but personally if i was... i wouldnt want someone fat.. sorry i can't help you too much... but every bit of advice helps i guess
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ok, there's this guy. He's an old friend of mine and recently I've started liking him as more than a friend. And just in this past week his ex-girlfriend from a while back has started liking him again and I don;t know what to do. I'm afraid I might loose him to her, but last time they were going out she kind of led him on and then broke up with him. I don't know what to think, or what to do. Help and I'll rate high for good stuff! (link)
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well you should let him no that you like him... if he has common sense he'll choose you over her because she broke his heart and led him on... if you don't tell him before she does than you lost your chance/... don't be shy... just come right out and say it... just be confident
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their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean? (link)
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it sounds like he's using you... sorry... talk to him about it and say "if you don't have any feelings for me than don't make out with me anymore!"... don't let him think of you as a dumb blonde he can take advantage of... there are better guys out there
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So I like this guy, right, and I think this other girl may like him, too. I was waiting for class and my friend asked my friend who may also like him if she did his make-up for the play. It was in that "Oooooh" tone of voice. I also think that my crush is much more likely to like her than he is to like me. I want to ask my crush if he likes the other girl. We are friends though. So I would make it sound like curiosity and not because I like him or anything. Should I ask him? (link)
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you should DEFINETLY ask him... you have to step up to homeplate be4 this other girl does... and i agree that you should make it look like curiosity... mAYBE you could do it over AIM because he might be like "are you asking because you like me" and you'd probably feel more confident telling him over the internet rather then in person... if he ever asks... just tell him the truth! hope everything goes well
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I love my bf sooo much, but I have a big problem. My mum hates him and she used to argue with him big time but now she argues with him. I talked to her, now shes trying to be nice, for my sake but I can still she's annoyed and angry. But i really apreciate it
Anyway, I always got upset when he wouldn't come to my house. I always had to be at his house and it always took a lot out of me because that meant I wasn't home much, especially when we have been together for over a yr.
Now I think Im having problems with his family. They have always sed little things here and there which have made me feel unwelcome but I have never taken it to heart. But then a few days ago I think something just clicked inside me. I changed my hair style and they were like yea it looks 'different' and then they started to talk in another language and I understood what they were saying because my dad comes from that country. They weren't saying the nicest of things. They think I dont understand. Then I was playing with his sisters kid and she started criticising me to my bf in front of me about how I was playing with her. I wasnt even doing anything wrong. I was just drawing with her. My bf stuck up for me. Im not the loudest of ppl and they are quite loud. I just felt soo upset and so uncomfortable. I pretended I didnt hear but I felt myself go red.
Do you think I should talk to my bf about it? Now i feel how he feels when he comes to my house. He hates coming to my house. Now I feel the exact same way in his house. (link)
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you should talk to him about it.. and then ask him if you could go to the movies or out to dinner alone instead... if you feel uncomfortable when your at his house just tell him... its not the easiest thing to do... but if he loves you he won't be offended and he'll try to make things better.. or if your getting frustrated with his family and you don't feel like being soo nice anymore... well.. when there saying rude stuff about you in that language just be like "ummm excuse me but i understand that language" and then leave the room... try and encourage your boyfriend to meet your mom again because you want him to feel comfortable around her and that she is much nicer... i had the same situation with my mom... except my boyfriend still came to my house... then we broke up and now we're back together and i told him my moms a lot nicer now and he agreed to try again.... good luck
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ok this is going to be long but i neeed help! well im 15/f and i go to a big public school. lately ive been skipping classes though. and its not too big of a deal and i mean i know its really wrong but i make everything up and make sure i get all my work and have good grades. but i think my mom found out about it. and shes getting really upset. she hasnt told me anything but shes really sad acting and i hear her sometimes talking to my teacher and saying she wants to keep me in my school but she dosnt know if she can. and then today i looked up my computer history and i saw websites for all GIRL boarding schools in like north carolina and stuff and i live in texas! what is a boarding school? im not even sure! and i mean im a good kid but i use to skip a lot and i started again. so i geuss shes getting upset about it. i dont know what to do. i have a great life here. i have a great best friend, great boyfriend, great everything! if i had known about this whole boarding school thing i wouldnt have evvver skipped again! is there any way do yall think that i can talk to her about this? i already told her i wouldnt anymore. but i messed up! everyone does! ive just been messing up a lot more latley! and i really dont want to leave my boyfriend! im going crazy! what should i do?!?!?! pleaaaaase help!!! (link)
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im not sure what a boarding school is but i can try and help you convince your mom you don't need a boarding school... first figure out why you have been cutting class... don't make excuses to your mom... than just stop... go to all your classes and pay extra close attention this way your teachers might have the urge to call your mom and tell her you've been really good lately... show your mom you deserve to stay in your school and not have to move... try and get even better grades and make your mom proud... maybe you should try after school activities to impress your mom... you could say to yourself "ok... i can't cute class for 2 weeks" than at the end of two weeks reward yourself... and than try for 3 weeks and so on and so forth... your right... everyone messes up... mistakes happen... but you can always try and fix them
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i have this girl who thinks i am here friend but i really cant stand her she is soooooo immature i think she is a lesbien too. i not saying i am against gay/lesbiens but some one who i thought who was my friend (not really) is now looking at me like i am her toy grosses me out. her sisters are really well behaved and are mature. i just wish she she would leave me alone. im not nice to her as a leave me alone sign but she dosnt get it. the reason y i think she is a lesbien is because in chorus class she turned around 31 times to me. its sisk. i mean i think she is obssesed with me . any ideas to tell her i dont want to be her friend? (link)
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if i were you... i would just avoid her... stop telling her your plans... if she comes up to you in the hallway be like sorry... i have to rush because i am going to be late for class... if she notices your avoiding her than talk about it with her... tell her you need a break ... or tell her that she is geting on your nerves and why... but don't just say to her "I DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE!!!" because that will most likely upset her... be calm when you are talking to her because she sounds like she is really sensitive
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Okay my boyfriend, Victor, and I have been going out for awhile now. When I started going out with him I knew he had the reputation as a "Player". But he told me that he wouldn't lie or cheat on me. So I went out with him. I grew attached to him. He called me last night and told me that he loves me and he thinks he did something really wrong. He told me that he didn't mean to do this.. he kissed another girl after homeroom. I yelled at him. But I am still with him. All my friends tell me that they think I should find someone else. Because once a cheater always a cheater! I don't know what to do. He promised me that he wouldn't do anything ever again with another girl. But I don't know if I can beleive him now. Please help me.. (link)
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don't listen to your friends... do what you feel is right... if you really love him and can't get rid of him... then think of it this way... at least he told you the truth about it and didn't keep it from you... that could be a sign that he really wants you to trust him in a way... i would give him a second chance... tell him that if anything like this happens ever again... its over... set him straight because if you don't show him that he shouldn't be cheating on you... he'll most likely take advantage of you and cheat on you again... good luck... if you have any other questions... just drop them in my inbox
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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
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you should definetly be her friend... right now she needs some one to be there for her... help her to enjoy life so she won't cut or smoke... just make sure you don't get pressured into doing that junk... help her through everything
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Ok Well I am a preety popular person i get invited 2 all the partys and everthing like that and most of all the guys like me i mean they all wait 4 me at my locker and they alwy caring my books!and there really cute but when they ask me out i always say no and ever1 says why dont u go out with them and crap!....well im a prep i wear abercrombie and hollister every day and ive been this way 4 as long as i can remember.well i meant this kid and hes sooo hot!! bur the only problem is hes a skater and im a prep i sit with him almost everday but he is always going out with older girls how!(and i just meant him) and the other day we made out!
but im kidda nervus beacuse all the girls in the school are totally crushed over him and all my prepy freinds! and the only 1 that knows is my freind Nicole what am i supossed 2 do tell him i like him and get it over with soo all those guys and girl are pested off at thinking i didnt want a bF and whatever i really need help with this 1 (link)
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it doesn't matter what others think... you do what you think is right... no matter what happens your true friends will stick with you... if you like this guy you should ask him out... its ok if he is a skater or a prep... differences make the world fun... i think its awesome that your not one of the girls who says yes to any boy who asks them out even if they don't really like them... go with your gut
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I like this boy at school. Were getting to know eachother. But I think I am starting to like him. He might know already that I like him but all most every girl in school likes him. Should I tell him that I like him or keep it to myself. And also my friend dared me to grab his dick, and I told him yesterday on the bus thats what I have to do should I do that too? (link)
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well if your only "starting" to like him... then you should wait a little bit since your only getting to know each other... as for the dick thing... it depends if he is comfortable with that
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Hey im 14 and i have never had a boyfriend(i kno it is pathetic but thats the way it is). Well there is this boY at school that i really like. We talk sometimes but not much. I wanna tell him how i fell but i dont kno if i should and if i shold then how would i tell him.If i do tell him i dont want him to feel weird around me if he dosent like me back. PLEASEE HELP ME IF YOU CAN! (link)
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don't worry... its not pathetic... since you guys don't talk much... you should build a friendship this way you'll be able to feel like you can tell him anything... than get his number so you can talk after school... after you guys are good friends and you feel like the time is right ... then just tell him that you have feelings for him... if he's a true friend he won't feel wierd around you
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I like this guy i work with so much it hurts. He tells me all his personal stuff about his family and and his ex giirl fiend.We have a lot in common. He even gave me a mix CD. I give him free potato chips from the store that i work in. He always seems happy to see me. When he walks in he has a great big cool aid smile on his face. But there is a problem he never asked for my phone #. What's with that. I am way to shy to ask him for his. My question is does this guy like me? Or does he see me as just as a friend what am i doing wrong? how do i get him to take me seriously? (link)
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it sounds like he likes you as more then a friend.. its ok that he hasn't asked for your #... maybe he is shy like you... if you want to hit things off you can
A) just tell him you like him
B) ask him for his phone number... he can't say no... you can be like... "hey... me and a bunch of other people are going out friday night... do you want to come... you can bring some of your friends too." than if he says yes.. be like ok... can i have your # so i can call you with the time and where to meet.
hope i helped
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