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not a friend


Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 7:03 pm

i have this girl who thinks i am here friend but i really cant stand her she is soooooo immature i think she is a lesbien too. i not saying i am against gay/lesbiens but some one who i thought who was my friend (not really) is now looking at me like i am her toy grosses me out. her sisters are really well behaved and are mature. i just wish she she would leave me alone. im not nice to her as a leave me alone sign but she dosnt get it. the reason y i think she is a lesbien is because in chorus class she turned around 31 times to me. its sisk. i mean i think she is obssesed with me . any ideas to tell her i dont want to be her friend?

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jcpennypanties answered Friday February 25 2005, 6:07 pm:
Just straight up tell her you dont like her, and you prefer if she not hang around you.

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tragic_eyes_x answered Thursday February 24 2005, 10:33 pm:
Like this.

We're not frends anymore, you stupid ho.

Now that wasn't hard.

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mylinhthan answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:23 pm:
anonymous -

I'd suggest that you calmly come up to her and confront her. Don't go accusing her though, just keep things nice and civil. Confront her about what she does that bothers you and tell her that you tried to be patient and tolerate it, but her behavior is unacceptable. Just straight out say, "I'm sorry, but I can't deal with this anymore. What you do makes me uncomfortable, and I can't tolerate this anymore so please, just leave me alone."

It may sound a little blunt, but there really isn't a nice way to say "beat it, i don't like you." It's the closest thing I got :) Hope this helps.

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iNdEeD2isBaK answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:10 pm:
say

look dont u get it...the signs should have told you that you r not being the greatest friend!!!

hope i helped
♥ indeed2

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xosweetiepiexo answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:04 pm:
if i were you... i would just avoid her... stop telling her your plans... if she comes up to you in the hallway be like sorry... i have to rush because i am going to be late for class... if she notices your avoiding her than talk about it with her... tell her you need a break ... or tell her that she is geting on your nerves and why... but don't just say to her "I DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE!!!" because that will most likely upset her... be calm when you are talking to her because she sounds like she is really sensitive

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