So I'm not sure if im pregnant or not. But I have had very light cramping and havent had my period and its been 4 days
Sorry if this sounds nasty. I say this to everyone on here who says "am i pregnant" etc... Stop wasting your time on the internet asking people... Go get a pregnancy test and find out for yourself!!
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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about three years and she is the one who first brought up the idea of a three some so how do i get her to follow through
Speaking from personal experience... Dont do it!! It will ruin your relationship and cause more drama then its worth!
IF you BOTH really want to do it, find a complete stranger and never speak to them again afterwards... But afterwards there's always going to be the "you liked her more then me didnt you?" or "she did (insert sexual act here) better then me didnt she" ...etc...
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hiya, im 20 i have a boyfriend of 2yrs, we are not that close anymore, we keep arguing etc and i try to leave him but i cant. anyway, i know this guy whoa 29, married with 2 children. his mum has just passed away after having cancer [she was a close family friend] i see him often and we are really close and have loads in common. we both want each other and are always flirting & touching. we always text each other and he has told me he is having the 7 yr itch with his wife [they dont really get on, she is a bitch] anyway last night we got carried away and he has his hands down my bra and we kissed. it was so amazing, never felt anything like it before with my bf. we both want each other so much, its being going on for about 3/4 months but this is the first time i havent hidden my feelings and kissed him. i dont regret it at all but im so confused. he is just using me to try and get some sex or does he genuinly like me? he always says we have loads in common and he worries about me when i go out drinking etc.
i think i might be falling for him and have no idea what to do!!
emma xx [uk]
Think about it long and hard... That comes from personal experience. I fell for my ex's best mate and it destroyed my sanity for almost a year! If you are straying you need to leave your boyfriend ASAP. You need to ask yourself why you cant leave. Are there any real reasons or are you just making them up to convince yourself? The married man could be genuinly feeling things for you... or then again he could just want to have sex with you and use you then throw you away when he's done.
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Okay I'm young, I just think that will help because I am more fertile then those above 35.
The first day of my last menstrual period was January 12th. My ovulation should have been around the 29th. I had unprotected sex (he came in me) on the 28, 29, 1, and 2nd of Jan/Feb.
We weren't standing up, so it made for deeper penetration, so the chances of conceiving should be higher with those positions..
My cycle is around 32 days long, my period is due around the 13th. What do you think are my chances of pregnancy?
Its good to have sex everyday for 7 days before and after ovulation because sperm can live inside the body for 7 days. And if you're really trying its better to be on the safe side.
I'd say you have a pretty good chance of being pregnant. However, there could be other things to consider, like medical problems or something.
Im in my second pregnancy. I hope all goes well for you.
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So i lost my virginity to a real jerk who broke my heart and made me very depressed i decided a long time later that when i met the right person i would have my hymen reconstructed for a very special night i have been with this guy for almost a year and he is very special to me but now i am starting to have second thoughts about the hymen thing i asked one of my guy friends if it was a good idea and he said it was a very discusting idea and i should not do it i need opinions what do you think
thanks
WHY???
Why would you want to go through the pain again?
Why would you want to lie to a guy you like??
Why would you waste your money having something done that you just going to UNdo???
Sorry if im so blunt and seem mean...
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I was on the pill when i had sex and then stopped for a week and had my period but i have been getting reli upset over the stupidist of things, crying all the time, not sleeping at all, trying to get out of school, feeling sick every now and again...Is there any chance i could be pregnant or even depressed from the pill?
Sperm can survive inside your body for 7 days...
Stop wasting time here asking about it... go get a pregnancy test.
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yes i have been posting a lot about this situation, im sorry to keep doing this but i just dont know who to tell anymore..
this guy that i met a while ago yeah we talk online and ive seen him twice and ill probobly see him at my friend's in a few weekends but anyways, first he pressured me into sending him pictures which i didnt do. now he is pressuring me badly and keeps asking me to give him a bj. ive said, no sorry i dont think thats gonna happen , tons of times. but then he makes me feel so bad. and no i dont want to, and i wont. but its almost like i feel like this is sexual harrasment. the way he talks to me now..its like he doesnt even care about my feelings or what I want. its only what HE wants. he keeps on saying things like, yeah so just suck it. or, oh yeah your a good girl who doesnt give bjs, i forgot.
this is pissing me off and he is making me feel stupid and bad about myself, really bad. like im only good for one thing for him. i am being so pressured by him. and last night after I IMed him. [usually he IMs me but he hadnt talked to me since saturday night and i didnt know why] anyways after i kept saying sorry but i dont think so [in other words, no] yeah he was on for two hours today same time as me, never IMed me. why not. i know im paranoid but..ugh. i dont even know why i want him to talk to me. i wish i didnt care so much and could just get over him. he doesnt even treat me nice, at all. he orders me to do things for him. and then whenever i try to stick up for myself in a nice way, he just says k. or basically doesnt give a shit. or he just makes me feel dumb. like the whole picture thing? saturday night he was begging for pictures. and..i didnt know what to do..i said, would you be mad if i didnt send any..and he goes, um yeah kinda.
he is mean. doesnt even treat me fairly. i cant do this anymore. and then i have to deal with him going on and off with talking to me. i wonder why he does that..i know that he likes this other girl who lives in new york who is obsessed with him [seems like it] an writes on his wall I LOVE YOU. dont know what thats supposed to mean....
someone please help me
Its guys like him who end up in jail for raping girls and sexual harrassment. Next time he asks you for anything sexual tell him to get lost or you'll report him to the police. If he's in fromnt of his mates and asks sexual favours, just walk up and say loud enough so everyone hears "i wouldnt go near it because from the photo you sent me, its wayyyy too small". That'll kill his ego and hopefully stop him doing what he's doing. Its time to stop being so damn nice!! Nice will only get you so far.
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I'm naturally very fair skinned and don't really tan. If I'm out in the sun long, enough my shoulders and back will burn (like a lot of people). So I figure it's probably pretty pointless for me to try using a tanning bed, because I know they say "if you don't tan in the sun, you won't tan in here." But I've never really tried to get tan. Like, it doesn't happen easily, so I've never really tried that hard, or laid out for very long. So maybe if i was in the beds where it is so concentrated and stuff, I'd actually be able to get a little color? Is it easier in the concentrated beds than it is normally? I'm from Michigan, so that's part of why I don't get to try than much.
With all the new information out about tanning beds and skin cancer now, it is becomming 'uncool' to have a tan. White is the new tan. Get a fake tan. You can get spray on ones that you do yourself that are pretty cheap and dont look like you did it yourself.
Do your research if you are going to use a tanning bed. A lot of people where i'm from have contracted skin cancer from using them.
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Well, I have lived in a marriage for 28 years. It has been very rocky since day one. I have learned that my spouse cannot have intimacy. I have known this for some time. We have had counceling(one year) and it was getting better, but now, he is back in is shell again. We have never had intimacy, Only sex sometimes, usually none, and now, none for 3 years. He is a good person, I guess this is why I have stayed. I have left 3 times and go back. I am so so so lonely, I dream of being happy. I dream of being with someone that I can laugh with and cry with. I feel I am to old now, at 52 and female, to be starting over. I guess I feel bad for him. We have nothing in common, and all these years, I have lived the most lonliest life ever. He is a hard worker, but that is all.
Communication is what you need right now. Tell hiim you're feeling unhappy and are thinking of leaving him for good. Because you've left him before and came back he'd probably expect you to do the same thing. But i think its time to get out of there. There are plenty of men your age and younger who would love to make you happy and make you laugh and give you the sex that you've not had in 3 years. Just the fact that you're asking for advice means that you are very unhappy. Some people say maiirage is sacred and you should stick it out no matter what, but happiness, to me, is a far more sacred thing!! A life without a marriage may be lonely, but a life without happiness... thats no life at all...
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Ok so i'm pregnant with my first child..and I am 35 weeks pregnant.
My due date is March 12th..as the days get closer I get a little more panicked about the whole thing.
I want to do it the natural way..no epidural..but I'm starting to really freak out about the pain and the unexpected.
I guess what I'm looking for is not really an answer but more like comfort and support from people who have experienced this.
I'm also worried that I won't know when I'm going into labor..i kno everyone says I'll know.
I'm just panicking about everything...
I've had one child and am 5 weeks pregnant with my second, so i'll give you the best advice i can. I was induced, so im not sure if i could tell you about going into labour, because i gradually went into labour over a number of hours. The key is to relax about it. Labour and birthing hurts, there's no doubt about it... but you just need to remember that you're going to have a beautiful little baby at then end if it. Your own little miraculous creation. Us women were born to do this, pregnancy and birth. When my pain got intense i used the gas and it worked wonders for me and helped with breathing.
So keep focused on the goal... Your little baby... and you will have a reason to stay sane.
And the main thing now, is to relax for the last few weeks and just let it happen. If you're stressing then the baby could possibly come early or there could be complications.
Good luck!!
xoxo
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I'm stressing out and have been google-ing everything remotely related to birth control pills and pregnancy. Please help put my mind at ease! Here's my story: I'm 17 years old and have been on yaz birth control for 5 months. At the beginning of my last pack, I forgot to run to the pharmacy to pick it up. So I didn't start my pack until the next day. 2 weeks later I missed a pill and took it as soon as I remembered the next day. Then I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend.. But he pulled out .. Idk if that matters. Anyways the past week I've been having brown discharge and I'm not due for my period for another 3 days. What are the chances that I'm pregnant? Thanks in advance..
Heres the best advice i can give you...
Dont waste your time on the internet asking people if your pregnant... GO GET A PREGNANCY TEST.
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Hey listen this is kinda embarrassing but one of my breasts is bigger than the other and droops lower. actually alot bigger, you can't tell when i'm wearing a good bra, but when i'm topless its very visible. i'm 15 years old, and its steadily bee bigger for awhile, so i have to know, will my other one catch up, or is it gonna stay like this? i'm already a 34C
Its soooo very common. Mine are almost a whole size different. But i'm 21 and i also breastfed for 11 months...
You're still young so it should catch up...
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Okay im 17 and i love my boyfriend to death! We have talk about babies a few times and we both want one but our only problem is that we have no money so we dropped the subject, well atleast he did. I really want one but i dont know why. I thought it was just a faze but i been wanting one for awhile now! I love babies. Im going to college to be a midwife and ultrasound tech. Its a possibility that i may be pregnant now but i wont know til this weekend. I dont know how he will react if i was but if im not i may be real upset. I dont really like kids though lol well kids that im not use to. They all seem so bad but my lil brother is one of the baddest kids i know and i love him soo much! Maybe because he was raised around me so he listens to me. Hummm i think i would be a good mother and i know i would love my kid even as it grows cause i mean its mine. What do i do? Do i talk to him about having one? Or just keep praying that the subject pops up and he tells me that he's ready? Im young but i know i can do it. i dont know help? =]
I was in the same position as you when i was 17. I was desperate for a baby. So i had one. Things were fine for a while but i fell out of love with my boyfriend because he was never home, and lost alot of my friends and things like that. You really need to be sure this is what you want. I wouldnt trade my little girl for anything in the world but if i had waited another few years it may have been different.
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okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood?
Some of these people are stupid...
Most women dont get their period while they're pregnant. Some, however, DO!
You need to google 'menstruation' and read up on it... Its good for guys to know that kinda stuff anyway.
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My fiance's father told us that he and his father had to get a shot to be sterale does it run in the family? My fiance and I have been trying to get pregnant for months how about do you go getting that shot? A doctor of to a fertility clinc??
Ok, sterile means 'not able to have kids'. Im sure you mean fertile. Im not sure what could possibly be the problem but i'd try talking to a doctor about it.
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Does anyone know this song? It used to be my favourite song a few years ago except I never found out what it was called. Please help cos I love the lyrics...
This is all I remember from the song:
"There will be no white flag above my door, cos I'm in love and I will..........."
Sorry that's all I can remember cos it's been a while since I heard it last.
If you don't know this song, but you know a website where I can submit these lyrics and find out what the song is, please give me the link because that would be just as helpful.
Thanks xx
Its by DIDO ... i think its called white flag
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My hubby wants to make me have a female ejaculation (aka squirting). I've read info on it, this isn't new to me, but I'm still having a hard time believe it actually exist. All the videos of it I've seen are very fake looking, there's so much fluid I'm having a hard time believing it's nothing more then urine. It is supposed to be the best orgasm ever. If it is actually possible, what can I do to help him achieve this? If any women have actually experienced a female ejactulation, I'd like to know a little more about it and how to help my man with this.
I have experienced it alot... I've read several things, first is that it is bodily fluid that is released because of the pressure of having an orgasm. Second is that it is urine that is squirted because of orgasm pressure. Not all women can achieve female ejaculation. Get him to do what feels the best and keep doing it... If he's doing it right you'll get there...
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whats the best position to go in for sex for people who are just starting out who may not be that experienced?
I advise you to try them all... Missionary (guy on top) to begin with cos its the easiest. Then try girl on top. Then try doggy style... Then just use your imagination... When you're just starting, dont be afraid to screw it up. You're both gonna just laugh at it and go for something else anyway. Why not just try it??
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Hello. My name is Bobby, I`m 32 and from London. I no longer want to live. I am not in an irrational state of mind and niether do I suffer from a debilitating mental illness. I obviously have issues but I have a fire in my heart and I strongly believe death is the only solution for me in order to exorcise this pain. Yes I am sad and lonely and have no friends and have debts and have little money and no prospects but I do not want anything anymore. Death has become a beautiful dream for me and all I want from the almighty is death. If people in physical pain are sometimes allowed to die (euthanasia) then why can someone in extreme emotional pain not be allowed to do the same. My pain is too great and too deep to be simply diagnosed and treated via therapy or drugs or a combination of the 2. My pain has paralysed me emotionally and has left me a pathetic and useless wreck. I must have the same rights to die as someone in physical pain. I don`t want attention and niether do I want to be celebrated (I`m a nobody after all) so this is not a plea for help or some pathetic attention seeking rant. I genuinely want to die. If society can accept the self-death of someone in physical pain then why can it not accept the death of someone in emotional pain. Who`s to say my pain is not equal or greater than that someone?
Seriously, why put your shit onto all of us? Emotional pain... yeah everyone on the face of this earth feels emotional pain. They get over it or take medication. And who says your pain is "too great for medication"??? Have you tried it?
You have NO right to end your life. There are people out there who want more than anything to live, but they've been given a month or so to live...
Man up Bobby... Step up to the plate, go see a doctor and get on some meds...
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Okay, this will be long so get ready.. alright I like this guy named Matt so much! Like , I'll start from the beginning. Okay, I started likening him on the second week of school. I still like him even MORE now. I started giving him notes...telling him I like him...I heard rumors from my friends that he threw them away.So, I quite giving him notes. I gave him a Christmas card...and he took it...I am thinking about giving him a v-day card... but I don't think I should because...the last time my friend tried to give him a note from me ...he wouldn't take it!! So, should I give him the card ...or not ?? I don't think I should because ..he won't add me on my space ... In the request I told him that I liked him a lot and I wanted him to add me so we can get to know each other...he went on 20 minutes after I sent the request and he didn't add me... I sent it to him in like December.. I think...um... so all this time he hasn't added me. I think I should give up on him...even though..I love him..I feel like shit.... I don't know what to do.... I care for him so much... Someone please tell me what to do!!! Did I so something wrong? I think I shouldn't of gave him those notes...what do you think ? Thanks for whoever try's to help..
-Mattlover
He clearly doesnt like you... If you keep going you're gonna seem like a stalker.
You need to try and forget about him. As hard as it is... he doesnt like you.
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You have shown CLEAR obsessed stalker behaviour... You ask for advice then say "screw you" when i give it to you??? You asked what people thought, im a person... i told you what i thought.
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