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Hymen reconstruction
So i lost my virginity to a real jerk who broke my heart and made me very depressed i decided a long time later that when i met the right person i would have my hymen reconstructed for a very special night i have been with this guy for almost a year and he is very special to me but now i am starting to have second thoughts about the hymen thing i asked one of my guy friends if it was a good idea and he said it was a very discusting idea and i should not do it i need opinions what do you think
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Thats got to be the dumbest thing I've read in a while, no offense.
He isn't going to care that your hymen is gone, why do you? There is absolutely no reason to have your friggin hymen reconstructed. You screwed up, you trusted the wrong person. These things happen to everyone, and you've got to accept that, learn what you can from it, and put it behind you.
You're with a guy you like, that should be enough. Pretending the past didn't happen doesn't work, because the past changes who you are today, and if you don't accept that and learn from your mistakes, you will continue to screw things up in the future.
Virginity isn't important. Being with someone who cares about you is. Go from that.
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WHY???
Why would you want to go through the pain again?
Why would you want to lie to a guy you like??
Why would you waste your money having something done that you just going to UNdo???
Sorry if im so blunt and seem mean...
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why would you want to pay for that when your just going to break it again. Not telling your new guy that your already not a virgin is wrong.. and misleading cause your lying. But if you dont plan to have a lasting relationship with the guy then okay. I had no idea you could even get that reconstructed, thats just weird. Its already broken so just let it be. If you really love this new guy then youll feel completely great about when you guys do it, regardless of wether your hymen is intact.
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I understand why you feel like you'd want to, but I don't think you should. Do you really want to go through the pain of losing your virginity again? If this guy is as special as you think, he'll totally understand.
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Hymen Reconstruction is considered to be cosmetic surgery which can range anywhere from 1,800-5,000$. Most insurance companies do not cover cosmetic surgery. Do you really consider that worth it? Look, most girls have lost their virginity to a real asshole. I am a victim of losing mine to a complete jerk - however I consider it a lesson learned and I feel so much stronger knowing I went through something like that. Think of it as something you have overcome and you don't ever have to look back on. I realize that virginity is something you can never get back but thats okay. You have learned to not be with someone like that and your next will treat you so much better. Love your body the way it is and start accepting the truth that way you can move on to a better, brighter future. Good Luck!
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