Okay, this will be long so get ready.. alright I like this guy named Matt so much! Like , I'll start from the beginning. Okay, I started likening him on the second week of school. I still like him even MORE now. I started giving him notes...telling him I like him...I heard rumors from my friends that he threw them away.So, I quite giving him notes. I gave him a Christmas card...and he took it...I am thinking about giving him a v-day card... but I don't think I should because...the last time my friend tried to give him a note from me ...he wouldn't take it!! So, should I give him the card ...or not ?? I don't think I should because ..he won't add me on my space ... In the request I told him that I liked him a lot and I wanted him to add me so we can get to know each other...he went on 20 minutes after I sent the request and he didn't add me... I sent it to him in like December.. I think...um... so all this time he hasn't added me. I think I should give up on him...even though..I love him..I feel like shit.... I don't know what to do.... I care for him so much... Someone please tell me what to do!!! Did I so something wrong? I think I shouldn't of gave him those notes...what do you think ? Thanks for whoever try's to help..
-Mattlover
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Sunday January 25 2009, 5:25 pm: Hello,are you sure you love him because love is a strong word,buy I am sure he has many alluring qualties that make you attratcted to him, I think it might be more of infatuation,I have experienced the same feeling it is really powerful so I can inderstand how you are feeling exactly.This emotion can cause you to do almost anything to get that guy, I think it is a great idea to try at something/someone you really want but at the same time do not try too hard, guys like to go after the girl more so than the other way around. He can obviously tell you are interested but now that you ahve displayed your interest be more laid back with your approach, don't go after him too much it will turn him away, if the guy has no room to want you then it will most likely not happen. Try to talk to him and send him notes less, it's ok every now and then but since he is used to you showing him lots of attention it will be a shock when you suddenly stop, this may make him want you in return, becuase you never know what you have until you loose it. He will more than likely start to say hi or small things after you show him less attention and if not then he is not the one for you, there are plenty of fish in the see and I am sure you are a beautiful,smart young lady your guy will come soon..I am 17 and have yet to be in a relaionshi[ but my optimism gives me hope..I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND [ THINKPOSITIVE7's advice column | Ask THINKPOSITIVE7 A Question ]
xkatiex answered Tuesday January 20 2009, 3:59 pm: He clearly doesnt like you... If you keep going you're gonna seem like a stalker.
You need to try and forget about him. As hard as it is... he doesnt like you.
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