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hiya, im 20 i have a boyfriend of 2yrs, we are not that close anymore, we keep arguing etc and i try to leave him but i cant. anyway, i know this guy whoa 29, married with 2 children. his mum has just passed away after having cancer [she was a close family friend] i see him often and we are really close and have loads in common. we both want each other and are always flirting & touching. we always text each other and he has told me he is having the 7 yr itch with his wife [they dont really get on, she is a bitch] anyway last night we got carried away and he has his hands down my bra and we kissed. it was so amazing, never felt anything like it before with my bf. we both want each other so much, its being going on for about 3/4 months but this is the first time i havent hidden my feelings and kissed him. i dont regret it at all but im so confused. he is just using me to try and get some sex or does he genuinly like me? he always says we have loads in common and he worries about me when i go out drinking etc.
i think i might be falling for him and have no idea what to do!!
emma xx [uk]
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Well Emma, it sounds like he's using you to make
up for what he's not getting out of his marriage.
My advice is that you don't allow yourself to become
an object. You can become emotionally hurt by the
catastrophic results that situations like these
always seem to bring about.
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Think about it long and hard... That comes from personal experience. I fell for my ex's best mate and it destroyed my sanity for almost a year! If you are straying you need to leave your boyfriend ASAP. You need to ask yourself why you cant leave. Are there any real reasons or are you just making them up to convince yourself? The married man could be genuinly feeling things for you... or then again he could just want to have sex with you and use you then throw you away when he's done.
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Stay away from him. I'm not even kidding. 7 year itch or whatever you want to call it does NOT in any way mean he is leaving his wife and kids for you. It means he wants to use you.
You can do plenty of reading about this on the internet. I suggest you do before taking it further. You will get hurt and hurt his family in the process. She is not a bitch, she is tired because she is raising his kids while he runs around like a teenager in heat.
He may genuinely like you, but he will not leave his wife for a relationship with you. He may make promises to get what he wants but he will not keep them. Think about it for a minute. He promised his wife even more than that and he is out cheating on her. He is a liar already.
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