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My best friend is being a bi*ch (really long story)
I'm 13 and I have 5 best friends and in the group there's Fi, Sarah, Lo(my best friend), Dion and Nicole.
2 days ago while me, Lo and Fi were having lunch together (Dion has 2 sides, one is mine and the other is another group, so at lunch she sits with them, Nicole eats with Sarah and another girl.) So me and Fi were talking and Lo was really quiet, so we asked her what was wrong but she ignored us. We talked again and then asked her what's wrong again but again she ignored us. Then someone told us that she was mad at us because she thought we acted like she wasn't there, which was totally untrue. Then me and Fi sent her an apology sms. She replied with a 'what the??'. Then at choir practice she made up with Fi by asking Fi to sit with her. She then apologized to me through msn. OK, so I thought this thing was over. I was wrong. The day after that, everything went fine, and last night we even webcamed and laughed together. But today, after music class, everything started to turn bad. She was mad again at us for some reasons that we could not figure out. This time she was mad at me, Fi and Nicole but not Sarah. I have NO IDEA why and she won't even talk to me. Dion told me that Lo told her: Dunno why, but I'm starting to dislike Fi and Nicole but especially Alisa(me). I was like WTF?! I have been nothing but nice to her!!! I was really mad and sad. The four of us(without lo) discussed about it and gathered some info:
1. lo said that she didnt have any friends in elementary school, and she doesn't like to be ignored. (she said it to Fi)
2. lo said nicole was showing off because she was talking about her boyfriend in msn
In the last lesson, Lo told Dion that she wants to be friends again with Fi and Nicole but not me! Why does she have to make everything so complicated and dramatic??? I don't want Fi and Nicole to be friends with her because it would be really awkward when we are together knowing that me and lo are still arguing! What should i do?! I don't think i can stand her mood swings but i don't want to lose my best friend who i have fun with!
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Okay. I see you're having a hard time right now, but the solution to your problem is very simple and right there in front of you.
I mean you guys did gather around and discussed the situation, but you've missed one person.
Lo herself, i mean i think you should get her and all your friends and discuss the issue with her.
You'll know the truth and solve it together.
Good Luck
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Hey you shouldn't be friends with her and neither shold your other friends she is obviosly not a good friend if she treats you like sh**. Talk to your other friends about it and they will understand they probably dont want to be friends with lo if she's being such a cow
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I hate fighting with friends. First you should not make Fi and Nicole choose between you and Lo. That could end badly. Even if you and Lo are fighting you two should not make you're other friends suffer. You should pull Lo aside and talk to her. Don't let you're other friends be the messengers. Tell Lo that when she is upset with you to talk to you and not Fi, Dion, or Nicole. That you way you two can figure it out and you don't have to get everyone else involved. Things get more complicated when too many people are involved. I understand you not wanting to lose you're best friend, but maybe Lo isn't the type of person that you want to be friends with.
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