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i like to help people so this is the easiest way to help people and i hope that i actually do help in the end. anyone and everyone can ask something and you dont have to leave your name or anything. i'll help you in any way i can. i hope to become a psychologist someday so this is good practice for me. please let me know how i'm doing. also, i like to write poetry and i love my boyfriend alan very much. ~Kare


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ok well what do u do if u have a really close frined and then u get another good,nice friend and u want all 3 of u to hang out but the 1st friend doesnt like the new one?

its kinda like... u want 2+1 to equal 3...but it wont..? (link)
well...ask them why they dont like the new one. i have friends like that. they get alone when im not there, but when i am..all they do is fight. just ask them and see what they say. then go from there. hope i helped.


My so called friend came up to me and told me she ALMOST had sex with this guy who I like and likes me to and were kind of going out. So I find out from one of his friends that they didnt then after school I see him and he completly ignores me wont hold my hand, doesnt kiss me goodbye, and doesnt even say bye It pissed me off but what IM wondering is what does that mean? (link)
it means that you dont have very good friends. if one of my friends did that i would blow up at them and the guy. both of them we're involved. next time you see him, ask him flat out why hes ignoring you. and say that you really want to talk to him...and dont take no for a answer. you deserve some answers. hope i helped.


Ok theres this guy lets call him,um, "todd"... well "todd" is in my science class..today he was like ur really quiet n i was like not all tha time he was like yeah i know i saw you at lunch today laughin n talkin n smiling n stuff..n we kept talkin..n then he was like "ur so sexy,perfect for me" i kno its a song...but he sings it everytime we talk...is he tryna tell me something? does he like me?
Sry its long ill rate good if you answer (link)
it could be that hes flirting. flirt back with him. hint about things too. good luck. if you need anything else then just leave one in my inbox.


15/m
I'm having trouble with my step-mother because she makes it painfully obvious that she doesn't want me around. I've got one brother one step-brother and two step-sisters, and me and my real brother always get put down and have to do all the work in the house.She always complains at me and blames me for everything she also treats me horribly and she makes me feel sooo depressed...

I know this sounds like a whole lot of complaining but I am a sensitive person and I need to sit my dad down and have a talk with him about my step-mother. Her complaining has gotten me to the point of attemped suicide a couple of times. But I can never see him because he is always at work and when he is home I can't build up the courage to sit him down to talk. :( (link)
you have to talk with him...maybe write him a note or something. but sucide is not the answer. i know..i've tryed as well. but you deffinitly need to talk to him. maybe he'll see whats going on and talk to her about it. or talk to your brother about it if you want. maybe he can say something like "have you seen the way shes treating him? its not right" or something like that. but dont kill yourself. hope i helped.


is it ok to go out with a perosn that is younger than you? (link)
yeah totally, well as long as you like the person and all that. age shouldnt matter.


Someone, somehow got into my column and changed all of my ratings for people. First of all how did they do this and how do i change my password? (link)
same thing happened to me. its level 2 mods i guess. but i still changed my password. just go to profile settings and where it says change password, put in your new one, then put it in again in the line under that. i dont think its fair for them to do that. they make everyone sound like a real ass. hope this helped.


I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help! (link)
well, i'm not sure. but i feel the same way you do. i never wear tampons and im 15. i know other girls who are my age and older who wont wear them. hope this helps any.


hey im 16 years old/male

ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs


ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me (link)
wow i would be so pissed at my parents if they did that to me. i dont think you should break up with her. but i do think that you should talk to your parents and ask them why they're acting like they are. i mean they liked her when they thought she was just your friend, whats the difference. ok well there is a difference between friend and g/f but not a big one. if her parents want to meet you, just be polite and stuff like that. just talk to your parents, if you really love her then you should be able to be with her. hope i helped.


okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance. (link)
its totally normal. my friend just got her period and shes 15. most girls get in between 12-16. its still ok if you dont get it after 16, just as long as you do by 18. but trust me, you dont want it. its a huge pain in the ass. my friend thought the same thing as you...that is until she got it. she, like most girls, start hating it as soon as they do get it. if you want/need to talk about guys or girl stuff, you can always talk to me. i'll try and help in any way i can or i'll just listen if you want me to. my sn's blinkbabe2469. dont worry hun.


I really really like my boyfriend but he's always doing things on the weekend to do with scouts and his church and things. I don't think he's only saying that to avoid me but I really want to spend time with him. What should I do? (link)
talk to him about it. tell him that you want to see him more, or ask him when he is avalible. tell him how much you want to spend time with him. just be like "i know you're busy but i miss you and want to spend time with you" or something like that. hope i helped.


kay im 15 and kinda have gurl probs.

1) every time 1 tries to kiss me i shy away because im scared that a might do somthin wrong
2)im afraid to go on a date again because i might do somthing wrong.
3) i dont no y but there are alot of hot gurls in my area and im ntimidated by alot of them


PLease help me! (link)
1. everyone is scared when they're first kissing someone and they always think they're going to do it wrong, so you're not alone in this. just go for it, it just comes to you. i dont know how to explain it but trust me it does.
2. again, just go for it. if you mess up just think oh well, and laugh about it. everyone messes up or does something wrong. and you might not do anything wrong so you're just holding youself back from dating.
3. i feel the same way. i always think that all the other girls are prittier than me. its just our confidence/self esteme. we just have to work on it. just try not to be so intimidated by them. easier said then done.
hope i helped. ~Kare


im 15 year old male.

okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.

Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET (link)
well, has she ever kissed before? if its her first kiss then maybe shes nervous about it. or she doesnt want to do it in fromt of a lot of people. try taking her on a walk somewhere and then try again. she might just want it to be special. hope i helped.


whenever anyone starts to kiss me i always freak out cause I don't know what to do and I pull away, what's wrong with me? (link)
theres nothing wrong with you. you're just nervous, thats all. everyone(ok well mostly) is nervous about their first kisses or that they wont do it right or anything. it really does just come to you. i know it doesnt sound like much, but there's really no way to explain it. just try not to be so nervous, remember: the sooner it happens the sooner it'll be over with and then you'll feel better. hope i helped.


Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
im engaged with my boyfriend and we're both 15. i dont think you're too young. we're just lucky that we found the guys who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. hope i helped. if you need anything just leave one in my inbox.


Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex? (link)
there are plenty of guys out there like that. i've found one. and you'll find one too. it just shows that they're not the one for you. you should be with a guy who will wait until you're ready, otherwise hes not worth your time. hope i helped.


Okay I asked a question before about boners before. :/ Please dont delete this question, I need some opinions. When a guy gets a boner is his penis supposed to go up or straight. Somone told me its a sign of cancer. :( Is that true? Or does it have something to do with age? Help please!!!! (link)
lol no theres nothing to worry about, its got nothing to do with cancer. if it did...then just about every guy in the world would have it.


im 13/f and my boyfriend is 15 well i just saw him on friday (its sunday) and i was with his for like 5 hours but see that was the first time in like a month in a half for us to see eachother and when i got home (11:30) i went to sleep at like 1am he called me at like 1:15am and i was sleepin but when i was sleepin i had this GRRREAT dream about us..now whenever i hear his voice i just get soo sad and i really wanna see him this friday but i dont kno if he wants me to but is this normal? ..to hav a really great dream about my boyfriend of almost 4months..and just get really sad about him because all yesterday i was just outside on the swing thinkin i wasent my self at all!!..cz i miss him..some help me please!! (link)
yes its normal. i feel the same about my boyfriend and we've been going our for over a year. so i've been feeling that way for a long time. and it just makes it even more special the next time you see him, if you miss him that much. and it sucks not getting to see them. its not fair...other people are lucky they get to see their g/f or b/f on a regular basis. but if you saw them every day, then theres more of a chance that you'll get on eachothers nurves more. well i hope i helped. leave one in my inbox if you need anything.


ok well im really unhappy with my life and ive thought about sucicide but never really wanted to do it because i know that that is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i was wondering if anyone can help me be...happier, or give me some tips (link)
sure, im the same way. i told me mom about me being unhappy and now im on pills but also talking to freidns really does help. or writing in a journal. i also write poetry about how i feel but not a lot of people get that its about how i feel. but it helps. and if you need someone to talk to my sn's blinkbabe2469. im alawys willing to listen.


We Just Moved Into A New House And We Bought It. So My Mom Said I Can Paint And Decorate My Room However I want. I Dont Know What I Should Paint It Though. My Favorite Colors Are Pink And Purple. And I Love The Playboy bunny. Does Anyone Know Where I Could Get Playboy bunny stuff? Or Pink Stuff For Your Room? Thanks. (link)
you could do your walls in one color, and then in the other paint the playboy bunny around your room.


my bf lives like an hour away nd i see him every weekend nd i love the kidd soo much its like scarey nd i kno he loves me too. but since i started school ive started likin this otha kid too but i kno if i wasnt goin out wit my bf i wouldnt eva do ne thin more than hook up wit him cuz hes like madd cool nd i wouldnt want him to like hate me or ne thin. im so confused cuz i have no idea wut to do is that even rite to hav a bf nd be feelin someone else too? wut should i do? i need help fast im like soo confuzed
thnx!!
~Confused (link)
well if you're going out with the kid and like someone else, then it doesnt really sound like you love him. i dont think it's right to have a b/f and like someone else, but that just my opinion. others might dissagree. go with who you like more. but it isnt fair to either of them if you're just leading them on. hope i helped any. and sorry for sounding like a bitch, i didnt mean to.




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