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friends vs. other friends
ok well what do u do if u have a really close frined and then u get another good,nice friend and u want all 3 of u to hang out but the 1st friend doesnt like the new one?
its kinda like... u want 2+1 to equal 3...but it wont..?
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well why dont you spend time with both at seperate times
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I think your close friend is worried about being replaced. She might think of you as her 'territory' and be upset that there's competition. I would explain that you'll still be as close as ever, but that you want to hang out with this other girl, too.
You can explain you want all THREE of you to hang out; it's that or you going off with the new girl, which is just what your close friend fears.
I think having an open conversation will help. If your first friend just genuinely doesn't like the third girl, there's nothing you can do. Spend time with each of them separately.
Good luck.
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IM SO SRY THERE IS NOTHING U CAN DO BUT U CAN STILL HAND WITH THEM BY URSELF CANT U
OR U CAN BRING BOTH OF THEM TOGETHER AND TALK IT OUT
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ok this is something that happens alot it even happened to me..i had this friend for a while nd she introduced me to a friend of hers an dthey dotn hang out as much us they used to and no i hang out with them the same..they would get mad at me if i did something with one of them and not the other, it got me so frustrated and i finally just said if u are really my friends you wont care who my friends are and if u guys dont get along then i dun care because u guys are still my good friends.. that weekend we all hungout and now were the best of friends.. try it out they will get the pint and make sure u let them no ur serious..hope i helped xox tessa
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well...ask them why they dont like the new one. i have friends like that. they get alone when im not there, but when i am..all they do is fight. just ask them and see what they say. then go from there. hope i helped.
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Get your two friends together at your house. But don't tell them that the other person is coming (or they might not show up). Then try to get them to like eachother. Then maybe you guys can all hang together! Hope I helped you ;)
-casey<33
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which friend is nicer to u and which one do u see and hang out wit more u can have more then one best friend! well i hope that helped u out if it didnt ask me me more question to help u
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