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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]
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im going to be moving into a new house and the room that i get is pretty small compared to the bigg room i had before, does anyone know any good idea to make the room bigger??
and also any good themes for my room, and if u do any good websites to check out for room decorating?
thanks so much!
http://www.bhg.com/bhg/househome/index.jhtml
Here is a good website, it had a test that tells you how to organize and design your bedroom. And there are also some ideas for themes. Good Luck!
is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???
Most likely no, but it is better to wear no bra to sleep. Hope I helped!
um...this is gonna sound weird, but i'm 14, and i'm....like, hairy, if you know what i mean, my gf doesn't like it, how do i get rid of the hair without just shaving it, i've heard that doesn't work
You could always wax but I doubt you wanna do that. But you don't know how it feels since your a guy. Okay use Nair Hair Remover. All you do is put it everywhere you want hair removed and leave it there for a couple minutes then wipe it off with a cloth and all the hair comes off with it. Warning though- When your using it the chemicals used to remove the hair has a wierd smell. Good Luck!
School is coming up quickly and i need help with some clothes to wear and makeup. i need to get some hot clothes but not to exspensive. Also, what about make-up. i need something that will bounce make people look at me u know. Also for hair my hair what do u suggest. pleassse repile.
Thanz
Tamia
Hair- Wear it down, you could crimp it, or get it layered and straighten it.
Clothes- Torn jeans, like they have holes in em. Or just a regular pair of jeans. Or a cute mini skirt. For a shirt, maybe a cute logo T-shirt or tank top. Ross has cheap clothes that are cute and name brands.
Make up- Creme eyeshadow, the color of your shirt that your wearing. A little eye liner. And mascera.
Hope this look works for ya! Have fun!
I think I’m suffering from depression. And my relationship with my family is going down hill. I feel like I’m such a burden and I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I want to tell my parents but it’s just so hard to tell them how I’m feeling. I’m 17 and I love my parents very much but I can’t live with them and get the help I need. I'm not sure if I should tell them or just let things go on the way they are and be miserable?
You should try to tell them, because they could get you help. It's probably not gonna be easy for you to tell them so you can either say it to their face or maybe write them a letter and say it. I wish you luck!
im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!
You need to make the first move, just lean in to kiss him and most likely he will want to kiss also. Most guys are too shy to make the first guy, or are afraid you don't want to, so you gotta let them know you want to. Good Luck!
I'm 15/f. Last year I really liked this guy, but we rarely talked and stuff. In like April I stopped liking him. Well, now I think like him again. It's summer now and I haven't seen him since the end of May. I'm going to see him again in a few weeks. I want to be able to talk with him, but I don't want to freak him out or anything. What should I do?
Why would talking to him freak him out? Just go up to him and be like 'hey whats up?' then just start a conversation. I don't think I'm getting what your saying but I'm trying to help you out anyway. Just talk about anything you guys have in commen, sports, school, friends, eachother, anything. Then once you become friends, start hanging out at eachothers houses or the movies and stuff like that. Then maybe he will start to like you back after a while if your close. Hope I helped! Good luck!
-- this might be long so sorry im goin to try to put in all details.. wel my bf's birthday is 6 days away and it will also be our 17 months together.. for birthdays and stuff like this he always goes all out for me and i want to do the same for him.. its not easy planning stuff for a guy bc they rnt into the whole cutesy lovey dovey stuff like all the girls are.. well i know i already hve him cologne and i am PLANNING on gettin him a north carolina championship basketball also.. [bc he loves NC] well idk what to DO.. i mean ive thought of a few things but i dont want it to be too lovey dovey u know? well i think im goin to make a collage card with pix of us in it and right a note on the inside.. but i need ideas on things to DO.. like where to take him what to do and all that.. nothing sexual.. he is turning 15 and now im 14.. not tryin to be bragging but i hve money to spend on him.. i just want to make him feel special and hve a great birthday.. so if someone could PLEASE give me some good answers i would GREATLY appreciate it! if you need anymore info just ask
Okay maybe you could throw him a surprise party. You could make it no theme or a theme. Like a basketball theme or something and that is where you could give him that basketball. Or you could just make it like balloons and friends type party, since he is not like a little kid. And for gift ideas maybe you could get him some cd's he wants. Just find out from his friends what he has wanted for like a while. And maybe they would know. Well I hope I helped! Good luck!
im really confused..im going out with this one guy..he lives 2 hours away and i barely see him..he has cheated on girls in the past and im worried hell cheat on me..and this on other guy..my ex.. i still have feelings for him..and he lieks me again and says he loves me and all this nice stuff and today my b.f called me n i heard people in the background but no one talkin n i hung up n called back n i think he ignored it...n i see my ex more n talk 2 him more n my b.f never tells me he loves me or mething i donno wut to do plzzzz help me thanx soo much!!!
Okay from the sounds of it, I think that your ex is a better boyfriend even when he isn't your boyfriend. It's up to you but if I was in your position I would break up with the guy your going out with then tell your ex you still have feelings for him, and you said he still has feelings for you. If he does then maybe you guys could start the relationship back up. I'm only saying break up with the boyfriend you have right now because he has the rep of cheating on people and you heard people in the backround on the phone so you never know, and better safe then sorry/hurt. Hope I helped! If you have anymore questions, drop one in my inbox.
Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks.
You could think about school work maybe? Like concentrate on studying and getting good grade (unless you already have good grades) or maybe you could focus on raising money for something you want. Just whatever you think will keep you from thinking about him. Good luck!
-----Tara
its lasted like..about.. well, a long time. sooo, wut meds should i take? heh kinda stupid question and i cud ask like my parents or w/e but they're not really here for me to ask them right now. and uh.. well, heh cud it be cuz of the computer? cuz i seem to get it while i'm infront of a certain computer, or.. ehh, well anyway it hurts alot. so.. anything i could do about it other than taking meds?
Take tylonal (sp?) or advil. Believe me it helps a lot. Just make sure your taking the right medicine.
what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean?
He called him gay.
ok here i go, i'm 16, and my gf wants to have sex, i'm ready, but i don't know if "it" should be shaved. help please??!!
All girls opinions are different some girls like it shaved some don't. (im a girl) I would say trim it because almost all girls dont like a big bush so yeah trim it or ask her what she likes.
my firends, family, just people that i am around always ask me if i cut myself since i have cuts down my arm. i need to give them a good reason for why i have these cuts. theyre actaully old scars from a while ago but they relly refuse to believe that. can u plez give me...escuses(i dno wut else to call them) of why i might have these marks?
plez no smart ass answers,
ill rate 5s for anything that isnt
You could say you fell and got cut up. Or maybe if you have any younger siblings say they scratched you cause you were bugging them. I can't really think of any other realistic answers but I hope I helped!
I have a lot of freakles or however you spell it and i hate them! is there a good coverup for evening our your face and covering freakles? And please don't tell me to just love the way i am. thanks in advance!
Just try to use foundation. It is hard to cover them up completely but I heard cover girl works good. Good luck!
Heyy! I rate high! I was jus wondering if any one will give me any tips to giving good advice!Please and thanks!
All you have to do is ask yourself what you would do in their situation. Or what would you tell that person if it was your best friend or something. Just tell the person what you think is best.
I didnt know where to place this question. So I just placed it anywhere.. anyway.. my question is.. When you shave down there... What can you use to not have it itch afterwards :/ Hell I dont even like shaving it! I'm gonna do a little at a time.. :/ Wow... Do I feel stupid
Don't feel stupid, it happens to most girls. Just use lotion after.
14/f
How often should you change the your razor head for shaving your legs/under arms/pubic area? There's nothing on the box. I use Venus if that helps.
You change it when the old razor gets dull and doesn't cut the hair as much.
I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?
Maybe you could go to the coach, then he or she (i dont know which) could talk to her or maybe kick her off the squad. I dont know, just dont talk back because that could get you kicked off the squad, so act calm and try not to lose your cool.
okay i wrote a book and at the moment i'm typing it and making corrrections to it, but how do i get it published?
You could like find adds for publishing places and send it to as many as you can. And one of them is bound to publish it.