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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

No i probaly wouldn't go out with him. Not because i wouldn't know what he looked like, but because i personally i wouldn't want to go out with my sister's friends. that could potentially cause some unwanted drama

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Hi
disregarding the old adage,"If it looks too good
to be true,it probably is".....WELL.......I've
just seen an advert in a very reputable magazine(Saga),offering broadband speeds for £24.99 per year!!...www.onspeed.com......What advice would
you offer anyone thinking of taking this on???
I am a senior citizen and would grab this with open arms.
thankyou
regards...abhock

I think you should take a chance. Just make sure you read all the small print

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ok ...i have this friend that has been my best frind for like seven years and she is so sweet but this year we arent on the same team at skool and she has gotten some new friends and i dont have a problem witht hat ...its just that she has this frind and she has been hanging out with her for a long time and every time im around ...she kinda ignores me .. i dont have a prbolem wiht her haning around her but i think she has a problem with me wen she is with both of us !! wut do i do >????

Tell your friend how you feel. maybe she's just trying not to exclude her new friend, and she probaly doesn't realize how she's making you feel

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For class, we have to do a profile/interveiw on someone that we know. We have to have at least 20 questions and i dont know what questions to use. I will rate 5's for effort

ask them they're hobbies. what they do for a living (i'm assuming its an adult) where they were born. they're favorie foods, songs etc. general stuff like that. also, ask them who's their role model or who inspires them. hope i helped

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Well, I hope this doesnt get deleted because I really need some advice. If anybody knows how to handle Geometry proofs and knows how I can get ahold of it, that would be great. It is over Finding congruance of triangles, by using a proof. Please Help!!! ^_^

_-Devin-_

I CAN HELP!!! they're easy once you get the hang of it IM me on ASHHX

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Hey guys! I'll try to make thise short.. okay, so I want to go to this high school in Aurora, IL and I am from Springfield. It's called Illinois Math and Science Academy. My parents don't care or anything but they say that I can't go to Florida with my youth group or Puerto Rico with my friend Erin over the summer if I want to go to this high school. It's a 3-year school and it would mean I skip 9th grade, but I would also get to study many cool subjects like astronomy. Which should I pick and why should I pick it? i rate high. Thanks in advance! ~Brit

if i were you i would go to the school. I'm sure you'll get other oppurtunities to go florida or puerto rico later. maybe if you get a job, and save money you'll be able to go on at least one of those trips. good luck with ur decision

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I have 2 questions...
1) How can I decide what college I want to go to? I know I have to apply to a few, but, you know how everyone has there heart set on one, how can I pick one for me?
2) And, is there any kind of quiz online I can take to give me some good results on a career I could go into? I'm dumbfound when it comes to what I want to be and go to college for.

go to emode.com they have some good career tests. and as for the colleges visit websites, and plan to visit colleges that are in your area so you can really get a taste of what its like.

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i have problems sleeping at night...i always imagine that somethings in my room or someones trying to break in and i feel really uncomfortable. also, when i blow dry my hair, sometimes i freak out because i think of someone on the news that went missing or was murdered and i feel like theyre standing right behind me haunting me..also at midnight, or late, when im walking down the hall, i always run just in case someone is follwing me...whats wrong with me and what should i do

it sounds like your a bit paranoid to me. maybe you should talk to a therapist to see why you're like that. are you afraid of ghosts? cuz if you are then you should try sleeping with a night light ( yea i know it sounds stupid) maybe that will work.

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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

hopefully people aren't shallow enough to make fun of you and your boyfriend just because of your height difference.i honestly don't think it won't affect your because height difference isn't really a big deal.

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theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm

i honestly don't think you can change a player, if he wants to change he'll have to do it himself and in his own time. i'd be a little cautious about going out with him, espiecially if you already know he has a bad rep. with girls.

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ok well i think im pretty but theres alot of girls in my school that our too and i dont get it when im out of school all the guys i meet think im gorgeous but in school evry 1 doesnt they think im kinda pretty...its relle confusing shuld i base my looks on what guys think or what my friends and family say i relle odnn no ..please dont delete this i need answers..xoxo tessa

you shouldn't need people to tell you youre pretty. you should have enough self confidence to know that you are pretty. if you think you're pretty then you are, you don't need other people to validate that.

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im 13/f and ive had my period since january. im a 34a cup and my boobs are kinda pointy, like underneath theyrnt rounded yet cuz im still growing and i may not be fully developed until im 17 because my whole family has really big boobs. my question is, will guys be weirded out if they see ur boobs an they rnt fully developed yet, or should i wait to show anyone them until im fully developed? d guys still think they're hot, or wil they only be sexy if theyre rounded?

thanx
knala

you're only 13 and you want to show guys your boobs. wow your just a lidle young but w/e. i think it depends on the guys but if i were you i would wait. because you have no business flashing some boys

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hey i know this is kind of a weird question, but, my friend lost 54 lbs by only eating graham crackers and hard boiled eggs for 4 months.i cant do that, so i was wondering, are graham crackers good for you? i hate eggs so i wont eat them...

i'm not sure if graham crackers are good for you, but i know that diet isn't good for you! you should eat fruits and vegetables and exercise more if you want to lose weight on a more healthy way. but hey if eating graham crackers and eggs work then go for it.

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Hey! i am overweight! n wanna get homeschooled n work on my diet n stuff.. my mom keeps saying no n stuff! but i think it would be better!! n im rdy for school next yr i just wanna work hard n get the weight of n for me thats easier when im alone... are any of u homeschooled, know how i feel, or in the same situation??? thanks! anyone even homeschooled, how is it n etc...

not to sound rude or anything but i don't think being overweight is a good enough reason for being homeschooled. you could lose weight while you're at school by joing a sport. i play field hockey and there's an overweight girl who plays and she does just fine. good luck. oh and i heard home schooling is really expensive.

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I've had my boyfriend for about 2 weeks now. In the beging, we could never get enough of each other. We would sit by each other constantly, at lunch and everything, and now we don't even sit by each other at lunch.

I went to a movie today, I tried to get close but all he did was put his foot closed to mine. Though I was greatful for that.

He sometimes seems to be annoyed with some of the stuff I do, but then later it seems like he's happy with me again. And he gives me hugs and stuff all the time, (we're too young to kiss, even though we have! lol)

Well, I think I need to give him his space. We see each other in 5 of our classes, and we spent the whole weekend together the other weekend, and we call each other/talk online constantly. I think we're getting into a little too much of each others buisness.

So my question is, do you think I should give him his space, or do you think something else is wrong? Thank you.

Sorry this was so long! =\

i agree with you. it sounds like you have been spending a lot of time together and he's probaly overwhelmed by the amount of time being spent together. so take a short break and after that see how things go

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okay so im a prep. Its my style. But some really big bitch that tries to be 'gangster' and trust me i have no problem with the people who are true gangster, rips on me and my friends. Not that i should let her bother me every1 knows shes a whore, but what can i say back to her when she leaves bitchy things while im on away message.. like for xample shes like yahh you think your hot with your skinny ass and your no thighs and no boobs? Like wtf everyone knows im short but i do have an ass and boobs thank you, maybe not the biggest but pretty damn average, wtf is wrong with her and wtf do i do not to start a huge fight but to get her back?? or maybe give me good thoughts to ignore her?

she's probaly jealous of you. if she's immature of enough to leave messages to you(while you're away no less) then ignore her because she's not worth the trouble

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This is a bit of a hot-button topic and I want everyone to know that I understand extreme responses, but I am asking here in the spirit of recieving support and suggestions. I'm interested in the practicalities of your opinions, here, not simply upon recieving judgement. PLEASE show some compassion and kindness.

So here's the deal: Next week I'm taking a plane flight to Scotland to marry my partner of 6 years. We have a very strong relationship. However, I feel I have very little on the level of practical support to offer in the relationship -- such as a finished education, a job, general income, etc. This relationship is my priority at all times and I will not compromise it for anything.

Recently, I was looking through job offers in a local paper and found an ad for escorts, offering daily cash, a safe environment, and training. According to the person running this service, an escort can make $10,000 a week -- with such an income, I could not only prepare MYSELF for travel, but I could help my incapacitated father a $1000 root canal on his last working tooth (his densures don't work for chewing), I could pay off ALL my college debts, and I could move on with my life.

However, I know that there are many negative aspects to consider in the world of escorting: disease, stigma, relationship integrity, and legality, as well as personal spiritual health & self-image.

If I lived in a world that had none of the above negative factors, I'd be all over the opportunity! Unfortunately, such a world doesn't exist, and I'm here asking you for alternate ideas, suggestions, anything really.

I'm stuck between my debts, my desire to contribute & not be dependent, my sense of responsibility, my feelings of inadequacy and desperation, and a general feeling that escorting is not something I should do, due to the risks. Help?

wow. if i were you, i wouldn't take the job, but then again i'm not in your situation. i can't think of other jobs that would make as much money, but getting a job would definetly help. get a job that you'd feel comfortable with, and that you wouldn't be ashamed to tell your friends and family. i hope i helped. good luck

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I'm a 17 year old manle, and I have my mood changes just like every1 else, but it seems when i get depressed...it really hits me. LAtely it's hit be pretty hard becos it just appears the everything i do or everyone i come in contact with i just screw up, and i often have this feeling like i just want to get away from it all, just...go somewhere and leave my problems. Are these just normal feelings? and does anyone have any ideas for getting out of these moods? I have no thoughts of suicide or anything, I'm not like that, but i just have these terrible feelings and i just want to get away. someone please give me adive.
P.S. Not sure if i put this in the right catergory.

you're normal. everyone gets frustrated once in a while, and just wants to get away

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I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away?

try birth control pills i heard they work well for really bad cramps.

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Hi my name is jess and theres this boy in my school that new i got to know him good and he started to like me than i think we went out now hes saying that his dad says he's to young to go out wit anyone is he saying that for a eccuses or do u think its true.
ps can you tell me what i could do to go out with him

i don't know. he could be telling the truth, or maybe he's nervous about having a gf so he made it up. the only way to see is to meet with his dad, so his dad will get to know you, and so he'll be more comfortable with his son going out with you. if your boyfriend makes another excuse as to why you can't be together then he's probaly not ready for a relationship at the moment

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