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boy trouble
Hi my name is jess and theres this boy in my school that new i got to know him good and he started to like me than i think we went out now hes saying that his dad says he's to young to go out wit anyone is he saying that for a eccuses or do u think its true.
ps can you tell me what i could do to go out with him
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How old are you two? Maybe he is too young (in his parents eyes). You shouldn't do anything that'll get him in trouble with his parents.
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i don't know. he could be telling the truth, or maybe he's nervous about having a gf so he made it up. the only way to see is to meet with his dad, so his dad will get to know you, and so he'll be more comfortable with his son going out with you. if your boyfriend makes another excuse as to why you can't be together then he's probaly not ready for a relationship at the moment
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hmm, if he likes you, then its true. if he doesn't than its an excuse. if its true, then there's nothing you can do but wait. if it isn't, flirt. flirt madly.
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Whether it's true or not, it basically means the same thing: you guys need to slow down a bit, establish the trust of one-another and your parents, and get used to hanging out with somebody who's basically a friend you can hold hands with.
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Maybe you should ask him if HE feels ready to have a girlfriend; if not, offer to be a friend who's also a girl, who might flirt sometimes but it'll all be in fun.
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Find out if his parents -- and your own, for that matter -- would feel better if you always hung out in chaperoned circumstances, such as his living room or at the movies with your parents sitting a couple rows back.
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And mainly ... don't worry. As long as you've got parents to object to your romances, you have plenty of time to just goof around. I doubt anyone would object to that! :)
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well, I don't know him personally to know if he would make that up, something tells me though, a guy who really likes a girl would go out with them anyway-and not tell the dad-i mean..i don't know many parents involved in my friends relationships...that's a toughy?? SORRY! :)
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It all depends...
Do you think he looks like the type of person who would look "to young" to 'go out'? I'd have to question him on that one, if you don't believe ask him if it's the honest-to-God truth-You don't want to freak him out just be like "Well, maybe when you're a little older" or something flirty like that.
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well this would be easier to answer if u told us how old he was.....but lets say hes atleast 16 then i would have to say hes lying because most parents are more strict about their daughters dating than their boys ...but maybi if hes younger than it could be true but persoanlly to me it sounds like hes lying......is he telling u that u guys have to break up because of this? well if so i would aslo say hes lying because if he wasnt lying hed prolli try to make it work without his dad knowing.....sorry to sound so negative but its just my opinion...good luck
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I dont think he's common i know alot of parents dont want thier kids going out until thier like 16.Maybe you could ask him to go to the movies or mall with a friend so that way you can be together and not like be "real" dating or w/e.Hope i helped and he can be able to go out soon.
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