Heyy!! i love helping people and I like to think I'm good at it. I really want to become a level 2 moderator but I haven't been on long enough....so, yeah. Don't hesitate to ask me anything.
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Member Since: August 11, 2005
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Last Update: December 25, 2005
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does anyone know something that can let you make icons for free or really cheap ?? please dont say "Jasc Animation Shop 3" bcuz i already tried that and it expired nd now if i want it back i have to pay for it and i dont wanna.
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make your own!! To find the size, save and icon onto your pics. Go into your pictures, find the icon, right click and select edit. Clear the icon that was on there and put your own...thing on there (I don't recomend this if you're not good at drawing things in Paint). Save your new picture and to use it, go to setup, Preferences, then find, expressions, go to the far right of the box, hit the browse PC button, click on My Pictues, and find your home-made icon!!!
Hope I helped!
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Okay, I finally convinced my mom to start letting me wear tampons. But we're going in the afternoon to get them. (And Im on my period) But my dad wanted me to go down on his bike (motorcycle) to a couple places that are hours away, even in another state, and I have to wear pads. Last time I had an overflow. I'm afraid of that happening again. We're going in the morning at like 11:00am. So what can I do to prevent this? Is there anything I can do? And for another question, what about the tampons? Will they hurt, what if I forget about them,or if I can't understand the directions? Please help. Sorry this is so long. But i'll rate high for good answers. Thanks a lot. (link)
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IM me at canisdirus18 for directions. I have directions from a box.
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How do I go about giving my boyfriend a handjob? And then how do I do it? Is a condom required? thank you!! (link)
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WHOA!!! Um....how old are you????
Ok I'm past the shock...a condom isn't required.....I'm not gonna say anything else.
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I'm going to high school as a freshman.. and I was just wondering, what will the first day be like? Please help, I'm so nervous! (link)
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I'm not exactly sure, being in junior high still, but one can only assume that it would be like the first day of junior high or middle school. Try not to worry so much!
Hope I helped!
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hey guys..i am soo scared to use a tampon cause i'm scared it's gonna hurt or imma put it in the wrong hole or something..lol.. but i reallly wanna know how to use one/ put one in..cause i'm tired of using pads..please help! thx soo much xoxo (link)
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Lots of people have these problems, too. You definatly won't put it in the wrong hole, because it won't feel right. IM me at canisdirus18 if you want instuctions.
Hope I helped!!
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hey. going to sea world in san antonio tommorow. just wondering what i should wear. i don't really like shorts, would jeans look dumb with maybe a tank and flip flops? and should i wear a bathing suit underneath. (link)
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ha, no, jeans would look fine in a tank and flips. I like the look myself. I don't know if you will be...ya know....cool enough but you would look fine. I don't know if you should wear a bathing suit underneath, I've never been to Sea World.
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I have a big eating disorder, and no, it's not anorexia.. it's the total oppsite. I'm addicted to food.. :( But mainly 1. Chocolate. I've lost alot of weight, but then I drastically gained it back because I just can't stop eating chocolate. It's weird, I have to have at least a peice of something chocolately every day, or else I don't want to eat because nothing seems appealing. I bought my boyfriend a ton of chocolates for our 1 year anniversary, but he left them at my house and doesn't want to get them untill this upcoming weekend... and my God i've eaten a ton of them. There's at least 300 chocolates in there, and i've eaten like 30. I can't stop eating. I just have completely no will power anymore, and I need some motivation. Someone please help me. I'm running out of solutions.
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Yes, you very well could have an eating disorder. Compulsive eatind or something like that. Or you could really really like chocolate. I highly recomend talking to a doctor or a phycologist (sp??). If you accually do have an eating disorder, the problem will most likely get worse, not better, without professional help.
Hope I helped!
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My friend just apologized for blowing up at me and getting really pissed off. She said it was totally her fault and i forgave her right away because i wanted her back as a friend. Things went okay until my sexuality was brought up. She acted okay about it and said whatever i decided was okay but she wouldn't support it. Now whenever i talk to her she barely says anything and it really hurts. I thought she had forgiven me but it's almost like she said all that just to get it off her chest. She even said that this next school year she planned on making no enemies so i guess i was first on the list for her to apologize. I dont know what to do. She's really confusing me and i feel like i'm just annoying her. What's happening?!?!? (link)
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Your sexuality? I'm going to assume that you are homosexual. Some people are homophobic. Or maybe she is prejudice....and that's not good....obviously. I don't think she is a very god friend. You can make better ones. Forget her!! Or you can just talk to her about it. Tell her that you think she's not talking to you because of your sexuality. It could be a big misunderstanding.
Hope I helped!!
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i love Cumbers. i eat them all the time. my friend said if i eat them all the time as i do i can get cancer is that true? im scared now (link)
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Do you mean cucumbers?? If so, then DEFINATLY NOT. Cucumbers are good for you :) so don't listen them.
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Why do atheists believe there is no God? I hear a lot of arguments against organized religion but I don’t hear many actual ‘reasons’ that there is not or cannot possibly be a God? So what are thier reasons? (link)
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I'm an athiest. People don't usually have reasons about why they DO believe in God; it's the same thing with athiests! I really don't want to insult you or your religion, but I think the whole concept of God is ludicrous. Again, I mean no offense to you or your religion.
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hey guys i was just wondering, do any of you know where to get the belly dancer things like the one in akons video? u wrap it around ur waist and i was wondering where can i buy them? i live in NY and im 14/F (link)
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Wow you want to be a bellydancer?? That's cool....Just kidding! I had something like that once. I think it was called a Sharong (I don't think i spelled it right!) but girls wear them over bathing suits. Try an Arabian shop or something if you want the real thing.
Hope I helped!
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Ok my friends a girl but shes just a friend and she says that she is really fat but shes really not like shes really skinny. And she says shes on diets and stuff like that, how can i make sure that she wont like hurt herself or anythin bad? (link)
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Talk to her about it. Say stuff like, I don't want you hurting yourself, you're not fat at all. If she doesn't listen, talk to her parents or yours. You shouldn't have to take full responsability. Let an adult handle it. I don't know how old you are so this advice could be useless to you....but I hope I helped!!
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I'm going to either Wal-Greens or Rite-Aid to get some acne stuff. I have really bad acne and scars from pimples all over my face. What would be a product that will actually help clear up my skin?
Please answer to the best of your knowlegde!
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I don't really have natually bad skin, but I use Clearasil cleansing whipe things. They work really well for me! Also try Clean and Clear stuff. I don't know the exact name of the product. For the scars, try the acne mark fading peel...i think it's from neutragena.
Hope I helped!!
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I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
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That's so easy! Forever 21! They have dressy yet casual tops!!
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my best guy friend and i have been friends for 10 years. recently we went kayaking together to a private beach thing. he was being really flirty and being extra nice to me, showing off and was acting all weird. he's never acted like this before. my other best friend thinks he likes me, but I'm not sure. If anyone could has an opinion on this it's definitely appreciated. Thanks (link)
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It's probable that he might!! Talk to him about it! Yes, it might be awkward, but it could really help the situation! If he does like you and you don't want to get involved that way, tell him that you simply don't want to mess up your friendship! If you are interested, then OK!! If he doesn't like you like that, then I guess there's no problem. Of course it could just be a little crush, common in co-ed friendships (lol); nothing to jeprodize your friendship over.
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my hair is thick and wavy. how can i make it have volume? (link)
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I heard from my German teacher that if you wash it with beer it gives it more body. But...I don't know if you'll be allowed in the shower with an alcoholic beverage, ya know, depending on how old you are. Explain to your parents about what you plan to do with the beer. Show them this message...i guess.
Hope I helped!
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My friend Alex told me he didn't like his girlfriend Katie anymore. I asked why and he said it was 'cause he hadn't seen her all summer. I was like "well that's okay, you guys'll get back together at school." The later he told me he just didn't have feelings for her anymore (still summer). I told him he hadn't seen her and to just wait 'till school before he broke up with her or anything like that. Then later he told me he took his other friend's advice and broke up with her. At first he said Katie took it well, but then later Alex told me she IMed him saying she was gonna kick his ass at school. Now he's pissed off at ME for, in his words "not telling me clearly enough what to do." BUT I told him not to break up with her! How do I make him realize it's his own fault and not mine without just... well... accusing him of it being his fault? I RATE VERY WELL!!!! (link)
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Guys will be like that. They think they're always right sometimes. Just tell him that he's wrong! And if he's going to treat you like that because you tried to help, then don't help him anymore! He's probably just mad because something went wrong. He'll probably get over it. Just give him time!
Hope I helped!!
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Some girl purchased sunglasses from me on ebay and she said once she received it in the mail, it had scratches all over it and it looked like it had been sat on after being used. I explained to her that they were in perfect condition when I shipped them, they have never been worn, and had absolutely nothing wrong with it. Now, shes accusing me of lying and demands a refund. I figured it either got damaged while it was in the mail or she just doesn't like it and wants her money back, but she refuses to accept it. In my description, I said all sales are final and I am not responsible for any lost or damaged items. And now she's reporting me to Ebay because she can't get a refund. (Which she knew she wouldnt be able to get when she bidded on my item.) I feel bad that her sunglasses got damaged, but I had them safely wrapped and shipped in perfect condition, so it's not my fault. Plus, she's being rude and ridiculous, so I refuse to even do anything nice for her, like bend my rules. So is there way I could get in trouble for something like that? (link)
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I don't think you will get in any trouble!! That girl is just being a b***h about it!! You didn't do anything wrong so don't worry about it!
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16/F (I'm a waitress..)
There's this guy from work that I like, and I'm not sure if he likes me as more than a friend, or just a friend.
I'm not sure, but I think he flirts with me. He'll steal a salt shaker from one of my tables, and won't give me it back unless I chase him around the kitchen for it. He shouts my name across the dining room, and risks getting fired for it. He talks to me a lot, and will usually even help me clear a table just to talk to me.. he does little things for me like that. If I'm carrying a tray, or something, he'll put his hand on my back and help guide me through the doors. I'm a pretty shy person, so I hate it when I talk to customers as I'm clearing a table, so usually he'll come over and talk to them for me...
But.. there's two other girls.. and they usually go up to him, and hug him. And they're pretty. And outgoing. And I don't know, I just don't think he likes me. How about you? (link)
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Aw....Personally I think he likes you!! Does he do those things for those other "pretty" girls? Most likely not. Not all guys like really outgoing people. Guys like it when they see something they can help you with. It's like an oppertunity for them!! I think....I don't know I'm not a guy!!
Hope I helped!!
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Can anyone give me any tips on flirting but nothing too bold because I am quite shy.
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OK....if you want guys to notice you then you have to make yourself noticed!!!Be confident about yourself!! Guys really like that!! Talk to them just about random stuff and just kid around with them. Steal their...um...pencil!! And if you're feeling brave, stick it down your bra!! LOL I have a friend who will take ANYTHING and just shove it there! Guys really seem to like her. If you're REALLY shy then just talk to them about stuff that is interesting to you. If you're lucky, they will like the same things as you.
Hope I helped!!
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