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I'm tired of this...
My friend just apologized for blowing up at me and getting really pissed off. She said it was totally her fault and i forgave her right away because i wanted her back as a friend. Things went okay until my sexuality was brought up. She acted okay about it and said whatever i decided was okay but she wouldn't support it. Now whenever i talk to her she barely says anything and it really hurts. I thought she had forgiven me but it's almost like she said all that just to get it off her chest. She even said that this next school year she planned on making no enemies so i guess i was first on the list for her to apologize. I dont know what to do. She's really confusing me and i feel like i'm just annoying her. What's happening?!?!?
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Okay, I'm majorly into sexual freedom, ESPECIALLY with orientation(straight supporter? that's me), so I might be a little biased, but I think you deserve better than friends who won't accept you for who you are
You're probably not annoying her as much as you think you are. She might have just been apologizing to apologize, it happens a lot.
Decide if you want her as a friend or not, and fast, because broken relationships do no good.
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You know what.. if I were you I'd totally leave it alone. I mean shes not even worth being your friend if she cant accept your sexuality. I'm not saying start a cat-fight or bitch at her or ignore her or anything. Just stay civil with her but at the same time just leave it alone for now. If she doesnt take the initiative to talk to you.. she's not even worth it and theres a whole bunch of other people who will accept you. Those are the friends that should mean something.
And dont worry.. your sexuality isnt weird so your friend has to get over herself. Most of my friends are bisexual or have girlfriends or something like that. I still accept them. (even though im totally straight)
but yeah.. my point is there is still a lot of people out there who wont turn you down or turn away from you. Just look for them. Get to know people and whoever accepts you even after they know are the only ones that matter.
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Sweetie, if shes your friend than she should accept you for who you are. She should support your decisions and stand behind you 100%. Dont just forgive her because you want her as a friend. If she isnt able to support you for who you are and stand behind you like I said, then she isnt a very good friend. Im sorry. =( You can find other people out there that will be there for you and understand and support you.
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You should just talk to her and tell her what you are feeling... this is bugging you very badly and if she was a good friend she would see this and know that you guys need to talk....you should just pull her aside and tell her that it hurts her feelings that she does not talk to you anymore
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Well maybe she is not in the mood or she's not comfortable with your sexuality. Need to have a serious talk with her and ask her for her honesty if she still acts the same you need to move on make new friends who are worth talking to. You need to socialize with people who are willing to accept you for who you are not pretend to be something you're not. If I were you I would want an apology from her because that's not how you treat a friend how mean!
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if your sexuality juss changed, er juss came out, then that's why she's probably acting different. she's probably used to something, and when that changes she reacts differently. i think you should talk to her about it and explain to her what a good friend she was to you, and that you don't want to lose her as a friend. No, you can't force her into a relationship, but sexuality shouldn't change one either. I don't think you're annoying her, but if you really think so, talk to her.
good luck!
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Your sexuality? I'm going to assume that you are homosexual. Some people are homophobic. Or maybe she is prejudice....and that's not good....obviously. I don't think she is a very god friend. You can make better ones. Forget her!! Or you can just talk to her about it. Tell her that you think she's not talking to you because of your sexuality. It could be a big misunderstanding.
Hope I helped!!
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