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How long after your first missed period do you start puking from being pregnant? (link)
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theres not really an answer set in stone. some get it 2-3 weeks after, or never get it. i started gettin nauseated after 3-4 months !
i suggest wait 3 weeks to a month after your missed period then take a test
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mm i was just wondering what scents do guys like on girls??I know odd question but i just wonder what would my bf like lol thanks! (link)
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i hear all the time by guys that their favorite scent is vanilla ! also , i get alotta compliments on britney spears' fantasy as well :)
x sweeethoney
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Alrighty, so I'm getting my hair done soon.
I was wondering if anyone would know what do I tell my hairstylist if I want hair like this;
http://www.becomegorgeous.com/img/users/megz_xo/hair_styles__colors/scene_hair_long__black-3315.jpg
My hair probaly wouldn't be that thin, considering my hair is very thick and curly. I'm willing to straighten it and stuff, but any help would help! Lol :P Thanks :)
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-side swept bang startin from one corner of your forehead to the opposite cheek. (you can just show her with your finger drawin the line across). ask to get the length of the hair in the bangs gradually gettin longer as it goes across your face, the shortest length to your eye, if that makes sense.
-many short, choppy layers up at the top down to your chin. make sure they wont stick out from the long peices that will be at the bottom.
-then for the last layer either keep the length you have or keep it pretty long, and make sure you have it razored at the end so its not just one length because that'll make it thick at the end.
orrrrrrrrrrr, you can just bring in the picture lol. both will work too so shes forsure what you want.
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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Post by: Corez3r0
Just as the title asks "Whats your favorite song?" Theres no wrong answers here. : ) Please respond with an artist name and song title. Just one!
(This question will not recieve feedback) (link)
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i remember - kaskade & deadmau5
orrrr
futuristic love - yung LA
sorry i cant decide !
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So when i told my stylist that i wanted to grow my hair out, she told me that i should still be getting it cut every month. She does a good job with my hair and all but i feel like she's just trying to get more money for me. If hair grows from the roots then I dont understand why getting it cut more regularly would help it grow faster. Can someone please explain this to me. Also, any other tips to help me grow out my hair would be much appreciated. (link)
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once a month is definitely not necessary. cuttin 1/4 of an inch of your hair once a month will cut it faster then its growin, therefore your hair wont grow out. i suggest that every 2 months you should get your hair 'dusted' which means that its not exactly cut, but the dead ends are just brushed off with somethin like a razor. this will help not get rid of length and still keep your hair growin !
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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i have a "thing" if thats what you want to call it with this guy, we've known each other for like 5 years now. i'm 19f.
i'm a huge flirt .. but i need new things to do because i always feel like i do dumb things. lets say a guy taps your butt gently, what would you do? i panic and smile and say "doooont ;)" but i mean come on.. that may give him the wrong impression i dont like it, right?
i can't really think of anything right now but usually if he will playfully touch me i'll panic and laugh a little and be like "stop:)!"
but i'm done with that childish stuff.. what can i do back to him?? (link)
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all of these could be with the wink face by it and said in a sexy playful manor.
'oooh i kinda like that'
'you like that dont you ?'
'oh come on you can do better than that'
just playful things like that, or you could touch his butt back ! if youve known this kid for 5 years you should be able to be comfortable with him. he prolly wont think anythin you do is stupid, but just try to invite him to do it more ya know ? :) good luck
x sweeethoney
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19/female.
i guess everyone has different opinions on this .. but i'd just like to see how everyone feels about this! so i obviously shave down there, but everytime i know or feel like i will be doing something sexual with a guy i feel like i have to be baby smooth down there with absolutely no stubble. it's actually really annoying having to worry about being that smooth but i feel like if i have a little stubble, the guy will be grossed out. i would feel a bit awkward asking haha so i was just wondering (both guys and girls) how you feel about stubble? (link)
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i dont really mind if a girl has stubble. its WAYY better than a bush or somethin. and it shows that you do shave ! if anythin, make sure you shave the down down there like the outside of the lips, it doesnt really get stubbly and thats where most of the action is anyways !
but hair is hair, and its natural and thats okay with me :) lol
x sweeethoney
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Ok, so for a while I have thought that I was bi-sexual (I am 15/female) I am attracted to boys, but i offten feel for girls too.
So, I have known this girl for a while and we have only been friend for about 6 months, but recently we have been getting along better, and spending more time together.
She has started to joke around with me more and touch me and poke me and stuff, and it isn't helping because I have these strange feelings about her that I am trying to make go away!
I am pretty sure that she is heterosexual. So I am kinda dissappointed because I really want to do something with her like... sexually. and I sometimes fantasize about her and stuff like that. I have felt for girls before but nothing like this.
How do I stop feeling this way? Do you think I am bisexual? Do you think I should kinda hint to her about if she likes girls a bit? Any advice is appreciated, thanks. :)
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theres two things that could be happenin here:
1. you are indeed bisexual and you really want to do somethin with a girl !
2. you are bi-curious and you really want to do somethin with a girl, which could lead you to either bein bisexual or realizin you werent !
if either one is the case, this girl who is youre good friend is the center of your sexual frustration.
maybe when she touches you just kid around and be like 'homo' and see what she says about it. if she says somethin that kind of sounds like she could be, ask her ! if she seems freaked out about it just say your kidding
orr....
you can just flat out ask her if shes ever thought about girls before ! if youre comfortable enough with her then it shouldnt be a problem !
i told my best friend, and it ended up we both were bisexual haha.
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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I am looking for a new line of hair shampoos/treatments. I need a new line that suits my hair, which is frizzy, very dry and damaged, straight but poofy and has a lot of kinks in it.
so far i've found
Pantene Pro-V
-time renewal
-hydrating rinse
-deep treatment
-anti-frizz serum
Aussie
-3 minute miracle
-moist shampoo and conditioner
Garnier
-smoothing milk
-leave in cream/serum
Sunsilk
-thermashine shampoo
-pin straight shampoo
Herbal Essences
-hydralicious shampoo
can anyone give me recommendations or their opinions on any of these lines and products? which ones work better?
thank you!!! (link)
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out of these i like the aussie 3 minute miracle. it makes your hair soooo soft. and sunsilk pin straight if you want straight hair (also works really well with a straightener).
the pantene time renewal made my hair frizzier...
ive never used the products youve mentioned from garnier, but usually theyre products that ive used (hair dye, shampoo) leave my hair really nice. so id suggest that BRAND as well.
now i use infusium 23 (frizz)ologie and i love it :) it makes my hair way less frizzy and soft. also i recommend the dove therapy for either frizz or intense damage (i think thats what its called, its dark bluish)
if you straighten your hair, give it a break and scrunch it. my recommendation for gel is 'curl' by LA looks, because it doesnt make it crunchy :)
frequent hair cuts will help you slowly get rid of damaged hair and help your hair look not as frizzy and return it to its original beauty.
try to condition your hair a good amount before goin in the pool or the ocean , because that can make your hair very frizzy.
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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14/f
i've never had a boyfriend
(so ive never kissed anyone or done anything like that)
i have commitment issues...as in im really scared of a realtionship. i REALLY dont know what to do about it...i mean ill be SO excited because i know that a certain guy likes me, and i get really happy when there talking to me (ive been asked out enough to recognize the "asking out" conversation...) and then they ask me out....and my heart skips a beat and i tell them what i always say: maybe...i have to think about it. and then end up saying no or just letting it fade away without ever giving them an answer
it really kills me because i would do anything for a boyfriend...but apparently i just cant handle the commitment...i like the freedom im flirting with a bunch of guys without worrying about cheating.
i guess subconsciously i sort of believe once im in a relationship thered be NO way out. also, since im a perfectionist, i notice little flaws in the boys that ask me out, which does NOT work for me
i know i probably sound incredibly shallow and probably bipolar but i cant really help it...its just very confusing and i dont know how to get over my fears.
thanks for any help you have :)
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when i was youre age i was the same way. and everytime i finally said yes to a guy id just be like... uhhh nevermind. you really dont need to be worryin about guys that much, because most relationships at this age just end and you get hurt. whats the point of that ?
i reallly dont like boyfriends either, and i just like havin a good time. im 16, and im just happy single. relationships are too much work and stress for girls our age because are hormones are goin crazy and its just askin to get hurt.
honestly, just work on gettin to know yourself and find out what you really want in a guy personality-wise. then the rest should work itself out. :) good luck.
x sweeethoney
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me and my boyfriend for the first time last week had sex, and we didn't use a condom for like the first 5 minutes. and i'm just worried i'm pregnant. he said he didn't pre or do anything else, but i'm still worried. i'm 15, and sex talk is bad with my mom and dad, cause i told my mom once i had sex. and she was angry. but i'm more scared this time to tell them, my boyfriends mom knows about it though. but what are signs that i am ? or do you think i could possibly be ? oh and i've been having a sharp pain in my stomach at times. i don't know what it is. but maybe i'm just paranoid. (link)
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youre most likely just bein paranoid. but you dont really know if he pre-came or not... and thats what got me pregnant. youre body can trick you into thinkin youre pregnant when youre stressed by makin your period late, make you think youre hungrier or gainin weight...etc.
just chill out about it. then, if your period IS late get your boyfriend to buy you a pregnancy test.
good luck.
x sweeethoney
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errm this may be a weird question [:
but i really wanna turn on this guy who sits next to me in one class.
what are some gestures that turns guys on?
like i dont mean stuff to say but things i can do, not to him but like ways to sit etc.
haha thankies(: (link)
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along with the first answer... you could suck on a lollipop hahah. that might sound weird but its worked. haha. i dont mean go at it or anythin, just take it slow and yeah ... lol. also if you lean back and stretch your back to show of the chesty area.
dont make it obvious !! good luck
x sweeethoney
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I've never gotten along with other girls. I just think there snobs and like to gossip about everyone else. Surprisingly, I'm actually very girly, I like to shop, I like girly clothes, and doing my nails. But I just have never gotten along with girls for that reason. I have guy friends but no girl friends, is that strange? (link)
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usually i hear that from girls that are more like me... i hate shoppin, im wayy more of a tomboy i guess.
i mean, its not strange but havin girl friends isnt a bad thing. just find girls like yourself ! i have a group of 7 girls that are just like me. we all kinda just chill, stay away from drama... and im SO glad i have them. but its okay not to have girl friends, no one ever died from it :)
x sweeethoney
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Me and my best friend have been friends since 4th grade, and we're 19 now. I don't agree with a lot of the things she does, but I've always been there for her regardless. Lately, though, I'm at my wits end.
She has two kids already by two different guys. She just had her second child maybe two weeks ago with her current boyfriend, and he treats her terribly. He used to be like a brother to me, but after a bunch of drama, we really don't like each other. First, it was little things he did that made me worry. He'd tell her what she could and couldn't wear, he didn't like her talking to guys, stuff like that. But last night everything changed. She called me hysterical. He had hit her three times in the face and held her down when she tried to grab her phone. He finally left, and she called her sister, who called the police. I went to her apartment and he was in the back of the cop car. I went with her to the court house to get an EPO and everything, then stayed with her from 3 am to 10 am. At 10, I was exhausted and had to go home to take care of my dogs. I asked her if she would be okay, and she said "I guess". I didn't want to leave, but I just had to sleep. She texted me after I left and asked if I thought he missed his daughter or regretted doing it.
I called her when I woke up, like I told her I would, but she wouldn't answer. I texted her and she wouldn't answer that, either. I even I.M.'d her, and still nothing, but she talked to my sister on I.M. a few minutes earlier and said she missed him.
I don't know what to do, and I'm getting really frustrated. She asks me for advice, and I tell her what the best thing to do is, but she never listens. Then, I'm always there for her, but now she's ignoring me. It's like she's mad because I had to leave. I don't want to be rude and say "what's your problem?", but I don't know what to do. Any advice? (link)
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i understand that shes goin through a difficult time right now, but shes not bein greatful at all for what you have done for her. some friends wouldnt even stay that long with their friends. you went with her to the court house then stayed with her for 7 hours... shes being immature and a drama queen for ignorin you. plus, youve been friends with her for 10 years even though you dont like some things she does !
dont take it personally, youve obviously shown that youre a good friend and shes just not makin an effort to thank you.
shell come around and call you, but until then just forget about it. you dont need to apologize to her, but if youre still up to help her just ask her if she needs you.
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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I'm constantly catching my dad staring at my tits or watching me as I bend over to put a new bag in the bin and looking at me inappropriate.
It is so gross and and is creeping the shit outa me.
What the hell do I do??
HELP! (link)
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im very sorry about your situation. try youre best to cover up cleavage or anythin that gives him a reason to stare. try not to bend over in front of him. dont do anythin provocative that a regular man would look at in a sexual way.
if youre for sure he is doin this, next time hes doin it just be like 'ummm... HI ?' make him feel uncomfortable about it.
if you cant control this you really really really should tell someone about it. teacher, mom, sister, brother, some adult. i wish i told someone about things that happened with my dad and i regret not doin it completely now.
never let ANYONE tell you this is okay, because its really not one bit.
i hope this situation is resolved !! and if you need anythin please feel free to contact me.
x sweeethoney
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19/female. i'm still a virgin, but i do have a few questions for when im READY to have sex. i've heard that some girls bleed, and if your really wet that you'll get the bed/sheets wet, correct? I think i'm going to be very embarassed when this happens, even when i'm with the right guy. especially if we're on his bed, which will probably be the case? how can i overcome being embarassed about it, even though it's basically natural. did anyone else have this problem? what did you do? and what is your preference to do after you have sex with a guy? just like opinions, thats all:) (link)
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okay, well since youre a virgin im not sure youve been to the gyno. but either in rough sex or the gyno, sometimes when they hit your 'female parts' inside of you they bleed. if youre scared of bleedin, ask the guy when you do have sex not to be rough.
most guys/girls think its hot when a girl is really wet.. you shouldnt worry about that at all :)
some girls like to cuddle after sex, i dont really... haha i just like eatin or watchin tv after.
good luck ! :) any other questions feel free to ask
x sweeethoney
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One time I showed a friend a picture of me and she said "You look like a fruit in that one". What does that mean? (link)
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usually a fruit means silly or gay.
unlesss she really means that you looked like an apple or somethin..lol which i highly doubt.
x sweeethoney
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so obviously, me and my boyfriend had sex. my period isn't very regular, especially now.. because two months ago, i took plan b and it said it was make my period irregular. usually, i would've gotten my period around the last week of the month. and ever since i took plan b, i started my period on the 23rd of september. it's almost been a month now since i ended my period.
yes, me and my boyfriend used a condom.. and whenever we think something might go wrong, we changed it. we checked it in between sex and after sex. and nothing happened, is it maybe because i'm stressed about school or worried about being pregnant? or maybe the plan b?
my boyfriend told me a thousand times is that he is absolutely positive that nothing happened and that i am not pregnant, and if something did happen, he would've told me. but nothing happened.
but i'm still worried because it's the end of october.... any advice? (link)
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makin yourself owrry about bein pregnant will just trick your body into thinkin it is. the stress of it can make your period late, and make your mind think that youre nauseated.
give yourself a break and stop worryin about it, its all in your head. theres a 99.9% chance that youre NOT pregnant. if you are, then its realllly weird that you did.
good thing youre wearin a condom, keep that part up !! i justed used the 'pull out' method and now im almost 6 months pregnant lol :)
if it doesnt come in the next to weeks, then i would start to worry. but for now just dont stress it.
good luck !
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i've had a crush on this guy for a while. recently i've gotten more of the courage to start texting him first. we've known each other for about four years now. well we started talking and he broke his wrist playing hockey and told me he's getting surgery on friday. i was like you need to drink more milk! and he was like i drink alot. and then i was like well maybe you should be better at hockey and then you wont get hit (this was totally a joke, he's a great hockey player, d1 colleges want him to play for them) and he was like thanks.. and i was like you know i'm kidding. come on now you know i wouldnt be serious. i never am.. how long have you known me? you should know this. and he was like haha ok calm down. i think this kind of gave it away that i have a crush, do you think? urgh i seem so worried that he would be mad. i feel dumb. and then i was like you obviously don't know me! and he was like of course i do.
do you think i gave anything away? why do i always sound so dumb when i talk to him!! (link)
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'you know i'm kidding. come on now you know i wouldnt be serious. i never am.. how long have you known me? you should know this.'
thats a whole text message replyin to a one word text ?
either you gave away that you like him or you jus freaked him out a little bit. dont act so worried about what he thinks about you, because thats a red flag that you like him.
instead of that long text message, it could have been answered with just a 'haha ;)' or somethin simple.
dont make yourself so available and eager, just tone it down and play it cool. itll work better in your interest. plus, if youre always the one who texts him first he might get sick of it. try to wait for him to text you. dont text him everyday either !
good luck, message me for anythin else.
x sweeethoney
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I am now really into the show The Office. I know I should've watched it from the beginning, but I didn't and now I'm watching old re-runs that come on weeknights. If there are any Office fans, please help me out here. I absolutely love Jim & Pam, and know they are finally married now. The re-runs I'm watching are when she was engaged to Roy. Please, tell me what happened to their relationship (how it ended and why) and any kind of summary of the seasons from then to now and how Jim and Pam finally got together. Thanks! (link)
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jim and pam always flirted, and everyone who has watched it from the beginnin knew that they HAD to be together eventually.
in season 2 i believe, roy and pam dated for a while, pam was ready to get the show on the road but roy was draggin it out for a long time. also, jim and pam kissed while she was engaged which confused her. pam moved out of roys house.
in season 4 jim finally asked pam out and thats when they began datin.
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