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My dad is being gross!
I'm constantly catching my dad staring at my tits or watching me as I bend over to put a new bag in the bin and looking at me inappropriate.
It is so gross and and is creeping the shit outa me.
What the hell do I do??
HELP!
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Yes i think for now its best to cover up but if he makes you feel really uncomfortable you need to tell him thats its NOT ok. If you dont it will eat you up and its not just as simple as covering up and try to forget about it. He is your father and you are his daughter you need to make it clear to him thats its inappropriate and it makes you feel uncomfortable. I know this will be hard but it needs to be done. I hope this help you.
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My father did and does the same stuff and I am married with children. Always telling me I have a nice butt and things like that. You have to ignore it make him feel uncomfortable and cover up. I know it sucks you have to cover up in your own home. but one day you wont have to live there and wont have to worry about it
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im very sorry about your situation. try youre best to cover up cleavage or anythin that gives him a reason to stare. try not to bend over in front of him. dont do anythin provocative that a regular man would look at in a sexual way.
if youre for sure he is doin this, next time hes doin it just be like 'ummm... HI ?' make him feel uncomfortable about it.
if you cant control this you really really really should tell someone about it. teacher, mom, sister, brother, some adult. i wish i told someone about things that happened with my dad and i regret not doin it completely now.
never let ANYONE tell you this is okay, because its really not one bit.
i hope this situation is resolved !! and if you need anythin please feel free to contact me.
x sweeethoney
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ewwwww thats really really really wierd.
never heard of anyone with that problem before...
mmaybe before you do anything embarasinggg make sure that is actually what he is doing. sometimes dads just do that without even realzing it or meeaning to be creepy. but if your sure then maybe tryyy covereing up more? just around him.
if he doesnt stop then you should ask someone in your family for help(mom, sister, brother?) if not then the very last resort would be to talk to him. but be careful because this could very easily ruin your relationship with your dad.
good luck.
feeel free to ask me any quaeiotns.
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