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19/female. i'm still a virgin, but i do have a few questions for when im READY to have sex. i've heard that some girls bleed, and if your really wet that you'll get the bed/sheets wet, correct? I think i'm going to be very embarassed when this happens, even when i'm with the right guy. especially if we're on his bed, which will probably be the case? how can i overcome being embarassed about it, even though it's basically natural. did anyone else have this problem? what did you do? and what is your preference to do after you have sex with a guy? just like opinions, thats all:)
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okay, well since youre a virgin im not sure youve been to the gyno. but either in rough sex or the gyno, sometimes when they hit your 'female parts' inside of you they bleed. if youre scared of bleedin, ask the guy when you do have sex not to be rough.
most guys/girls think its hot when a girl is really wet.. you shouldnt worry about that at all :)
some girls like to cuddle after sex, i dont really... haha i just like eatin or watchin tv after.
good luck ! :) any other questions feel free to ask
x sweeethoney
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
Found the website listed below for another young lady with a very similar question to yours. I believe if you look this website over most of your questions will be answered.
As I say in my opening statement; I am older than most advisors. Actually I am old enough to be your grandparent. You are of legal age to give consent to have sex so I am not going to go down the waiting to you are older road. Sex between two people who love each other is a wonderful thing. Sex as a recreational sport is not love. Make sure to use condoms as well as proper birth control. Never ever allow a man to go bare back (as the saying goes) until you are in a monogamous relationship and have had HIV tests.
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The anxiety over the first time is tremendous. Actually having sex should be thought of by the older term: making love. It should be an emotional thing as well as a physical thing for both people. Once that is understood, then think of actual sexual intercourse as an extension of making out with a person that you really care about. It will flow freely and happen when it happens. As for the mess: first of all, you're both making the mess. Otherwise it would be masturbation, wouldn't it? The blood thing probable won't happen unless he's a donkey. If you use tampons, then you've had something in there already. If you want to see if one will fit, try about three fingers to check for clearance. As far as the wetness: that'll help with the blood thing. If you don't leave a wet spot when you masturbate, then you won't when you're copulating. Any other fluid will be from him. Don't fret none buckaroo. And don't expect the first time to be "magical" because it usually isn't. Now this is important: what he does after sex will tell you a lot about who he really is. If he wants to hold you and you both still feel the same attraction emotionally after sex as you did before, then you made a good choice. If it was more like he used you instead of his hand, then you've made a mistake and you'll learn from it. Please be careful!
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im a guy btw. Um..i think when a girl gets wet, its rele sexy. It turns me on. Not many girls squirt..which is when..well..you squirt liquid out..and i find that hot aswell..he'll enjoy it and wont mind. you may or may not bleed, depending on whether he breaks your hymen or not. Even if he does, you may not bleed. Also...after sex..i like to smoke a cigarette and have a coffee...she likes to cuddle..so we do both :D :)
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