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sex, what to do
18/f
Alright, I don't know how appropriate this questions is but im gonna ask anyway. So I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I was a virgin, he wasnt. I know this sounds kind of stupid but what am i supposed to do. I kind of just laid there a took it lol. I really love him and want to make it as enjoyable as possible for him. Any advice or links as to what i should do? Thank you
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Just think of making love as making out. Your body should want to move as you kiss and your hands should want to explore as you make out. Just do the same when you're naked and you've got it made. And by the way: remember that as the girl, you have all of the power. It's his job to make you feel good. If he isn't then it's him that's not doing it right not you.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
The first website I have listed below is written more for the male, but there is no reason you and your boyfriend cannot look at it together and find positions you would like to try. The second website listed is one you might have looked at before having sex the first time. It might not be a bad idea to look through this website as it covers things such as condom usage, birth control and why it is important finding a comfortable place to have sex where you won’t be interrupted or discovered.
As I say in my opening statement; I am older than most advisors. Actually I am old enough to be your grandparent. You are of legal age to give consent to have sex so I am not going to go down the waiting to you are older road. Sex between two people who love each other is a wonderful thing. Sex as a recreational sport is not love. Make sure to use condoms as well as proper birth control. Never ever allow a man to go bare back (as the saying goes) until you are in a monogamous relationship and have had HIV tests.
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