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Hey!!!! I go to DMS and i'm going into 7th grade. i have one dog and she's the sweetest, prettiest dog in the entire world and i love her very much. Her name's Reba and she is 9 and she'll be 10 in october. I have 2 brothers and they are both really cool. i like to play a lot of sports n stuff, and i play piano and trumpet (I'm really good at trumpet LoL). So... contact me if u wanna! c u l8ta!

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Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?

Just don't let his lil bro try to get u. Just b strong and maybe when u get home tell ur mom u think he's a good friend and he's just not ur romantic type. Nobody can make anything happen between u 2.

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what can i do to like get somewhere in writing i really wanna b a writer when i grow ^!!

Just keep writing and ask ur teachers or parents to help u. U don't even have 2 wait til ur grown up to publish ur writing- u can do it now if u get into it.

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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!!

Don't worry about the other grls on the team- no matter what they say, don't let them influence u. And anyway- if u r competing, then just kno that if u make a mistake, it happens to everyone, even the pros, so don't let that stop u. U shood compete! hope this helps

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I Lost my period last month on tha either 1 or 3 ummm i havnt started yet n i havnt had sex none im still a virgin im scared cause my mom wants to take me to the doctor .....what could b wrong with me

Sometimes you skip a few months- it's normal early when u start ur period.

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This next week I am going camping with my friend. I have never been camping ever and I am excited. Except the fact I am very afraid of water. They plan on taking us out on a boat and go swimming in the middle of the lake and do stuff like that. I dont want to be a pain, and them feel like, oh god.. why we take her. What can I do? I dont want her to get mad at me either. I am just so scared and I can barely swim.

You can wear a life jacket when you go out to swim or take a noodle with you. Or if u still don't feel comfortable w/ that, u can just say "Hey I think I'm gonna sit in the boat" or somethin'. Just tell them that u r a little uncomfortable swimmin'.

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hey this is gunna sound realli weird but im just going to ask...okay im from the middle east, and middle easterns are known for having alot of body hair..and i have that problem,i have really hairy arms and its sooo embaressing!! i have tried waxing and bleaching..it works, but its still noticeable!! my friends advice me that i should shave it but im too scared cause i know its just gunna grow back darker and even thicker...any advice?? srry its so gross and nasty i know but its worth a try...please dont say like ew thats gross or nething..i just need some help..thanks

No suggestions, but, Don't shave it cause it will just be another hassel. My friend shaved her arms once and then she decided she didn't like it so she quit and now her arms are really bad!

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For some reason when ever I ask a question, the question never appears under the give advice secttion. This one may not either. Does anyone know why? And could anyone help me with a question I have?

The same thing happens 2 me and then it takes like 20min 2 come up on the questions page. It won't do it rite away. Hope i helped!

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Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?

Try e-mail or talk online that way you can think over what u wanna say.

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u know how pretty gurls are all like "no im not pretty,stop playin" well im not like that people r like ur pretty and only once and a while ill be modest and be like no im not but ...not 2 sound like im braggin' oa somethin but i think i am pretty but no guy i know a lot likes me....y is that?the guys who like me r the ones i just meet

Maybe it's cuz the ones u know better r more of ur frends. They like u, but for who YOU r. A boyfriend would like u for both looks and personality. Hope this helps.

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alright, i'm hoping to start tennis this fall (its my first of high school). the only problem is that i know i'm going to have a physical to play on the team. well this is super babyish, but i am scared to DEATH of shots. so i was wondering what do they do during a physical? i know they weigh you and measure your height but is that all? i'm almost positive i'm going to need a tetnis shot :( , but do they have to prick my finger or anything? and one more thing, is there any way to get around getting the shot?

thank you so much!
Lana

They won't give you a shot or anything i don't think. When i had a physical, they had a doctor's check and all they did was check for your heartbeat and other simple stuff. Don't worry. U shood be good.

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ive been using antibiotics for acne and it only helps moderately. has anybody used anything like accutane or differin, and if so, did it completely clear things up?

Yeah I have used differin Tazorac and Clindomax, but none of them clear up completely. I take pills now. It's called amphicillin and even that hasn't worked yet but these things take up to two months to make a difference. I heard differin gel was just for light acne. If you have bad acne, then u shood use Tazorac. I hope this is the info u need!

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

Just tell ur frends to get a grip! There's nothin' wrong wit u! They r probly just jelous cuz most gurls wish they were skinny! Good luck!

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arite well rite now im cleanin my hampster cage and im soaking EVERYTHING in dish soap and hot water...well my hampster like is in his lil hampster ball while im doing this and hes not like a tiny lil hampster hes really big!! and healhty...well he peed in his hampster ball and hes done this b4 but i juss wash the ball after i get the cage back together...shuld i wash the hampster??? how wuld i do it?? like in a bowl? i dont wanna kill my hampster but shuld i wash him?

I have pet rats(their tame) and I bathe them in the sink with baby shampoo. Cause if u use regular soap, then it will hurt their eyes. If u don't have baby shampoo, then i guess just use water. Hope i helped!

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Lately ive felt really bad about myself im not sure why... like i feel bad about the whole guy/relationship thing and my looks and my friends and i just dont know anymore... help me!

p.s. im 13 and live in a pretty small town in PA...

signed, low self confidence

You are probly just stressed a bit. Try to be more outgoing and you will realize that you are a better person then you think u r. Hope i helped!

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I am going into 7th grade and I really want to wear eyeshowdow. Just eyeshwdow but I don't know if my Mom will let me. Should I wear it or not?

I know it's tough. But I was going into 6th and I just asked my mom if i could wear eye shadow and she said yes but not a lot of it. Ask her. If she says no then just know that she is just not used to this makeup stuff yet. She's just not ready.

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is there camreas in the moive theateres?

Yeah but nobody really looks at them unless some crime was comitted there.

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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something?

Don't worry about that! If you enjoy guy stuff that's fine. Who cares if you don't like wearing girly clothes or getting manicures or anything! You're still your own person! I hope I could help!

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Okay, here's the deal. I'm really sick of all my current user names. I can't think of any new good ones, though, except for the one I currently have(How do you like it, by the way?). I know it would kind of be difficult for anyone here to give me a good one considering no one knows my personality but whatever. I want something short; like one word. None of that xXxsupersayen[insert random number here]xXx crap.
For those that are a bit slow, the question is: Any suggestions? And if so, what are they?

No suggestions cuz I dunno u, but pick a hobby or sport u like or just use ur initials or a nick-name maybe and then you can change it up from there

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How can you tell if a girl is pretty?

Well there is never usually just one thing that makes a girl pretty. Sometimes they just are! I dunno y!

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Hi. Im really skinny, im 5'5 and 96. EVERYONE calls me anerexic, een my best friends say r u anerexic and make sure that i alway eat...should i try to gain weight or just live with it? thankz i'll rate

Don't worry about what other people think. You should not try to gain weight. You are healthy just the way you are.

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