I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
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if i have a very addictive personality [cutting 3 years,ect.] how do i overcome this..and theres not more behind this story. doctors never diagnosed it as anything. also can anyone explain what an addictive personality is really. (link)
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its basically being addicted to something. as in cutting. its a bad habbit. but you have to stop it. or it will only get worse. like i said to someone earlier, think about whats bothering you and if its really worth hurting youself. maybe see a therapist too, they can give you medicine to maybe control it.
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I need a subject and/or storyline 4 a short story its due on thursday and we've known about it since last thursday it can be abouit anything just nothing that has happened to you. ive been thinking about what 2 write about 4 4 days and i still havent thought of anything! (link)
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can it be fake? lol if so write a story about alien pirate ninjas that fight off the evil robots from Planet Zorg. =]
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hey...i got something on the edge of my lip and it looks like a cold sore but im not sure. It could be a pimple but there no puss in it and it's just red. its also small. Could it be a cold sore? Does that mean i have herpes? (BTW ive gotten just a few of them before) does that mean i haev STD"s?
please help!!! (link)
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Oral Herpes are cold sores. This might have happend if youve had oral sex or kissed someone who might have had one. you shouldnt worry about it. unless it starts getting bad and turning yellow. then go to the doctor. another thing you can buy over the counter is abreva works good :)
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helllo im a veggitarien and i need to be eating more healthy foods
does anyone know of any resipys, full of protien but no meat
im talking about like a meal not just raw carotts (link)
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you can look up the recipes for these meals:
Hearty soup
Pasta
Stir Fry
Substantial salads
Pizza
Oven-roasted veggies
Ramen Noodles
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i'm 13/f and in 7th grade-ok so i like this guy in my class and hes like talks to every one almost every day he jokes around alot and hes not shy at all hes like the complete opposite of me, im really shy and i only talk to my friends, how do i no if he likes me or not? and im way to shy to tell him i like him so how do i no if he likes me? in library(we have that class every tuesday and we have new assigned seats and i sit by him and the hottest/prettiest girl in the grade,alissa, they were talking and then alissas like ok can i read now i have a c in this class and hes like ok ill talk 2 melissa* (not really my name) and then he blew a kiss 2 me and is like "i love mellissa" and then alissa starts laughing i really think he was just joking around but how do i no if he likes me or not? thank you so much for the help:) (link)
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i never thought my bf liked me but we started talking on the computer more. and i found out he really liked me like i liked him. So you should definitely start giving him hints. tell him he should IM you on the computer sometime. its sometimes easier talking on the computer than in person!
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i have a gross stomach that has so much fat i hate it. what exercises can i do? how many times a week? and what foods can i eat that will help my body lose weight?
thanxxx (link)
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do sit ups, crunches or w.e you wanna call them. eat healthier foods. stay away from fast foods also. and eat the normal 3 meals a day try not to eat so much in between, and if u do get cravings eat something healthy.
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Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place? (link)
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i actually was in your place once. i was feeling weird. i thought she didnt like me. and i dont know. but she should under stand she was your age once, and not to worry about it. atleast she didnt catch you having sex!! lol that would suck!
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Okay I need help. My boyfriend says he really cares about me and stuff but I dont know if thats true and that he means that bascily what I mean is how can you tell a guy really likes you? please help me! (link)
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well does it seem like he is using you. does he tell you he loves you, or say how much he cares about you, that will show u that he really cares about you. or maybe ask him.
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then go with it. if it seems like he is changing just talk to him about it. and make sure that yous are still okay
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Well, Me And "Mike" have known eachother a couple months and we've gotten close, and i've started to like him romantically. he's like depressive and negative because he doesn't get any action, you know, and i don't either anymore. but like i want to hookup with him and eventually have a realtionship but he hasn't hinted that he wants a realationship. so basically do you think he's using me? should i hookup with him? (link)
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if you guys arent really doing anything he isnt using you. maybe you should tell him. or if its hard why dont you give him hints. maybe he is feeling the same way as you. shy about telling you. try talking to him about it
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Okay well this going to sound werid but I have this internet boyfriend he use to live by me but he moved and like now im datting him and i really want his number but im afraid to ask him and like I don't know how to like ask him like being all nice and not tring to be like I want it so bad ya kno? and what should I say. And I'm also kinda like afriad to hear his voice so what do i do to like make this fear go away. can someone plz help me. (link)
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all you have to do is say :
hey you should call me it will probably be better than talking on here my hands are getting cramps or something.. make up an excuse :) give him your number instead so its not as hard to ask for him.
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Well it just always seems like when I meet a new boy I have a crush on him and I don't get it I can't really tell if its true or just my stupid slef wanted a boyfriend so I tell myself like him you can get him like him! Err I don't know I'm confused so I don't know if its a real crush or just a "fake crush"?! (link)
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I always make stupid mistakes and go out with people who i realize later i dont really like. so before you start a relationship you should get to know them better. like me and my bf. i know for sure we will be together long. i love him alot.. The best i can say is get to know the person more. see if you really like him if not just be friends, because once you break up with them they get further from you. and thats not always good
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Ok so my family has a long line of ADD and ADHD. My mom is the only one in my family who dos not have it, but many people on her side of her family have it too. The problem is my school work is starting to go down a substantul(Sp?) amount because i am restles and i cant focus. I want to ask my parents about seeing the dr. My brothers and dad go to but im to shy they will think i am faking or something. The reason i know i have it is because my bro said that i act the same way he acted when he was not medicated.
Please help, soon. (link)
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Im sure they wont think youre faking it. tell them you want to get help, and that you cant focuz normally. and that you want that to change because its effecting you. Im sure they will understand then they will give u medicine. AND! suggest concerta. its great. it works right away it last 13 hours. i take it now and it helps alot.
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here lately i have gotten into cutting myself. bad. i mean i dont go deep or anything. i just pretty much break the skin. but its gotten bad. like its all i think about. i started saturday and i was like i wont do it anymore. well i did it again last night and then 3 times today. how can i stop? ive told 2 of my friends and they tell me i need to stop, which i know. but its hard. help me? please dont tell me to get counseling, cuz i cant tell my dad and i cant go. (link)
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what you should do is think about why youre doing it ask if its worth getting caught and going to the hospital like i once did.. or should i say twice. if you dont get help now. it will turn into a big habbit. like you might stop for a few months but it will go again. like what happend to me. If you really dont want to go to counceling talk to me about it. i will help you as much as possible. tell you what they told me. or just tell your dad you been depressed lately, and u need someone to talk to, ask to see a therapist. dont tell him youre hurting yourself, just say uve been depressed and like to talk to someone other than him. tell him you would really appreciate it. then they can help you out. sounds like you are depressed though. they can give you medicine. and if u really dont want to get into a hospital dont tell them you cut yourself. just tell them youve been feeling depressed. and you sometimes dont wanna live. they will give you medicine to help you from getting those urges to cut yourself. but really think about whats bothering you, and is it really worth dying over. most likely it isnt.
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i am a really nice person and i don't understand why so many people are mean to me...i mean i am really quiet and i don't bother nobody!
there is this person who is constantly putting me down and really hurting my feelings...i try not to let anybody know how bad he's hurting me....but it's really getting to me. you would think he would say it to my face instead of other people. i mean the stuff he is saying hurts me soo much....i'd rather be beaten physically than to have something killing me from the inside this much....
i really don't know what to do i just know i feel really bad about what's going on....espeacially when me and that particular person don't even know each other.....not to mention when he starts putting me down so does everyone else....
i know most people are going to say talk to him....but that's not an option...because if i talk to him i am probably going to get violent...because i am sick of this.
this is really really tearing me apart and i know you shouldn't let words bother you but after a while they began to really get to you and tear at you...what do i do? (link)
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what you gotta do is tell yourself you are not going to put up with him talking about you. show him that your not afraid of him and what he is saying is not hurting you. ignore him, dont get on his level. you should be smarter than him. laugh at him. he will get it that its not bothering you. dont look all sad when hes messing with you. just keep on smiling dont let someone like that put you down. talk to the school counceler if he threatens you, also tell your parents. maybe it will be better to switch schools, start over, and make new friends. if you need anymore help u can talk to me whenever. i will try and help as much as possible
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i seriously need help. like i need someone to talk about stuff with. should i go to one of those counselors that you can tell all your problems in confidence with or is that not worth it? (link)
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it is definitely worth it, ive been seeing mine since i was 6 years old. it took me a while to talk to her about stuff. but i realized she wouldnt judge me at all. no matter what i told her. so you keep seeing them, and if people tell you its not worth it dont listen. it is great getting out all your feelings without being judged. also if u need someone to talk to when youre not there u can always feel free to talk to me. =]
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I got my period for the first time in May. Since then I've only gotten it 3 times, and I'm still irregular. But whenever I get my period, I become sort of...disgusted with myself. The thought of blood coming out of my body disgusts me, and sometimes I see the little things of blood and I actually throw up. What should I do to become more comfortable with my body during this time? (link)
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it is kind of a gross feeling or thinking about it. but you gotta remember its normal and happens to every other girl. Try to get your mind off of it. This might happen for a while until you are use to it. i know i felt really weird and grossed out when i first got it. but its normal so dont be so worried or grossed out
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for a while now i've been thinking that i may have ocd. heres some of the little things i do, and if i don't do them then i want to cry and my stomach starts to hurt and i feel so guilty.
-when i eat something colored, such as m&m's, i have to eat them in a certain order. like all the reds. then all the greens. or red, green, red, green.
-when i lay on my back i HAVE to cross my right ankle over my left.
-when i shoot a freethrow i dribble it 3 times and then spin, drop, spin, drop.
-i have to take out my right contact, then left.
-when i eat noodles, i have to eat three at a time.
-when i eat something i try to eat it in numbers so that when theres quite a few left, the number left is how many letters there are in the name of the guy i like.
-i have to sleep on my left side.
-i HAVE to drink my coke with a straw, even if its in a can.
-i have to put my right rubberband on my braces before i put my left one on.
-i have to straighten the left side of my hair before the right side.
-whenever i pop a pimple, puss has to come out of it. [gross, i know.]
-when i stand, i have to bend my leg so i appear shorter than i really am.
-i save ALL my receipts and put them in order from the date of the receipt.
-i have to save all the little tear off price things from price tags.
-i have to save all my movie tickets and put them in order of the theater i was in.
there's more..but it's hard to explain some of them. do any of you think this could be a sign of OCD? i've told my mom, but she thinks i'm kidding, and it's making me upset. but maybe i'm just overthinking..? what do you think?
♥ megan
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sounds like you definitely do have OCD. you should get help right away. Go to a therapist talk to them about it, im sure they have more experience with advice and can give you medicine so you can have a normal behavior.
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what are some signs of depression? (link)
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some signs are wanting to die, crying alot, high blood pressure, not doing any activities, wanting to be by yourself, not acting as you used to. you should talk to a friend, or go to a therapist and talk to them if you feel no one will listen. and remember whatever you tell them they wont tell anyone else, unless you are in danger. they will just get you help!
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i have a friend who's dad recently died. (the boy is 14) he was really close to his dad. his dad passed a few days before christmas and this night of his funeral was his 50th birthday. the boy's mother isn't really protective. this boy used to be in a gang...and had been involved with bad stuff. he is still in a gang...but wants out. he has one brother who is in it too...he's 19, and he is nothing but a bad influence. the boy knows i am worried, but he can't get out. i feel like now that his dad has passed that he is going to look up to his brother the kinda replace his dad. I am really worried. This has been bothering me so much. i wish i could have taken his dad's place, because i feel like nows the time he needs a dad in his life. does anyone have any advice. because i love this boy (i don't like love him as in bf or anything) it's just that i love him in a way that i would be willing to do anything to help him..and i would be heart broken if anything happened to him because he has been through so much. i love dis boy in a way that i would do anything to make him happy...even if that wouldn't include me. does anyone have any advice? any would be appreciated...srry it's long. (link)
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you should tell him that he can talk to you about anything. tell him you are worried about him looking up to his brother because he is nothing but a bad influence. tell him what you really think. im sure he will appreciate it that you care alot about him. and might be willing to do so. tell him you dont think its a good idea to be in a gang. and it will just start a whole bunch of trouble, and might end up where is dad is, and you will miss him terribly. tell him you are there for him 100%. make him fell like he can trust you. and dont let him down!
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i have no idea if i'm depressed or not. but i keep having really scary thoughts of me dying tragically. like i'm just walking down the street, and i picture myself getting hit by a car lying on the street.
i think a lot. too much actually. like one minute i'm completly happy knowing that i'm loved by people. the next i'm so scared that everybody's being fake and i'm going to get hurt by someone i love. it scares me. is this normal? i don't know why i'm having suicidal thoughts. and i hate over thinking.
should i go get depression pills? or no? and what exactly would they do for me? and where can i get them? (link)
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What you should do is see a therapist. talk about it with them. It seems to me you are bipolar. from the being happy one minute and then thinking bad the next. it doesnt seem like depression. and also a little mild skitzo. from the thinking someones going to hurt you, while your walking down the street. go get help talk to a therapist. she can give you some medicine to help you.
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