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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)

Heyy..well first of all i think what both of you guys did was pretty bad because a friend should never sleep w/ a guy that the other friend has a crush on but i also dont think its right that you told the boy that she was pregnant because it is her business and she should've been the one who should've told him...

spiCy x0 hoTt xOx

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i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl

heyy..well i think you should tell them how you feel n that you guys been friends for so long and that you feel left out..they'll prolly understand n if they dont then their not true friends..hope i helped

Love yah,
SpiCy x0 hoTt xOx

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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~

Heyy..well first of all i dont think that you have a problem just because you want to kiss your crush. The best thing to do since you guys are close friends is tell him how you feel..honesty always helps! and you never know, mayb he likes you too!! =)

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Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok thats normal!! i remeber my first time whoo was i scared!! But now your just regreting it and thats okay. The time must have no been rite becos you would have done it if it was !! I think you should definitly talk to him tell him you were scared and youd like to give it another try.
TiPS: the only thing really too it is to just move your tounge around in his mouth ..and if your ready ..let him touch your boobs and stuff...sit on his lap to make it really in the mood
if your the shy type make him do the stuff have his arm around you and things like that

hope i helped

x3 spiCy x0 hoTt

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help....my name is lola and i strip in a strip club. ive been in porn movies and different clubs. i have a hard time finding a guy who can just accept my job and love me for who i am. if i ever do find a guy they turn out to be real asses or just treat me like im a nobody. Just b/c i show my body doesnt mean i dont have feelings. idk it just seems like something needs to happen. porn is the first job i ever had and ive been making good money. should i quit my job and start over or just follow along with porn. if i start over again it would be rlly hard and it would be a long time before i make money again. i dont know what to do anymore i need help...

well if those are your jobs.esp. porn guys are going to get jealous. they will like it but only if you do it with them see what i mean? like guys always get jealous no matter what!! i think you should probably start over if you wanted to find a new guy a real/true guy or just continue what ur doing and look for the rite one. Hope i helped!

x3 spiCy x0 hoTt

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okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?!

okay if theres that many 'signs' on him liking you you definitly need to talk to him or ask him out!!And if u flirt a lot make sure ur only flirting with him -- call him ask him like if the rumors are true find out some stuff!!
hope i helped

x3 spiCy x0 hoTt

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well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
and
p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!!

First things straight shes a terrible friend!! If shes spoiled why would she need to steel?, and blame it on you! bosing 'friends' around aint cool either. i think you should definitly tell your parents that it was her and make them pay for it.or you can tell ur mom u'll repay her for it and not tell on your friend but ur friend is still going to act like a jerk towards you! I wouldnt say shes using you id saying shes being such a bad friend !!!

spiCy x0 hoTt

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my exbf just broke up with me and now im looking for people. well i didnt know this till yesterday but i met his cousin and his cousin was flirting with me and i was flirting back. his cousin even knew i was his exgf but he still flirted but i didnt know so i didnt think i was doing something wrong. now i feel like im doing something wrong! can i go out with my ex's cousin?!?! im so confused and his cousin seems intrested in me and he knows a couple things i never told any1 bfore. is it right to go out with him? i really like him and i know he likes me so please tell me or should we just stay friends? i think my exbf would get mad but he broke up with me. kk

thnx

signed,

CONFUSED

If your boyfriend just broke up with you, its way to early to start a new relationship. Esp. with his cousin!! I think you should wait a while and see how things go and if the flirting continues , and your still atleast talking to your x ask him if he would care. But he is the one who broke up with you so even if he says no its really your decision.
Hope I helped !!

spiCy x0 hoTt

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i am 13 and i went and got blonde higlights on my brown hair and i noe the highlights will start to go away but i was wondering if i striaghten my hair everyday and wash it everyday will it make the color go away faster?? and is there anything i can do to keep my highlight from not letting the color fade away so fast?? can u plz help me!!

ok well im 14 with brown hair and blonde highlites ive been getting highlites ever since like 5 grade straightening your hair wont make it go away washing it every single day mite just a little but not a lot i get highlites almost every month in a half 2 months nd i wash my hair every day so yeah theres nothing u can really do to keep the color not to fade ..sorry

spiCy x0 hoTt

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Heyy...well you seem really nice and you definently don't need them stuck up people!and since you dont like any of the people in your classes..make some that arent in your classes. During lunch or in the hall if you see people that look like they're really nice go up to them and start a conversation...but dont try too hard just be yourself and everything will hopefully go well! =) i hope that helped

spiceyx0hott xOx

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Ok.. I just wanna know if its uh.. normal. or feel way to overwelmed about sex. I know it ment to be pleasurable and stuff. But that fact of something going inside of me. Is wayy disgusting its like my fear.. kinda. I cant help the feel. and it pisses me off.
Im Bisexual and it even goes for finger or tampons i just get so grossed out. Is this normal??
will i get over it.

well encounting that your bi its normal its okay to feel disgusted some people do i noe a friend who does they think it feels good but it gets them sick and their rite something of someone else not clean dirty its disgusting but its kind of part of life...but its definitly normal and you should more then likely get over it

spiCy xo hoTt

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i have been dating this guy for 5 months. when he's not around, i miss him to death.. but when he's around, he drives me nuts. it seems like he wants me to do stuff with him .. and i do. when we're done doing whatever, he just leaves! i don't know what to say to him! will someone please help me.

well what kind of crazy things does he do? if its like hurtful things u need to do something about it..and wen u's do stuff and he just leaves he might be just using you for sexual things sorry ..that could be it i think you should just sit down and talk to him and if he gets angrey with you ..tell him to chill ...or your going to have to end it? if thats wut ur guna have to do ..

candace*

not help?? email -spicyx0hott@netscape.net

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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!*

Heyy..well ok you shouldn't really feel distant since you guys did just start going out...and i definently know how you feel about the phone thing because there is usually silence between me n my boyfriend a lot on the phone until someone thinks of something to talk about..so maybe when you're not doing anything just write down on a sheet of paper all the things you guys could talk about and then mayb you'll just sort of bond lol..and if u still feel distant from him go out w/ him a lot and just get close n flirty w/ him lol ;) i hope that helped..if it didnt e-mail me @ spicyx0hott@netscape.net

spicyx0hott xOx

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