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Q: How do I tell my bf that I don't want to have sex with him? I don't want him to be hurt..

tell him you love him your just not ready ~hope i helped~

Q: this is only for people who have aim 6.0 please.
okay i made a new screen name and want to transfer my buddylist but idk how.
any help?

sadly the only way is to retype it i no it takes forever but ive had it for awile its the only way any of me or my friends no ~welcome~

Q: So yeah as you can see from the title my boyfriend has mono. When i found out i was wicked upset. I didnt give it to him and im getting tested for it next week because when he had it and we didnt know i madeout with him, but thats not the point. Im so scared somethings going to happen. I know he can die from this but im so confused. Everyone is telling me different stuff and like now im not sure how he can die. And like i've been like really upset and miserable since i found out on monday and i talked to him and he says hes in a lot of pain and ive been trying to pretend like he doesnt have it and treat him normally on the phone. My mom and my friend told me that he's going to be alright but they dont know that. Everytime i bring it up to my friend she says hes fine and starts talking about some guys she likes. Im getting really annoyed. And im getting wicked scared that im going to lose him. But are not showing or telling anyone this.

Am i over reacting?
How could mono kill?
Im not really sure of anything at this point
Im worried, scared, confused
Someone help me! Please!
Anything helps :\

Sorry it was so long

my friend has had mono for 3 months so far~your over reacting a little~mono can kill you if you do sports or get hit because something inside you could burst like your spleen or something~if its a really bad case he'll have it for a while~if not about a month he'll be fine~it makes them reeally tired so the more you sleep the quicker its over~just talk to him over the phone~well to make you feel better most people only get it once so now he can get it over with so thats a good thing~he'll be fine~hope i helped

Q: i dunno what is wrong with guys my age (14-15) all of them are nasty, immature, or way into sports. is this just a phase because im am really sick of hearin nasty jokes on my bus or guys being rude to other people.

yea pretty much~its a guy thing~im used to it im a girl i have only brothers and guy cousins

Q: i have a question i was wondering what u can wear to look more preppy please i need help asap and also how to act it!! and i need anything possible that has to do with being preppy thankyou so much in advance!!!

im goth~no one likes preps but preps not sayin it in a mean way~if you arent born one dont try your hardest to become one for somebody else~but they wear collared shirts ususally popped lotsa pinks or stripes and are always smileing or just any aero abercrambie hollister and act really stuck up~but youd have alot less people hatin you if you dont dis goths or punks or emo seems like all preps only do and dont over do it~most preps guys or girls are cheerleaders all peppy.

Q: i really like the hair type that people have when they go to the beach and swim if you know what i mean, its like wavy. im not sure how to explain it. but if you think you know what im talking about do you know of any products that can make your hair look this way without it being crunchy from gel or anything, just a natural beachy look. thanks!

most hair gets like that from the ocean ~its sea water~ you can buy like ocean salt i think its called and put it in your hair you can get it at like walgreens or walmart. its sumthin in the ocean salt that makes it wavy and stuff. i had it.it works but im not sure what its called i hat it over the winter ~hope i helped~

Q: problems with my brother and its not just sibling rivalry.

moms at home sick. when i left with kat,my best friend, i called my brother to see where he was after school cause he was my ride home. his phone was being retarted and hung up on me after 3 seconds. and so i called back and it went straight to voicemail. w/e. kept walking with kat and eventually ran into him. he began yelling at me asking what the hell i was doing and why i called him. he made me wait on him in the bathroom. after, i followed him and a group of his friends into a classroom where they sat and took out their cards. (magic the gathering) i called mom to tell her. cause shes at home sick. and he wants to play cards? does he have no respect for anyone? she told me to have him call her and so i went back in the room and told him (obviously) to call her. "mom wants you to call her" he pretty much mocked me in front of all of his friends. so i decided to leave. i went out in the hall and watched kat practice hip-hop. several minutes went by and he finally came out of the room and we left.

he is always telling me that he hates having to drive me around. he hurts my feelings all the time telling me that im fat and shit. my family is slowly falling apart. and worse. his girlfriend says to me that he would be better off without me. that im the cause of all of his problems.

ontop of that im having friend problems and ex-bf problems. i fell in love and he moved away. my family is pretty much fucked up. dads a cop and a pastor and mom works at my school. my parents make my life hell and my brother would choose fucking cards over me. i just wish that everything was better. i hate living here with my family. was going to get myself taken by the department of children and families because when dad snaps, he goes crazy. punching, kicking... i feel like i have noone to talk to and that noone cares or understands me.

and idk what to do. cause its all building up inside of me and i know one day im gonna explode.

im 13/f bday was this month~i hate my life my family is fucked up to~i ask alot of advice about it to~DO NOT RUN AWAY~i did and i was gone for 4 days noone came lookin or even flyers only my bff that was a guy he was the only person who called me I HAD MY CELL and hes the only1 smart enough to call~if you do it will either break you up inside and be depressed for the rest of your life i am or youd find out if anyone loves you~maybe call 911 or go to someone who cares house and theyd do something~i dont no if your ur brothers servant i was~refuse~fight back its your life make sure its right~hope i helped~need anything else im randomgrl777

Q: Some of you may know the website iconator.
It's just basicly AIM icons. I recently
became interested in making some. I tried to
read throught the tutorials but it didnt make
any sence to me. Can someone explain how to do it
where I would get the stuff to do it, I just want to have nice backgrounds with quotes and hearts and such. THANKS

make them in paint on your computer and then use the animator on iconator

Q: How do you delete pages on piczo?

Also, How do you rename them on your main page?

Step by Step would be awesome.

Thanks.

~to delete pages
go into safe mode and click the set of text that names the page and delete
~to rename
cick the textbox and type in a new name
~hope i helped~

Q:
I love music. I don't really like rap or country or pop though. But i like stuff like, bullet for my valentine, underoath, silverstein, etc. Can yoou name some good songs? pLease?

well here are some bands i love
olivia the band
greenday
evanescence
my chemical romance
blink 182
type them in on any music site or google they rock hehe get it rock there rock bands
~anyway i hope i helped~

Q: Yesterday I went snowboarding for the first time, and I had an instructor give me a lesson. (I have skiied before, only 2 times but I picked up on it well and was on the intermediate slopes with ease.) I really don't think the lesson helped... I didn't understand what the instructor tried to teach me so I just went down the bunny slopes a lot in hopes of figuring out what he tried to teach. It's so hard! Now I look back at skiing and it seems like nothing. But I want to get better at this. I've been called a natural athlete, and I think I actually did get the hang of snowboarding by the end of the day, but I kept falling in fear of hitting people. The season for me will end on March 31, and I should be able to go almost every weekend until then. Do you think I will be able to get decent at snowboarding by then? I really like it but I just wish I was better, it's a lot of fun when I'm not falling. And if you have any tips I would appreciate it!

i love snowboarding its alot of fun~but i never had a instructor~were do you go?~anyway its so much fun~take chances dont drop theyd move if they dont ud still be fine like i said it might hurt a bit~also is your a natual athlete try skate boarding as practice befor the next time you go snowboarding theres no other people skate boarding or skiing down your driveway lol~use ramps when you get the hang of it then next time you go snowboarding youd have alot more practice~the more practice the better you are~hope i helped~

Q: im 14 ~today was my bday ~valentines day ~all i could think about was my bff since 4th grade~hes a guy ~ive been staring to really like him and he likes me we both no we like eachother ~my family doesnt really care about me tht much and dont say o yes they do ~bc they dont they told me ~i hate them ~they fogot it was my bday till like noon and ive only been talkin about it for days ~his family is just like mine ~were both deppressed when were apart~my bff he was the first person to tell me happy bday and even sing it ~which was left on a message on my cell at 9:00am the time i was born years ago ~i called him back ~it was so sweet ~someone cares about me atleast ~one person in my life ~i really love him and he really loves me but every1 who dates ends up hating eachother i no we wouldnt hate eachother but ~hes the only person in my life tht cares about me ~should we date ~i dont wana lose the only person who cares and loves me ~and yes im gothic depressed but can u blame me!!! ~my parents dont care his parents dont care any of my cousins dont care no1 else cares about me!!!!!!!! exept him i love him i dont ever want to loose him ~and if we ever do date he cant come over as much ~we cant go anywhere alone anymore ~what do i do ~i hate my life ~but i love him with all my heart ~i got only the present from him today ~i dont really care about the present i just wanted to be with him 2day thats all i wanted for my bday ~i cry myself to sleep every night im cryin my eyes out right now and hes the ONLY person to ever see me cry exept my mom since i was like 5 ~what should i do i dont wana loose the only person in my life we both love eachother as bff and as bf gf ~and no im not going to see anyone for all my problems ~hes the only person i can talk to ~i hav tried to kill myself befor~before i met him~hes means the world to me i mean the world to him~we only have eachother ~we might runaway together ~NOBODY WILL CARE EVRY1 NOS NO1 WILL ~im not sein a pyscyatrist ~what do i do ~OMG SUM1 PLZ HELP ME

omg sis you never told me!!!~your bro~

Q: okay i have these little bumps on the tip and sides of my tounge...they kinda hurt

do you think they could be like herpes? I am a virgin and havent done anything more then makeout...i havent made out for about 3 weeks and the sores started on Friday...

am i just being parinoid? or is it something serious?

they re probly acid sores you get them when you eat alot of acidy foods

Q: what exacly does understanding means? can you give me an example?

im from korea

if you understand someone or something you know what there talking about and listen to them and if you are not confused ~well i hope i helped~

Q: okay, so theres this guy at my school who i REALLLY like.... but then he found out i liked him thru some of my friends... I was really worried that he wouldnt see me the same way (u know what I mean? like evrytime we talked i wouldnt want him to think, "oh, its cuz she likes me" or something.) but he doesnt treat me different, he kinda treats me... better. He's in almost all of my classes and we talk all the time. He sits at my lunch table with me and he always sits next to me. He usually walks me out of school, even if he has to go back inside, and... he tickles/pokes my ALL the time! But now I'm not sure if he really likes me, or if he's just being nice because he knows i like him... What do you think???

im 13 ive been askin ppl a question just like tht~he also found out thru my friend~but hes my bff~exept he flicks paper or rubberbands at me and pokes,tries to trip,hugs me from behind~he likes me to~but were just really rough to eachother~he likes you~its just a guys way of showing it~to my expirience he loves you~and he might just want you to ask him out first if hes shy to~but it might ruin a friendship~so maybe wait another week if its still the same or better he does like you~hope i helped

Q: 15/m
I swear im depressed, i cry alot like everynight, i feel like shit and want to die sometimes...
okay well i was fine until i met sammie, then we were goin out and i really loved her and then we broke up and all and i got crushed, ever since i have no been the same... like now 2 months later(this past sat) she tells me she likes me alot but doesnt want a bf right now, and like now im crying harder cuz now tomorrow is my birthday and i want to hang out with her so so so so bad on sat. and for like the past two days after she told me how she felt she been ignoring me and when i call her she says shes in a bad mood and doesnt wanna talk to me... well i asked her to hang out with me on sat. and she said oh idk i might hangout with chris(her best friend but i thikn more) i swear if i lose her im killing myself, i know ill do it, shes everything to me... i cant lose her...

im only 13 but tht happened 2 me and i tried to kill myself~but my ex stopped me he just talked to me for a long time~he broke up w/ me bc he thought i didnt like him anymore~but were dating again~talk to her tell her how you really feel~or talk to chris~and maybe shes just goin though hard times~just be friends~then ask her out again ~ or ~ tell her 'with out you i would kill myeslf'BUT DONT REALLY KILL URSELF DO NOT~but i found out ur life isnt worth a person who tries to hurt u~maybe try and get back w/ her but if u dont in a week SCREW HER~forget her if you can last another week~'think' shes trying to kill you by hurtin u tht bad~you acually like sum1 who is trying to (kill)(hurt)(make you try to kill urself)shes not worth it~you thats just wrong i found out the hard way~it took a LONG time till i forgave my bf but he still kept tryin when he found out how much he hurt me

Q: 14/m

ok so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a couple months and i don't know what to get her for valentine's day. i don't have much cash so it can't be too expensive.

also, don't suggest burning a cd. i did that for her for christmas, and i don't want to look repetitive.

thanks

get her favorite animal as a stuffed animal every1 loves stuffed animals

Q: basically, i'm not aloud to date yet. i have an amazing girlfriend who is juat amazing! i hate that i'm not aloud to date because i can't treat her like my girlfriend or tell people shes my girlfriend because of the supid rule. she's amazing and i know that she doesn't deserve to be treeded like this. i love her very much but i hate putting her through this. what should i do?

im not allowed 2 date either but i have a bf what i do is go to the mall or anywhere and ''casually'' meet her there but tell her the day befor to go duh

Q: 16/F

My best friend and I finally admitted we like each other. We seldomely flirt and don't really know how to switch from friends into going into a relationship since neither of us have had this happen before. I just neeed some advice on how to start transitioning into more than friends since that's what we both want to start doing but we don't know how to start to do that. Please help! I need ideas. Thanks

im only 13~but thats happening 2 me rite now~go to the movies~the mall~to one of ur houses~do what you normally do when you hang out~but just talk 2 him about different things alot more~it worked for me

Q: do u know any songs with "i love you" statements on them? or the "i wanna tell you how much i love you" kind of songs? need it.thanks.

:)

'i wana love you'by akon

bio

-i dont change for people -my only fear is being hated again -i am extremely hyper at times and adicted to coffee -i curse way to much -i have a bad temper -in love with taking pictures -has had a very emotional life -im NOT emo or gothic but thats what everyone wont stfu with -i think of guys as better friends -id be gone without my friends -my old friends have put me threw way to much -i used to be one of the popular people but now i cant stand them but still talk -i love guitars -my favorite music is taken away forever -ill answer any question honestly just dont hate me for bein brutally honest