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my girlfriend basically, i'm not aloud to date yet. i have an amazing girlfriend who is juat amazing! i hate that i'm not aloud to date because i can't treat her like my girlfriend or tell people shes my girlfriend because of the supid rule. she's amazing and i know that she doesn't deserve to be treeded like this. i love her very much but i hate putting her through this. what should i do?
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im not allowed 2 date either but i have a bf what i do is go to the mall or anywhere and ''casually'' meet her there but tell her the day befor to go duh ]
my last girlfriend wasnt allowed to date. me. she wasnt allowed to see me, at all. we had to sneak around to do the most innocent things, like study together. she ended up breaking up with me because I couldnt handle. How does this apply to you? Well, what I am saying esentially is, you are more likely to be the one who can't deal with it than she is. Thats how it usually ends up. She is with you, which means she has made her decision to deal with this obstacle. So, you really don't have TOO much to worry about. Just treat her right when you can. ]
You should stay with her if you love her becuase what if by the time you can date shes taken? I dont think you'd want that to happen. I'm going through the same thing with my bf. It is hard at times because of the parents but i really think we can make it through that. When you can be with her and alone. Treat her like she means everything to you. Be close to her and cuddle,hold hands,kiss and what ever. She probly new that it was going to be hard so since she said yes then shes wanting to go through it with you. If she didnt want to go through all the trouble she wouldnt have went out with you. Basicly treat her like she means the world to you when your able to. If its to hard for her shell probly tell you and if theres still feelings later on you can just start again when able to date. Dont Stop being friends though. You Dont want that!! :] Well I hope it works out with you to. good luck hope i helped.
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