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my bday only 1 person cares about me
im 14 ~today was my bday ~valentines day ~all i could think about was my bff since 4th grade~hes a guy ~ive been staring to really like him and he likes me we both no we like eachother ~my family doesnt really care about me tht much and dont say o yes they do ~bc they dont they told me ~i hate them ~they fogot it was my bday till like noon and ive only been talkin about it for days ~his family is just like mine ~were both deppressed when were apart~my bff he was the first person to tell me happy bday and even sing it ~which was left on a message on my cell at 9:00am the time i was born years ago ~i called him back ~it was so sweet ~someone cares about me atleast ~one person in my life ~i really love him and he really loves me but every1 who dates ends up hating eachother i no we wouldnt hate eachother but ~hes the only person in my life tht cares about me ~should we date ~i dont wana lose the only person who cares and loves me ~and yes im gothic depressed but can u blame me!!! ~my parents dont care his parents dont care any of my cousins dont care no1 else cares about me!!!!!!!! exept him i love him i dont ever want to loose him ~and if we ever do date he cant come over as much ~we cant go anywhere alone anymore ~what do i do ~i hate my life ~but i love him with all my heart ~i got only the present from him today ~i dont really care about the present i just wanted to be with him 2day thats all i wanted for my bday ~i cry myself to sleep every night im cryin my eyes out right now and hes the ONLY person to ever see me cry exept my mom since i was like 5 ~what should i do i dont wana loose the only person in my life we both love eachother as bff and as bf gf ~and no im not going to see anyone for all my problems ~hes the only person i can talk to ~i hav tried to kill myself befor~before i met him~hes means the world to me i mean the world to him~we only have eachother ~we might runaway together ~NOBODY WILL CARE EVRY1 NOS NO1 WILL ~im not sein a pyscyatrist ~what do i do ~OMG SUM1 PLZ HELP ME
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i dont think running away is the answer you two have feelings for each other you should get together. Maybe if you two are together things might get better and you might feel better. If you two are only happy when together then stay together and be together.
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I don't have any useful advice, but I wanted to wish you a happy birthday. It sounds like your friend knows how you feel, and I'm sure everything will work out well with him.
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you sound, right now, like you're really overwhelmed by stuff, trying to hold on to what you've got. You may need to see a psychitrist on this - or maybe only a therapist... it's not so bad, trust me. We all go through crap that leves us lost and scared just some of us at different times than others. Be brave! I know you can get through this!
I can see why you wouldn't want to see a psychiatrist - I was there, minus the trying to kill myself thing. But sometimes when you put all those walls around yourself, instead of protecting yourself you shield yourself from thins that could help you. I bet this guy of yours isn't the only one who cares about you though it may be difficult to see this right now. Pschiatrists are an interesting bunch because they get really obsessed with which meds they're gonna give you. My advice is to just find someone anonymous that you can talk to - a guidance councillor? A therapist? lol I make my therapist laugh all of the time now, now that I'm getting better. I know putting yourself out there is scary but sometimes it's the best you can do when the world goes crazy and you need a way to simply stand up.
I wish you luck. Keep trying to reach out cuz it must be tough, relying completely on one person. Remember life is way too persistant not to get you through all the crap. You sound lost right now but also really strong and ready to fight. Keep going. This is only one part of your life and though it won't beeasy, I know you have the strength and courge to do this.
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Honestly, you need to chill the fu@k out. I'm not saying that to be rude but your constand whining about no one loving you and caring about it is not true. Your mom is really messed up for saying those things to you but instead of crying and doing stupid things to yourself, you NEED to talk to her. You probablly don't want to and I bet you're really against that, but you have to ask her why she's so disapointed in you and why she says she doesn't love you. Now for this boy that you love. No one is stoping you guys from seeing each other. You have doubt that your relationship won't work out, but you don't know that. If you guys care so much about each other as you say you do, nothing will ruin it and even if you guys were to break up for some reason, you'd stay friends because of the close friendship you have. The only way that you guys would end up hating each other is if you let that happen. Stop saying that no one cares about you. People are messed up and don't know how to show their love but just because they don't tell you that they don't love you or care for you, doesn't mean it's true. You need some sort of help and you want answers and you want advice, but you won't allow it. I personally don't think that what I nor any of us say will change the way you think but you're the only one that can help yourself. Instead of crying and hoping to die, change your life for the better. Be a better person than your mom or your family is. Trying to kill yourself is honestly the stupidest thing I have ever heard of. Don't take that to heart because I'm not saying that to just you. I just think it's a shameful thing to do. Do you honestly think that suicide will help you? You would be leaving the boy you love and everyone behind you & another thing.. running away will only get you in trouble. How are you going to survive on your own. You need to think about these things before you do it because you can't always change the past. You're going to regret the things you do if you don't think about it. Why won't you talk to someone? There are people who can help you and I don't want you think that you're crazy or something. It's for the best and you'd be happy. Think about what you're doing and just talk to your mom. It might change things, it might not. Be a better person than she is and just hang in there.
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tell him how you feel; how much he means to you and everything. and then your familys like horrible. it isn't always true that after you start going out with someone you hate them; i was scared to. [im 13 turning 14 soon] Well scared to lose my best friend also thats why everytime he asked me out i said no. Then finally i got annoyed and said yes for the hell of it. We've been together since and you never know what could happen if you don't give it a chance. Let me know what you decide to do :] Hope i helped.
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omg sis you never told me!!!~your bro~
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