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heyhey im a 14 year old very very bored person lol um i thought i wud rather waste my time giving advice to ppl but dont get me wrong if u mess with me in anyway tht will tick me of piss me off i will serious make your life miserable...ahh i hate ppl who are useless seriously all they have to talk bout or complain about is how thei cell phone color doesnt match their outfits...now questions like those i will give adive to but it wont be a very happy comment...ok now im goin
peace~
oh and yes tht is my pic...my friend made it black and white for me
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i have a friend whos 16, living in Canada....she and her family dont get on well, and she doesnt have many friends...she talks about running away and getting a job and starting a new life on her own.
IM just wondering how hard it is for 16 year olds to get jobs in Canada, and how i could help her? i cant convince her to stay, so i want her to have a good start...so any suggestions would be great!
thank you (link)
tot eell ya the truth i think running away and finding a new jub starting a new life thing issnt really gonna work...unless she runs away to the circus....maybe tht would work if she could bend like a pretzile ya that would work...neways this girl is 16 if she runs away where will she live or sleep at night it will probably take her about a month for her to find a job a year for her to get enough money to get some furniture to put rent in a crapy apartment this girl is gonna hate her life more than she already hates it now you have to tell her that and she only has like wut 2 years of skool left until she leaves her family and goes of to college cant she just have some patients for just 2 years or so...then she will go to college wher it will be awaay from her parents and problems and finish college and have a life of her own with a degree and she can work a job that will probably pay well enough for her to live her own life...well i hope your friend solves her problem bye


is hummus healthy? i mean i thought it was but i wasnt exactly 100% sure. i eat...tribe classic hummus. any clue?


please&thankyou (link)
yes it is, it has alot of protiens


I am thinking about becoming a vegetarian. But i dont know the FIRST thing about it. I know that they say vegans dont get enough protein and stuff like that and i dont know how i would get certain vitamins if i did become a vegan. I tried to google this but i didnt find anything that answers my questions. If anyone can help me out I would greatly appreciate it! (link)
well thats cool..i think its great that your thinking about speacies besides our kind..neways im not a vegan myself but i know some facts that may help you hopefully aww..actually vegans are pretty healthy to be eating vegies all day thats good for you hair and skin and health .....well you can always take vitamins that could help you some more you could go to a doctor to perscribe the right vitamine pills for you and ahh lets se oh you should always becareful of what candy and kinda chips you eat because alot of that has animal fatning in it so it is part of the animal like...ujm marshmellows all marshmellows have animal fatning just read the ingrdiants all right well good luck on that bye


I just saw the movie "Edward Scissorhands" with Johnny Depp and it was wonderful. For those who have seen it, I didn't get the end...when Kim as an old woman says "I don't know whether he's alive or not" and then they show Edward making an ice statue of her dancing in the snow, was she having a flashback, or was the film showing Edward at that moment she was talking? (link)
ha ha h it was a good movie huh ...neways it was at the moment not a flash back...ok bye now


i have the money and all, but i am just wondering if the pink razor phone is worth it all ..what are some cons and pros about it? (link)
i think you should get it it has everything but then again it does eazily get brooken i have one and i love it i take pics and videos go online on my aim and stuff but if your not interested the nokia 7280 is really nice i think it is hot alright well hope you find a phone you like


sometimes..i feel uneedded...like if i died no one would care...no one loves me....my parents say they do but never show it....i think my parents think i'm useless...i wish i was loved...or had a purpose in the world...wat do i do... (link)
your parents mioght not show they love you becus of probably they dont have so much time or dont notice that you wanna be showed that you are loved but they do love you to tell you the truth you re probably loved by some people you didnt even know they loved you and noone is useless or unneeded and im sure alot of people would be in sorrow if you were to die much luck to you bye


i realy wana have sex but i feel to young but at the same time i feel ready HELP ??????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
wow how can that be "aha i wanna have sex am i to young but im so like aha *giggle giggle* ready for it give it to me!" your seriously....wow i have nothing really there are people here who have problems with their parents wanna kill themselves have been rapped abused and here you are ms.sex appeal not so sure if your old enough for it but ready for it serious get a life this website is for people in serious need of help


i was wondering is there a site i can go to get a email pal or something? i dont want a penpal to write to but i want to talk to them by email? i dont mean anything like a chat room. thanks (link)
um well tht sounds cool there is myspace and xanga and um alot more but i cant think of right now ha h ah sorry but this website also you can talk to people abd email them aslong as their are ok with it and your not a freaky perv who wants to get it on ha h ah alright goodluck with your search


Okay so I've been with this boy for nine almost ten months. We've done everything (except he never went down on me if that even matters) But the thing is he went out with a girl for 9 months on and off before we went out and this girl and i have never really gotten along. To put it in the nicest way, i hate her with a passion. Recently i have found out that they were talking on the phone..... and knowing her she probably either likes him still or wants to break us up. She has said that she hates him so much blah blah and a bunch more bull shit but then shes now talking to him? i dont get it. I know i am extremly jelous and in my case its not a good thing. I am a nervous reck all the time. He is in nationals for 6 days which is no big deal because i have rarley been able to see him this whole summer. The only thing differnet from the rest of the summer is that i cant even call him. I only just found out about this phone call the day he left for minnesota for the volleyball nationals. When he comes back we wont have much if any time to hang out because he has a volley ball camp at lyola college within the week he comes home. He isnt one to talk about akward/hard situtations things i mean i've tried talking to him about things on the phone and it doesn't work at all. I want to know if i am being to nervous and letting my jelously take over me? And when do confront him about this what excatly should i say? The thing is we had sex not to long ago which makes this much harder because it makes me think he doesnt mean it when he says "i love you" any other comments on the situation are good too.
16/f thankks (link)
hi
ok you need to set it to her straight tell her "listen honey that guy right there yea he is mine and if you so much lay a finger on him ill make sure that il be the one to break it...now i know you have been talking on the phone giving each other preps talks asking what shade of lipstick matches your nasty shade of an eye color ah ah ha *giggle giggle* but i dont care when you look at it this way you mean nothing to him im his and he is mine and you are....the girl he goes to when he is bored and when im not around your his "back up golucky girl!!" well good for you umhm ok now buhbye" lol ha ha h sorry i went a bit off there then you need to talk to him about how uncomfortable you are and when you set that striaght with him and he does nothing abut it to make you feel better in anyway heres what you do curse to crap outta him then then leave him he isnt worth it...seriously ok well i hope you solve your problems bye


I've had a sore throat for about a week maybe 2 and it jsut won't go away. it hurts when i swallow food or drinks and when i speak its hurts sometimes. i've drank a lot of water and had a lot of tea. I don't know what else to do, any suggestions? (link)
wow i think i know almost everything about your problem dont worry it will go away but like make yourself hot lemon juice every day and i know this might suck and ive always hated it but have a spoon full of honey once you wake up and before you sleep (oh and put some honey in the hot lemon juice and you have to drink it while it is hot ok not really hot but has to be warm) ok well i hope you get better bye


Im 16 and sexually active i either have sex or oral sex at least once or twice a day. Can this hurt my sperm count or density in any way?? Im worried becuase my sperm looked alittle thin (link)
wow you need to calm down there ofcourse its gonna affect on your sperm damage wise....wow do your know tht from how much sex you have you have more than 90% of catching aids...and i know im only 14 but arent you a bit still to younge to be doing all this...maybe you should see a docor to give you medication to calm you down a bit...well good luck on that


There is this girl who I have known forlike 10 years and been friends for 3 years. She's been a nice friend but now that we're going to be in separate classes she's acting like a real FOOL.. I told my other friend who is btter friends with her that I really don't like how she acts with me now and she said she doesn't understand wha I mean and how she won't tell her. But today's my friend's b-dai (the other one) n I suppose she wil tell her.

She's been acting like a real fool and it bugs me cause she's changed. She's going tobe 16, she has a boyfriend and he's a ass as well. I duno what to do!!! I really can't stand to be her friend anymore but I was wondering should I tell her that she's acting stupid or jus leave her! And also should I be friends with the nex one who's b-dai is today or not? They're best friends and I don't want to have her hear what I really think of her!!! (link)
hey
well you can be friends with who ever you want to...dont be friends with someone just like that you know to be nice or you knew her for a while so your just gonna take her crap..dont that is selfish of her in a way if you dont like her then she isnt your friend and the toher girl if you think she is nice and u like her then why shouldnt you be her friend ok well i hope you solve your problems...bye


I need seriouse help.

okay so i have 2 good friends and ones 10 and ones 9. and im 13 . should i still be there friend or kick em to the kerb since there to young for me to be with.



help me.


X0X0 kay (link)
hey
well you shouldnt stop being someone's friend because of who many years they have been alive for if they are truely your friends and you like them as your good friends then why should you let age differnce interfear with that...ok well its your choice...


I've been looking for a chihuahua for about a month now. I've finally found a breeder and picked out my puppy. I picked out a girl and she's white with light brown specks here and there. She's so beautiful but I cannot pick out a name. I'm picking her up in about a week and I need a name for her. I just can't pick one out. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance. (link)
well you said it was white maybe whitey or white chocolate or icecream i like that one lol my old cat's name was milkshake w/e i guess if you look at the dog for a long timke you'll figure out what yu want to name it..ok then much luck bye


so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f...she really likes me..and i think i like her too...i wanna go out with her...but her parents are way to strict and so are her cousins...she's not allowed to go on a date until she's 18..i can't wait 4 years...wat do i do??? (link)
well
if your like inlove! with her you should wait...but im guessing your not so
dont go all in the shadows for this one girl tht you like there are alot of other girls try them out and by the time she is 18 and you foun no girl for you and you still have feelings for her give it a shoot. good luck


I feel like I am not needed. Like I don't have a purpose on this Earth. I feel like if I was gone, no one would notice. And I honestly believe that no one would. I would be gone for weeks before any of my "friends" noticed I was gone. And my family, they would all move on extremely quickly. I am always forgotten, left on the sidelines, doing nothing, locked up in my room, wishing that someone loved me....

How do I get pass this? (link)
dont say that im sure your a very speacial and kind person...and you are needed , by your family and your true friends i know you probably dont feel or notice it but your family loves you and so do many other people...if you were to be gone im sure many people would be crushed and there is noway they would get over it easy atall you dont notice it but you are loved by many people im sure...maybe you think you dont have a purpose on earth because you haven't found yours yet , and im sure you will one day i guess your just goin to have to look on the brightside and wait for whats coming....good or bad well i hope i helped in any way if i havent then im sorry and good luck if you ever need any advice im here



i hate math...me and math will never understand each other...i always get c's on my report card...i was in tutoring but that did'nt help much....my parents give me a hard time on it all the time..and all my friends are really good at it...my parents are always saying look at my friends there doing perfect in it...wat do i do??? (link)
hey ha ha ha i hat math more but to solve your math problem try extra work or after school teachering..i don't like that idea either anf or your mother tell her that you aren't your friends they are them and you are you and ask your mom "haven't you ever had a subject when you were my age that you hated very much and had trouble with" and if she says no just walkaway ha ha ha joking neways i hope my advice worked good luck


im taking arabic lessons and i was just wondering how do you say my love in arabic... thns in advance!
take care (link)
ok there is "ya hobi"= my love
"alby"=my heart
"bahibek"=i love you (saying it to a guy)
"bahibik"=i love you (saying it to a girl)


im worred about my friend shes in my grade 7th but shes only 11 im 13 so sometimes i think of her as a lil sister and im a little worred about her because she has a new boyfriend whos 16 in the 10th grade and she hangs out with him alone and im worred that somthing might happen how can i covinces her that this just isent right and dont say tell her mom because her mom dont care about her and i would like it if i didnt have to tell an adult because she wont listen to them (link)
hey
ok you have to talk to her alone and set it to her straight tell her tht she is 11!!!! and he in 2 years is going off to college..he probably wont remember who she is by then this guy is just a lonely sick freak looking for a game to play with and im sorry to say that your friend is the game and she just is blinded by him to see it you have to tell her this ok well goodluck


Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me. (link)
you...wow everything you did with this boy...i have never done one thing of all the things you have done and im turning 15 next month....well obiously your not the first for this boy....and its also your fault you let him use you like that...when he kissed you , you kissed him back when he kissed your neck you didnt really go "oh no we shoudldnt do this im not even a teenager yet stop" no you said "oh yes" when he wanted to finger you you said "sure" when he wantsed you to give him a blow job you said "well aww i have nver don that before...but ok lets just go downstairs" wow seriously you should not be doing any of this...seriously you make me sick




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