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It's a weird friendship
There is this girl who I have known forlike 10 years and been friends for 3 years. She's been a nice friend but now that we're going to be in separate classes she's acting like a real FOOL.. I told my other friend who is btter friends with her that I really don't like how she acts with me now and she said she doesn't understand wha I mean and how she won't tell her. But today's my friend's b-dai (the other one) n I suppose she wil tell her.
She's been acting like a real fool and it bugs me cause she's changed. She's going tobe 16, she has a boyfriend and he's a ass as well. I duno what to do!!! I really can't stand to be her friend anymore but I was wondering should I tell her that she's acting stupid or jus leave her! And also should I be friends with the nex one who's b-dai is today or not? They're best friends and I don't want to have her hear what I really think of her!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
First off, I would advise that you keep the problems with your friend separate from your mutual friend. By that I mean, try not to talk about the other friend when she is not present. You will find that this will help to cut down on a lot of the tension for all of you.
As for wether or not you should tell your friend what you think of her, I would say that it depends how close of friends you are. If you really care about her and hope to keep some sort of friendship with her, then it may be important enough to address the issues. If you do this, I would recommend that you be as sensitive as possible and try to own your fellings, eg. I felt hurt (or rejected, or whatever) when you...
Otherwise, if you don't see her as a long term friend and it is not that important to you, I would just let it go naturally, without a big conversation. It reallly depends how much you value the friendship.
Good luck with it.
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hey
well you can be friends with who ever you want to...dont be friends with someone just like that you know to be nice or you knew her for a while so your just gonna take her crap..dont that is selfish of her in a way if you dont like her then she isnt your friend and the toher girl if you think she is nice and u like her then why shouldnt you be her friend ok well i hope you solve your problems...bye
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