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My Bestfriend and I meet in kindergardon, and have been friends ever scince, but now he is hanging out with these other girls (who are total losers by the way) and he says he doesnt want to be friends anymore. Just a couple days ago he tryed weed!! all because of these girls...:@ i no i should'nt care anymore but i can't help it, i feel like im still his bestfriend and all that...i feel so bad that all my friends pretty much are doing weed, and i want to just stop fighting and be friends agian, but the girls that he hangs out with now dont like me, and they have also tryed achocal and they've only hung out for a couple of days! im afried they will try something worse....

Please help,

Lost And Confussed.

I like how you call the other girls losers when your the one who is obviously the loser since he doesn't want to hang out with you.

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hi everyone

i am at my dads this weekend...and i dont get to see him very often...only like 2 times a month...sometimes not even that,,,so yeah..i want to think of something we can do...like father-daughter sonthing...whatever tonight...before i have to leave again tomorrow...any ideas?

For one why don't you get off the computer and go hang with him.

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ok ok i KNOW this is going to sound REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY strange to everyone out there but ive been feeling really strange latly. i feel like god is trying to tell me something or im soposed to do something...something BIG! i mean i just have a strange feeling and my heart is constantly beating fast and hard and i space off just thinking about it. even my friends have noticed that ive been acting weird lately. its scaring me. so what should i do? is this just my imagination or am i really soposed to do something in my life?

I think you should build an ark.

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only choice left is to say goodbye ive just takin 7 ibuprofen so this is my last good bye

Bye.

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What is your opinion on PDA? Does it bother you when couples at school kiss? (I'm not talking about making out and getting all over eachother.) What do you consider acceptable to do in public and what should be saved for behind doors?

It kinda of bugs me when I turn a corn to get to my locker/class and there is a couple kissing. But I think a little 'peck' on the lips/cheek is ok outside of there home along as it dosen't really go any further than that.

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i was going to get the first season of laguna beach.. is it worth buying? is it good?

I don't think its very good. Its just a bunch of rich girls getting into alot of fights with other rich girls.

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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat?

Yes you can get preganat if you haven't started your period yet. And if you haven't started your period yet then you shouldn't even be thinking about having sex.

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I usually get acne around my t zones a lot. I get it in between my eyebrows, all over my nose, lips, and chin. I have clearasil cleansing pads and I use them every night. I also use Neutrogena deep clean and I use oxy when it gets bad. There is never a time when I don't have pimples!! I always feel discusting in some way although a take good care of my skin. How can I solve this? Would a dermetologist prescribe pills for someone who doesn't have MAJOR acne probs like me?? I don't get it really bad, just it looks gross! Also, what products could help me out with this?

For one thing its bad to use many brands at once. But I used to be the same way and my regular doctor (not a dermetologist) gave me a prescribtion for BenzaChin. It works great. I also use pHisoderm self heating daily scrub. Using both of those I'm pretty much acne free (except around my period). So even if you can't get benzachin I would really go out and buy phisoderm.

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i started my period around the first of august. like the 2nd..about.. for the first time. its september now & i havent started yet this month. will the date i start this month be the date for every month ? ?? help me out w/ this time date stuff

Pretty much no ones period is regular for like the first year or even longer. So you will have to wait awhile before you can start predicting when you period will come.

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will someone please help me
im quite fat and i go red all the time i mean i get worn out really easly like i will walk down the street and i will go proper red nearly purple and i dont no why i no its probs because of my weight and i really want to be thin but i cant cause i get really anoyed and imbarased wen i do sum exercise and im bright red i would love to be thin and i would be able to do it if i just didnt go so red and get so worn out its horible i dont really like going shoping or when my mates go out of school for lunch i hate it cause im really red and everyone laughs at me / is something wrong woth me and can this be stoped i will rate high

Walk inplace in your room for as long as possible. Then each week or two try to increase how long you do it and how fast. If you have a tv in there watch it while you do it or turn a radio on. Then when you get a little more fit you can maybe start jogging outside.
But also remember that you need to have a good diet to go along with your exercise. I would suggest a vegetarian or vegan diet because meat is just plain bad for you and plus its extremely low in fat.
If you need more help don't be afraid to leave me a quetion~

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okay so my boyfriend goes to a different school than i do and hes a grade older than me .. but im going to his homecoming but idunno whut to wear .. obviously ik a dress but i dont wanna be liek too dressed up but not dressed up enough. because if hes wearing liek a tux and im just wearing a skirt or im wearing liek this gown and him to wear liek normal clothes. idunno iwould feel gayy. =) thnxz i rate high

Oh my gosh are you five? Or do they just not teach you how to spell simple words such as 'like' at your school? Its what not 'whut', and its I don't know not 'idunno',

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Why do atheists have a problem with Christian's trying to spread their religon? They seem to always get so defensive and mean. It really bugs me because they can't have an open mind to what someone else says without flipping out. Like Christian religon says "help those who don't believe in God" or something, and the atheists just FLIP out. I've been open minded to many atheists I know and listen to what they say about it calmly without saying their opinions are dumb, but then when I mention my relgion, they say it's so stupid and get mad at me for talking about it.

Anyway, to sum it all up, you basically just need to read the first sentence.

Well, I'm an atheists, and I don't flip out on people who try and talk to me about their religon, because I like to know why people believe in things and such.
But I think some people who say they are atheists aren't really atheists they just say that to get attention so they flip out to get more attention and plus they don't really have a reason to be atheists so they have to turn it around on you.
Another reason is like you said 'help those who don't believe in God', you have no clue about how many people try and convert me into being a Christain and after awhile it really starts to tick me off. So you could be a little more opened minded yourself and try to not 'help those who don't believe in God.'
So to kind of solve your problem, don't talk about religon to people. It's really not a good conversation topic because it is very easy to hurt someone or to cause drama.

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My friends X and A are going with me to the movies for my birthday. Well X is taking S as a date and A is taking J and I have my exboyfriend N. Well we all wanna make out haha yeah... movies are perfect but what should we see? none of us are a couple so how should i hint i wanna make out with him?

I also wanna kiss someone on my birthday and its a school day so do i just tell N i wanna kiss him?

You are lame.

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so last month i had protected sex someone. and i missed my perioid for this month... but the thing is my period is so irregualr i sometimes get it like 4 times a year. but latley i have been so hungry i cant walk and it like a pain in my abdomen hurting so bad. i was just wondering if that sounds like i might be pregenet?! thanks a million!

Why not take a pregnancy test.

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Well iv been with this girl 4 2 years and she says she wants to wait till she gets married to have sex,but i cant wait that long i think i waited long enough what the fuck do i do

Masturbate?

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14/F i am really confused rite now i have this boyfriend who is id say about 3 years older than me [ 17 ] hes a senior im a freshman & hes not a virgin and whatnot and i am . . we`ve been goin out for almost 5 months and hes starting to hint around that he mite want to mess around or somethin and the whole idea really makes me nervous considering hes my first real relationship & considering hes had more experiance than me and i am absolutly clueless . . hes never asked anythin be4 and im afraid that if maybe i dont do anything he mite break up with me . ? or something but i think its more of the fact that im nervous . what do you think i should do?

- confused & clueless

First, learn how to spell, then you can think about having sex.
Also what kind of loser is this guy to be dating a 14 year old?

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Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.

Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there?

You and your friends are dumb.

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