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Q: hey does anyone know how to burn cd's on windows media player?? and please give me VERY descriptive VERY step by step intructions!!thanx
xoxo:D

ok to BURN them, like put music on a cd, all you do is put the cd into the drive, bring up windows media player, then click on BURN in the upper right hand corner and you pick the songs you want on your cd, then to the right you click on BURN MUSIC(im pretty positive those are the words) and then youll be good to go. if you need to know how to RIP music im me or email me *dorkette808* or *dorkette808@yahoo.com* hope it works for you!

Q: I asked this girl out and she tells her friends to tell me that she likes me but she doesnt know if she wants to go out with me. Whats the difference? Also, she said her parents won't let her too. I'm not sure what the real thing is or not. What should I do?

if she likes you and she said her parents said no than thats probably the case, cut her some slack, maaan.

Q: so my parents are driving me crazy. i know what your thinking. this is normal... right? well, this time it is really eating at me. they took all of my friends away except for three of them that are unrelated to any of the other ones. i really cant take it. theyve took away my best friend, and alot of others. i just hate it. i need someone to go to for help on this... and there just isnt anyone who would be able to sit and listen to me. i cant go to my parents, obviously. they wont cave in and say its ok for me to be with any of my friends, since they think theyre all a bad influence on me. please help.

i would be more than happy to talk to you, i have problems that i handle with my problems so i think it might help. IM me at dorkette808 or email me a dorkette808@yahoo.com you dont have to but do what you need to, you know?

Q: I have really bad dark circles under my eyes all the time, i use conceler [or how ever you spell it] but it always wears off pretty quickly. any suggestions?

put wet(not too wet)tea bags on them for a while, thats gonna help

Q: I feel bad for duming her. I dumped her because i felt bad about dating her because my parents did not want me to.If i date her again i will feel bad for disobeying my parents. what can i do?
And if there is no hope for me what do people do to make themselves happier?

explain your situation to her, about the parents, im sure shell get it, its better than her beleiving you dont like her anyway

Q: What song is this from? :

Your face looks like the fairy tale explosion - black and blonde and red all at the same time. Did you hear him mutter under his breath "fuck yea it's over"

singer: Daughters
title: A Room Full Of Hard-ons And Nowhere To Sit Down

Q: ok when i answer some peoples questions i answer them to the best of my abilities, but they end up rating me really bad because i say one bad thing liek these recent ones i put bf for boyfriend and she rated me a two and said that i should spell everything out next time and i will get a higher rating and another one i answered and just becuase i said what ever floats your boat they said its not about them and they rated me bad

this is really killing my ratings ill rate you good

hmm, well if they are really being tht mean mean they dont deserve help, nut you really cant tell about the person before you give advice, im so so sorry i dont know how to help ♥kelly

Q: Hey, im 13 about to turn 14 and im having a party at a house that my church owns so0n. All it has is about 6 rooms with a couch in one and t.v with 4 channels in the other and one with a desk. I have no clue wat there would be to do to make my party fun. I need some ideas or some games or something i could do with my friends (Co ed). Thanks!

spin the cross...hehe no disrespect, or seven minutes in "heaven" haha i know i know im so funny, have fun

Q: okay, 2 questions...
1. I straiten my hair , and i wanna look good and everything, but it seems like my hair is thinning day by day, what should i do??

2. Okay all the girls in my school wear Abercombie..and if i don't wear it i feel like a dork.....so if i were to go shopping there, how much would a whole outfit cost....jw...

PLEASE HELP!

about number 2...DO NOT WEAR IT IF YOU DONT LIKE ITTTTTTTT!!!!! YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO WEAR IT CAUSE OTHER PEOPLE DO!!!!!!!!

and number 1...just dont straighten it as much

Q: Okay well im not sure what i am doing for halloween yet...I have been asked by about 4 or 5 differnt people if i would go out with them on halloween...I never said yes to any of them yeat and i dont kno who to go with....i was thinkin of just stayin home and not goin with any of them caue i dont want anyone to get mad at me...how can i choose??

(FYI they all hang out with diffent groups of people so i cant go with all of them together..)

well pick which one you think would be the most fun or that asked you first...QUICK! and just tell all the others you already have plans

Q: I need an easy-to-make snack because Im very hungry and its only 2:30 and I eat dinner at 7! But, Im sort of trying to eat healthy. I had salad for lunch so i dont want that. But I was thinking possibly cheese and crackers? Please tell me some healthy choices that would fill me up!

thats weird...you said its 2:30 but on the top by the title it says 1:30

Q: Is it just me or would it be strange to buy a camper/trailer with your wife and instead of having one bed for the two of you there are two small bunk beds?

youre right...its pretty strange

Q: I tried out for a solo in chorus but I didnt get it. And now Im really mad because I ALWAYS win at singing and get solo's. Im not used to this. Plus, a girl I HATE got it. And she always says shes better than me.. And this just PROVES it. What do i do?..

-Saddddd

well you should be happy for her, even if you hate her, and think...if your ALWAYS getting the part dont you think someone else deserves a shot, theyre will be plenty more chances i bet...get over it and MOVE ON

Q: So how do I ask my "second choice" without sounding like "you weren't my first choice." I could deal with being uneven, but I only had 3 to begin with. I could make one of my other girl attendants a "jr. bridesmaid." She will be 10.

well if you have another one in mind, ask them, im sure they'll understand they wernt your first choice and appreciate being asked, then again, maybe not, i hope i helped maybe a LITTLE

Q: Can a person's breasts be done growing by the age of thirteen? just curious

probably but most likely not

Q: i died my hair and it was suppose to be dark brown but it came out as dark dark black.. my natural hair is black but my hair now looks 10 times worse ...my question is what can i do to make it lighter again... if i die it again will it work ? and

well if you are gonna dye your hair a lighter color then what it is now then you have to bleach it first, so bleach it, dye it again(the brown you wanted) and fwalah, there you go.

Q: does anyone know ANYTHING about cotillion? i mean...i dont know anything about it. anything helps!

um like this- http://www.thecotillion.com/

Q: Okay, any time I'm around a guy I like, I either:
1) Blush really, really bad.
OR
2) Act stupid, maybe even mean (to him), because I'm nervous.

Since I really don't want this guy to think I'm crazy, is there anything I can do to make me less nervous? Thanks!

just picture him being one of your girlfriends, with a skirt and everything, haha just kidding...about the skirt....mostly cause youd laugh too hard, but seriously i know, trust me i know its wierd talking to guys you like, but how else will you get to know them, have fun and good luck

Q: What is fasting all about, and how's it done?
I know loads of girls at school that are talking about fasts all the time (not that I'm thinking of starving myself or anything for the sake of being thin, I'm just curious)

I heard my friend tell her cousin she was gonna do a 5 day fast and her cousin asked her how she lasted so long on a fast so I'm guessing it's got to do with not eating.

i fast is one of a couple things, depending on how your doing it, you could fast and NOT EAT or you could fast and just EAT VERY LITTLE or you might fast on a certain type of food, like lets say just vegetables or something, hope i helped

Q: Ughh, I cannot find the answer to this anywhere! Okay, so what is/was a soldier in India called? I've looked all in my World History book and searched Google.. it's like no where to be found lol. So if anyone knows, that'd be great. Thanks!!