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Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not? (link)
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Your right you should be able to pierce your own ear, but are you sure she knows what she's doing? And are you sure you won't get an infection or anything from it? Also, are the consequences worth it? I just think it'd be safer and probably smarter to do it professionally, but ultimately it is your decision.
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I'm a black female, and my hair stops right at the back of my neck. I just started wrapping my hair before I go to sleep, my hair also really thick if that helps any, but what I want to know is, does anyones have any other suggestions as to how to make my hair grow? By next year, I want it shoulder lenght or else, I'm just going to cut it short into a pixie cut and keep like that. Thanks! (link)
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Well, my suggestion was going to be the braids because they really help and give your hair a break, but if they bother you too much then don't worry about it. Like other people have saide, trim the split ends because it helps to allow your hair to grow. Also, watch out about brushing your hair too much. Although the brush helps smooth the hair out, it breaks off your hair. Just continue to wash it and take care of it by conditioning it and washing it. Every month or so deep condition it by putting conditioner in your hair and then going under a heating cap for 10 minutes or a shower cap for a 1/2 hour to allow the hair's protein to be replenished. Healthy hair helps the hair grow a lot. All of this has helped my hair grow a lot. Also, be careful on what kind of relaxers you put in your hair. Sometimes they are too strong and cause your hair to break off. It is also good to replenish the nutrients in your hair by deep conditioning it right have you have your relaxer. It might take awhile for your hair to grow, but as long as you take care of it then it will be fine.
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what's the best way to get word out about a club? even if it is a slightly academic one? it's a lot like debate, but it's still different.
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Just have signs and posters about it all around and tell everything about it. Also, word of mouth is a big factor. Just ask people if they are interested.
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Hi, I'm 14/f and I've been in dance for 9 years. The only thing is, I really suck. I'm not just saying this, I really do. I'm one of the worst in my class, and I get cruddy parts in my recitals. My teacher plays favorites, and I'm not one of them, because I'm not good. A lot of the people who are really good are huge snobs about it. They're like, obsessed with themselves. My other friend is in the same situation. (we go to the same dance school). We want to quit, but we can't, for a number of reasons. We'd be leaving some of our friends. We might as well just wait until we graduate, because that's when most people quit. (when someone quits before they graduate, my dance teacher talks badly about them, and all the snobby girls laugh). Our moms would get mad. Also, they both say if we quit, we have to join something else, but we don't like anything else. We're not good at sports. I don't even like dancing because I'm not good. And even if I was, I don't think it's really my thing. But don't tell me to quit, because I just can't. I just need help. I want to get better, because I think if I get better, I'd feel better about my self. (I'm very self concious about my dancing) But my teacher doesn't like me and my friend, so I can't ask her for tips. (like, if we're doing something wrong, she just says that's wrong and doesn't tell us how to do it) Does anyone know any exercises to get your leg higher in your arabesque, get your feet in 5th position, do splits, have balance, etc.? Thanks, I really appreciate your help. Sorry about the length, but I really need help. Thanks. I rate.
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I know exactly what you are talking about. I started dance really lately so I felt as if I was really bad because I wasn't at the same level as other people my age. For the fifth position, try doing the frog exercise. You lay down on your stomach with your feet touching. You move you feet up so that your hips are still touching the floor. You have to have your knees on the floor. Your feet do not need to be touching the floor though. The more you practice and the more flexible you get the farther up your feet will go. This should help with your fifth position.For splits, just stretch a lot normally and then try holding your splits. Eventually, you'll get down farther. Just don't put yourself at first because you don't want to pull anything. I can't really tell you any exercises for balancing, but I know it always helps to lower your shoulders, keep your butt and legs tight, and stretch your stomach/center up. That might be hard to do and I'm really sorry if none of this made any sense. I had trouble explaining it. Sorry if I wasn't any help at all.
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ok, i am totally head over heals for this chick.. she is beautiful.. and kind.. and she says to me that she isnt ready for a relationship.. or that she doesnt want to be more than friends.. but i keep getting this feeling that there could be something more! and so i told her to look deep in her heart and see whats there... and to ignore everything her brain is telling her.. then she replies that what i wrote was beautiful and to give her a week to sort things out and not to talk about me and her in a relationship and give her space.. what does all this mean!?!?! by the way most of this is all said in email but yeah.. its the easiest way to comunicate.. plz help!! (link)
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Give her space if she asked you to. She's probably just trying to sort things out herself and if you pressure her it will scare her off. Leave her alone until she comes to you. It's obvious she likes you, so just give her some time to come to terms with that.
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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special? (link)
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It's ok to go that young. Prom is going to be different each year especially depending on who you go with. THe prom will be different as a senior because it will be YOUR prom with all of YOUR friends while this prom will be special as your first. If you want your first prom to be when your older, then don't go ,but I don't see what the big deal is.
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does anyone know where to find some cute quotes for my profile besides [[hellz-angelz.cjb.net and wittyprofiles.com thanks!]] (link)
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www.firehotquotes.com
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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
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Every little bit helps. Send in money no matter the amount.
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Okay, so some of you may remember me asking a question about going out with a guy 2 days after I broke up with another one. Well, I took that advice and now Ricky and I have been dating upwards of a month.
But lately I've been having second thoughts! Like, everyone I talk to says that we make a weird couple, and I'm starting to agree with them! Like, he's the Great American Redneck (seriously), with almost the entire stereotype of the word! He goes hunting, fishing, drinking, and wears camoflage(sp?) to school, and is in LOVE with country music. He wants to be a mechanic, loves racing and cars. He's like, the complete OPPOSITE of my type. AND he's obsessed with me!
And I'm so much different. I'm the, I guess you could say, rocker chick/goth. I do like country music, but I'd take a good metal/rock song over a country song any day of the week. I can't STAND hunting or camping of any kind, and I will not TOUCH beer. Yes, I'd love to know how to change a tire and possibly fix a few common engine malfunctions, but other than that, I really don't care much about cars. If it runs, GOOD. If it doesn't, OH WELL.
It's not that I don't like him, 'cause I really do. It's just that he's so different from me, and I'm just not sure. I've never dated someone like him. All the guys I've dated have pretty much been "bad boys" or something like that.
My question is, should I stay with him despite our differences? I do like him, but it's just... Strange. (link)
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If you like him, then that's all you need to know. There is that saying that opposites attract, and that is probably why you like him so much. He is so different from you that you are intrigued. If you can't get over how unlikely the relationship is, then you should dump him. Personally, I think you should stay with him because it seems you really like him. If you can't get over what people say, then dump him. I just think you should give the relationship a chance and come to terms with how strange it seems. Sometimes the things that seem the strangest are the best for you.
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does ne one know the real way to lose weight?? (link)
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I don't. From what I've heard, it's different for each person. Sorry I wasn't any help.
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omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do????? (link)
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Sorry, but you should have expected that when you did whatever you did at the parties. The rumors will go away eventually, but you just have to wait them out. You've got to deal with the consequences of your actions. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth.
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Okay I am 40 weeks pregnant. I was due xmas day. I still have not given birth! What could be taking so long? I am becoming so miserable, uncomfortable and irritated, not to mention impatient. Please if someone has any suggestions please help! (link)
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Maybe you should just go to the hospital and induce it if you are that miserable.
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me and my friend have decided to get eachother presents. well, we are like best friends so i got her something special that took me a long time and trouble. it coct about $30 but she is my best friends, so she deserved it. today she said she would tell me what she got me if i told her wat i got. it turns out she got me a $3 key chain!!!!!! i smiled and said "thanks, can't wait to see it!" but inside i was screaming. she already knows what i am getting her so i can't return it and she said she was so excited it was a great gift. im mad, is that wrong? what should i do? i dpn't wanna hurt her feelings but c'mon! please help, i rate high. (link)
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Well, if it had a good meaning behind the gift then you shouldn't be mad. If it was a crap gift that she just got because she didn't know what else to get you, then it's understandable that you are upset. I'd be pissed if I spent time and money on a person that didn't seem to care about me. Maybe just ask her about the gift to see the reason behind it and next year don't give her as great of a gift. Then again christmas is about giving and not receiving. You can't really be all that greedy although I do understand your point of view.
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How do you make icons? I know that you have to make them on sites and stuff but i dont have animation shop so were do i get it nd what do i do? PLZ HELP ME! (link)
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For the animation, just try going to http://www.coffeecup.com/gif-animator and downloading the free trial.
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I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do? (link)
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If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you. There isn't much you can do. Be nice to her and everything, but if she doesn't like you then get over it. Everyone is not going to like you and you aren't going to like everyone.
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my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say? (link)
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Well, if you like him then just go out with him. If not, explain to him that you'd rather not risk your friendship and that you only think of him as your best friend. Hopefully he will understand.
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okay so i have this friends hes really nice to me and we always have fun together and laught and we talk on the phone for hours and just have a good time but he always gets mad at me for the stupidest things! and when ever he does something mean to me then he like completly ignors it and is like "shut up" or sumthing like that and then he laughs and acts like its no big deal. and like he always ditches me for some one more prettyier or more popular and when ever hes with them he like ignors me! wut do i do?!? am i oo nice for letting him walk all over me like that?? am i a push over!?!? idk wut to do please help soon (link)
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Don't let him push you around anymore. Tell him how you feel because if you don't he'll just keep doing it. If he doesn't care, then maybe you two need to take a break from each other for awhile.
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okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks? (link)
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Don't mention the ring unless he asks and when he does ask tell him that you don't know who it was from, so you just wore it because you thought it was pretty. I don't see why it would be a big deal. Don't feel guilty about getting him a gift, it was a nice gesture.
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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary. (link)
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You might not be able to be popular like you used to. People are more materialistic now, and it doesn't seem like you are like that. You probably are more down to earth than the other people in your school, so you won't be able to be "popular". You can still make friends though. It's good that you have that one good friend, but try finding friends with common interests or try talking to someone who seems like they would be a good friend. Start conversations by talking asking about what homework you have or stupid teachers or just smiling and saying hi.
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ok, i have a boyfriend and his name is Chris(and i have had sex with him already), but the other night his brother(Donavan) was sleeping at his house, and me and donavan got really comfortable and me and donavan slept together. and i want to tell Chris but i am scard to. What should i do? (link)
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Wow, well you need to tell your boyfriend what happened and explain EVERYTHING to him. I'm sorry to say that I don't think there is much of a chance of you guys staying together and it's probably not what you wanted to hear, but it's the truth. I think it's better for you to tell your boyfriend instead of him finding out from his brother or someone else. Besides, it's better for him to find out sooner rather than later.
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