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Hey, my names christine, and if you need any help or need a question awnserd feel free to ask me! you can e-mail me to! ... well theres not much to know about me exept im in the 8th grade, im mature for my age, somewhat tall... i love animals, im usually really funny, i suck school, and im wierd, so i pritty much fill all catigories, AND YES I SUCK AT SPELLING! so feel free to ask me anything!

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Alright, Me and this guy were talking a lot and he told me he loved me and all that jazz. Then he started getting mad at me over stupid things and once I would explain myself he would be like alright. Then we got in this huge fight. And fought for a week. Then just yesterday he IMed me out of the blue. He said that he wanted to try the friends thing for now. I really like this kid, If I don't love him. I don't know what to do. He's always flirting with other girls and everything and I'm just like...wow. I really want to go out with him. But I know he would say no. I just wish he would like me.

I mean whenever he said he wanted to try the just friends thing for now part he sent me this poem/letter he wrote during the week we were mad at eachother and it made me cry. It basically said that he will always care about me and that sometimes he's stupid about things and wishes I would just over look them.

I really don't know what to do. I'm so confused. I just want him to like me..Wow...Please help me.

I rate 5's

Well you should totaly give him a chance! =)

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I want to be something slutty for Halloween cause thats what all my friends are being... But they all wear JR's clothes I wear a large in kids sizes. I needa find a costume for Halloween thats cute and a tad bit slutty but I can't cause I'm small. Maybe you can help me.
I'LL RATE 5'S!!!!!!!!

I SAID, PARTY CITY HAS SOME COOL COSTUMES!!!!!

JUST TRY THEIR STORE AND YOUR SHURE TO FIND SOMTHING!!!!!!!!

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i like my friend from school but i dont know is she likes me back what should i do?

Ask one of her friend's and tell them that you like her. Trust me, she will think it's cute that you asked one of her friends

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ok i am 5'4" and i weigh 106.5 lbs. am i overweight? is it irrational to think that i am fat???people tell me i worry too much i dont c y though.please help!
also latley i have been feeling guilty after i eat. help with that too plz.

No way! You are just totaly perfect!

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14/f ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few weeks now. But i am starting not to like him as much as i did before we started going out. OK i still like him but i think we should see different people. i wanna go out with someone else. Im not sure exactly how to tell him that i just wanna see different people. I mean were really close and all. But after i dump him i still want us to be friends and still have that open communication u kno. Like i wanna still be there for him and stuff.. (hes in a foster home) and he says that im the only one he can say i love you to because he doesn't have a family really. So i would feel bad dumping him. I just dont kno how to dump him without breaking his heart and i still wanna have the open communication thing. Please someone help me out i rate 5s for good answers!

The best thing you can do is tell him the honest to god truth other wise it will always be there in the back of your head... so have a clear mind and tell him the truth. i hope this helps you out

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Hi I am an advice columnist. I need some help. I am at a friends and I was at her neighbors house. We were tumbling and I knocked over one of the nice lady's pot holders. I broke the pot and I have scratches all over my legs. My friend got me out of there as fast as she could. I feel so bad. What do I do?

leave a pot on her doorstep with like 20$ in it and an apologie letter, trust me it will help, and dont forget to sighn your name on the letter. accedents happen!

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my friends' mother isn't the nicest person in the world, she's verbally abusive and just slapped her across the face..now my friend is considering running away and i think she's overreacting..but i really don't know. is she overreacting? what should i say to convince her to stay? ..or what?

I had the same prob. with my mom, and know how she feels but just tell her if she does your house is open (if your parents are cool with it, allso try telling your parents what her mom has done) you can also tell her that she should reconcider because if her mom find out then she will be in a lot of troble.... hope this helps ya out

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okay..lately i have been into cutting and i have been for awhile but lately i have been a lot and i can't help it,it's helping me feel better but it's hard to hide it because i don't want anyone to know so i was woundering if anyone's know's what else i could do..i've tried writting and using rubber bands upon my wrist but that didn't work that well

ceep buisy all the time, hang out with your friends allot. if you need to talk to someone im here @: christine1012005@hotmail.com i hope this helps you!

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Ok My cat has just had 3 kittens. They are 1 girl and 2 boys. I have named one of the boys Shaddow and I need to more names 4 the girl and boy cat! I don't want happy names I like darker names! Thanks! (no Smarts either please)

why not....


shadowfire

jinx

leo

minx

ummm..... hmm...,

ondray

figarow

kitten

sabastian

teddy



that's all i got, hope this helps you and your kities out

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My Best Friend Likes Me... i dont know what to do i mean hes a cutie and i love his personality and everything i guess im just afrid to like him because hes like my best friend and i mean i guess we flirt like he will tickle me and carry my books some times. Im Just scared if i say no im afrid he will be upset and if i say yes and we break up our friendship will be ruined. Please Give Me Some Advice

Tell him yes and if you two were ever to breake upi you would have to promicr to still be friends, it worked for me, so i hope it works for you too! :)

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I have never had a b/f. I am going to be a freshman next year and I am going to a tough highschool where everyone has at least m/o with 10 ppl. I like this one guy but he is a year younger than me and i don't know if he likes me. PLus he is my partner for a long term project. What should I do.

13/F

Well talk to him as much as possible without annoying him, and ask him a question that requiers an awncer other than yes or no. Also ask a friend of his to ask him if he likes you, or a friend of yours...flurt allot, and never doupt yourself! allso get a friend of your's to tell hom that you like him! (trust me this works) I hope this helps you out!

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ok so my b/f and i broke up cause me moved....and i really cant get over him!! and i dont no how like i jus really really want to be w/him but i cant be w/him.....and i me and him were sooo in love at least i was....he was everything i wanted in a man or boy or whatever u want to call it....and i jus feel rite in love w/him we were sooo alike and i could get along w/him sooo well....and i wanted to marry him cuz i really think that i could live w/him for the rest of my life!! but the only problem was that he was 13 and kinda had the rest of his life ahead of him and i am 16 and i kinda wanted a serious relationship and he didnt.....but i still cant get over him and now he has a g/f!!! and i dont no how to get over him????please help me?!?!?!

Well if he got over you that fast, then I would probibaly try to find another guy, cause im shure there is someone else who you would like alot better! I really hope this help's you out! ^.^

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ok....... there's this guy and he is preety cute and his friend told me that he likes me and well he never talks to me though(the guy that supposevely likes me)and i dont know how to talk to him. any advice?

Walk up to him and tell him your name and ask him for his. Then the next day ask him a few (not too many) question's that requier somthing other then a "yes" or "no". like " What is your favorit class and why?" that should get him to start talking to you! hope this helps you out! ^.^

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The family have purchased a blackmoor fish to keep a goldfish company that my youngest son won at a fair last week.
To accommodate them we have also purchased a 15 litre bowl, pump and filter.
Both are feeding well however the small goldfish appears to be chasing the larger blackmoor around and nipping him. The poor blackmoor is having to hide and we've noticed he's started to develop tiny white spots all over him.
I've put him in a smaller bowl away from the goldfish, do you know what the white spots are? How can we help him and will the fish settle down together?

If you go to pet's mart and bring your fish, they should know what it is and have somthing there to treat it. I hope this help's you and your fishy out! :)

-cjAdvice

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my friend's 90 year old man who needs to put on weight for health reasons. he eats 3 solid meals and snack in between but does not seem to put on. if his weight drops, it will eat away the muscle. appreciate some answer how can he gain weight.

If you call a hospital and ask how some helthy ways are to put on weight, that would probably help, or look up "key" words online, like helthy way's to gain waight.

Im sorry I couldent help you out more, :)

-cjAdvice

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Well.... i realllllly like this kid, and i have NO IDEA if he likes me back or anything and like my friends are always like you should tell him you like him and stuff... but the thing about it is that i have 2 worries 1. he doesnt like me back! and 2. his friends are the type of guys that are like you like him and are always asking out girls for them and like there just jokin around and stuff. i dont kno so will you guys help????? should i tell him or not??
THANK YOU SOO MUCH!
XO0X


PS we are starting to become friends...weve meet on the first day of school (about a month ago)...... SORRY ITS SOO LONG!

Well I would tell him so he atleast know's, and I bet he does like you to, you just probably dont know it yet! hope this helps you out! :)

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Okay I tried to ask a specific columnists a question and it said sorry this columnists is not receiving questions to their inbox right now. etc etc. Why wouldn't they be accepting questions? What are some reasons you could give me? Thanks in advance!

Some advicenator's only awncer selected awnsers, and on our site we can click do not recieve any questions from any one or somthing along the lines of that.

so the person is either rejecting your questoin or does not exept anyones questions, sorry this is so confusing hope this helps!

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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

Hey,
Dont go around killen your self... trust me it's not the rite thing to do. My friend felt the same way, and went to counciling and said it has made there life better. But if you dont want to go to counciling, talk to me, im a 13/f too.

my e-mail: christine1012005@hotmail.com

my advise colum: cjAdvice

I hope i helped, and i check my e-mail every day, so im here for you! :)

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ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.

* names have been changed

Well you only get one chance in life, so I would go all out and call him. Just say your name and say " hey i was just wondering, why did you say no?" and if he says somthing mean or does somthing mean, then you deserve better! I hope this help's you out!

cjAdvice

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ohk so im freaking out because today i was going upstairs and my dad asked me if i ate and i told him yes in an attitude because lately i've been wanting to be alone. and he just annoy's the crap outta me cause he'll just stand there staring at me and being like what are you doing? its so frustrating. but anyways he started screaming at me he was like wtf is your problem nd i was like nothing why & he was like well look at your face your attitude. and we kept arguing and then he was like soon im going to have a long talk with you because i've been finding out of things you do and none of those are good. and i have proof so i know that they're true. and i havent told your mom yet cause she's sick.... so i was thinking about all the things i've done and i dont recall doing anything bad. and he also said ohh you need to fall off your high horse fast & crap and he also told me how he has connections and he's going to send me to some private school, im literally pissing my pants because im so worried please please help me gimmie advice or sumthing anything can and will help right now !!!!!!

Ok, well um.... ah ha! I know!


Ok, go up to him calmly, and whatever you do dont get angry, and ask him what exactaly you did wrong. I know, you dont want to, but this is a method that has worked out for me many times in the past, so this will work out fine. And tell me how things go!

cjAdvice

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