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not breaking his heart
14/f ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few weeks now. But i am starting not to like him as much as i did before we started going out. OK i still like him but i think we should see different people. i wanna go out with someone else. Im not sure exactly how to tell him that i just wanna see different people. I mean were really close and all. But after i dump him i still want us to be friends and still have that open communication u kno. Like i wanna still be there for him and stuff.. (hes in a foster home) and he says that im the only one he can say i love you to because he doesn't have a family really. So i would feel bad dumping him. I just dont kno how to dump him without breaking his heart and i still wanna have the open communication thing. Please someone help me out i rate 5s for good answers!
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Just explain to him that you want to see other people, not because you don't like him, but for experience. Tell him that you will still, no matter what, remain close to him and always be there for him. I'm sure he'll understand. Good luck!!
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Ohh thats a tough one, I've had that before. It really hurts guys more when you lead them on. Your problem is that you are such a nice person. I am too and that is why it is so hard for us to break up with guys we care about and who care about us. Your relationship with him is a bit more motherly (looking over him and wanting to make him happy) than romantically. Tell him what you are telling us "I think we should see other people, but I still really care about you and want to be friends."
Hope it helps!
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Melanie
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Theres no easy way of dumping some1. Just be open and honest w/him, hes gonna be hurt. Guys have this ego thing, they dont like rejection. Most guys after being dumped, dont want anything do to w/the girl anymore. If he does stay friends w/u, then hes 1 friend you will have for a long time. Let him know that youll always be there if he needs you!
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The best thing you can do is tell him the honest to god truth other wise it will always be there in the back of your head... so have a clear mind and tell him the truth. i hope this helps you out
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