ok so my b/f and i broke up cause me moved....and i really cant get over him!! and i dont no how like i jus really really want to be w/him but i cant be w/him.....and i me and him were sooo in love at least i was....he was everything i wanted in a man or boy or whatever u want to call it....and i jus feel rite in love w/him we were sooo alike and i could get along w/him sooo well....and i wanted to marry him cuz i really think that i could live w/him for the rest of my life!! but the only problem was that he was 13 and kinda had the rest of his life ahead of him and i am 16 and i kinda wanted a serious relationship and he didnt.....but i still cant get over him and now he has a g/f!!! and i dont no how to get over him????please help me?!?!?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xofitchbabyox answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 7:59 pm: iight look imma tell you straight up, tha same stuff happend to me.. about 3 months ago. my boyfriend and i had been together for more then a year.. i had to move and hour away. i loved him more than anything, and everything you said reminded me of him and i. except we were both 16 after i moved. we tried to have a long distance relationship.. everything was working out fine.. i would drive up to see him twice a week. untill school started.. i had made new friends, started having less time for him.. you know.. i would talk to him on the fone every chance we got. which was alot seeing how we have cell phones.
homecoming was coming up.. and he asked me to go.. the week before. that whole week he hadnt called me or answered my calls. i was devistated. he had told my bestfriend that he didnt wanna be with me anymore because he couldnt trust me. ive never cheated on any of my boyfriends. so i dont know why he would say that.
about 1 week after. i found out he liked a 13 year old and i was madd.. i threatened this girl.. so many times.. she finally got the clue and backed off.. but then he was mad at me.
i realized that even though i loved him with all my heart, and always will. things will move on.. were 16 i have partying to do .. and experinces to go through, im not going to find my husband at this age. nor do i want to.. im in highschool.. i want to have fun.. i recently found a new boyfriend, who makes me happy.. every once in a while i will find myself thinking about him and wondering what he is doing.
basically you need to move on, your still young and you still have alot of other things and boys ahead of you.
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 9:40 am: Okay, first of all YOU GUYS ARE YOUNG. HE'S ONLY 13. When he can actually drive, and be an adult, maybe you guys can be together. Remember, he's only THIRTEEN. Barely a teenager, let alone an adult.
♥ Melissa [ xRoOxiSxBlOnDex's advice column | Ask xRoOxiSxBlOnDex A Question ]
sillyrob answered Monday October 3 2005, 9:21 pm: You're 16 and kind of have the rest of your life ahead of you. You should get over him because you should be having fun in your high school days, not obsessing over a guy. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
cjAdvice answered Monday October 3 2005, 8:51 pm: Well if he got over you that fast, then I would probibaly try to find another guy, cause im shure there is someone else who you would like alot better! I really hope this help's you out! ^.^ [ cjAdvice's advice column | Ask cjAdvice A Question ]
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