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15/F
My boyfriend's birthday is next week
and i have no idea what to get him. He's not really into sports, well he does bmx. He's really into rock music, and he plays guitar. We haven't even been going out that long. I asked him what he wanted, but he just said "Oh you don't need to get me anything."

So does anyone have any suggestions?

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does anyone know if this company is a scam?
my cousin is part of it but im afraid they might just want my cousins money. i need to know if it safe to be in this. supposly its like a company that allows you to be in commercials.

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okay im going crazy like i cant even explain
i was doing home work
and it was like really easy kind like +es and stuff
and i didnt understand what the heck i was doing and stuff i dont remember anything any more wats wrong?

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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?

16 YEAR OLD GIRL.

Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?



Thank you for the time!

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15/m
is it weird to never have had a wet dream before?
ive had sex dreams, i just never y'know.
and yes, i have hit puberty, about 4 years ago hah so dont suggest that

like do some guys never have them?

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ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused

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i think i may have depression.. or anger issues idn

but like lately i've been snapping at everybody
i'm not pmsing either .. but if i am i get my period the end of the month to the beginning few days and today's the 12th ;; i've been fighting with my bf and my family soo much lately and idn if its my fault or not but i know that i've been really aggrivated lately and sad.. like really sad at random times

do you think i may have it? because my mother does? what are some symptoms?

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My boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him. I love him and I would NEVER cheat on him. I just can't believe that he would even think that!! I am so stunned. I don't know what to do.
How can I tell him that I am not???

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I'm 14 and a girl in the 9th grade. Ok, so I like this guy and I've liked him for a longgg time. Everyone alwyas says we're giong to get married, becasue we're best friends and were always together. I never told my girl best friend that i liked him though, because I kind of always thought she did too, and i really dnt like to talk about guys with anyone. But just recently, she told me she lked him, and wanted me to ask him to homecomeing for her. well, I did, and he said that he had thought that he might would ask me. and I told him that I couldnt do that to her, and told him he should just go with her.so he said yes, and i've been ttrying to kind of stay out of it, but now he doesnt thik I like him anymore, and things have gotten weird between us. I miss us being close, and I dont know what to do. Any help?

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where can i listen to the soundtrack for the game "skate" online?

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i am looking for a english bulldog puppy or a pug. ive tried looking for everywhere but have not succeeded at all so far. i am also looking for a somewhat cheap price because i am on a budget as well. if anyone has puppies in il please let me know thanks
19 f

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I'm temporarily in a long distance relationship with my bf (as in, we were together when he went away to work, and he will be coming back in a few months.) However, it's not going very well. I know he's going out and having fun all the time and I'm not angry about that or anything, but it just makes me feel a bit lonely and jealous. He doesn't seem to make much effort to contact me either and whenever we do talk it's like I've sent him a text message first or I've IMd him first, and he always seems so distracted. He never says he misses me unless I say it first.
A month or so before he went I told him I loved him and he didn't say it back cos he didn' t want to til he truly meant it, which had a massive strain on our relationship. The day before he went I told him upset that I seemed to care more about him going than he did, and all he said was that he only cared in a good way because he was excited for this opportunity. But the thing is, when we started out, it all went really well, and in fact he was the one to pursue ME and I was the one that had to be convinced into liking him!!! I'm missing those days (and him) so much.
I really don't know what to do :( I don't want to break up with him, but I don't know what to say to him either. I'm going to visit him pretty soon which because of cash will be the only time I can when he's away, so that might be some help... someone please help me, I'm getting really upset about this.


.xoxoxo

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I have a very big problem with binge eating....i am constantly eating huge amounts of food , i spend most of my money on it and sneak it too , i also have other controll issues such as outta controll shopping and i have a hard time getting all my work done for university becuase i have a hard time concentrating and i put everything off till the last minute....someone suggested that the drug aderral might be helpful ? is this a drug i should ask my doctor about, or are there any others?

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I'm a female/15

I have a boyfriend that I've been going out with for about 9 months now and things have been kind of crappy lately 1. our relationship isn't sexually exiteing enough that kind of sounds bad but out of nine months of going out I've been fingered once and I've given him hand jobs countless amounts of time and was thinking about giving him head 2. we've been fighting ALLL THE TIME over really stupid things he will piss me off i get mad then he makes fun of me being mad and BAM EXPLOSION * we got in a huge fight yesterday and I was like how come you always have to make me feel like crap (his sense of humor him "joking around" is kinda aggravating me lately) I told him about it before and i told him its getting worse and I'm sick of fighting with him all the time .. we cant even talk on the phone anymore without getting in an arguement (btw WE NEVER USED TO FIGHT BEFORE) but on the other hand he's always there for me and when i'm upset he's always there to help me feel better but i'm sick of fighting and i can't like change who is his because his sense of humor that aggravates me is basically who he is; i'm losing patience with him..
AND I'm kind of really attracted to another guy and he's becoming more appealing to me lately

what should i do.. should i breakup with him?
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what are some good ideas for decorating a door way barbie style. my friend and i are being barbies for this halloween carnival at our school for little kids and we don't know how we should decorate the door way. like picture a classroom door closed and you know on the outside theres a little bit of wall on each side. thats what we have to decorate. any advoce would be grreat!! :D

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Well, they are a band( I love you if you listen to them) Well, go listen to them on iTunes or Myspace, and if you can, please tell me some bands that are similar to them. I love wednesday 13, and I'm just wondering whether there are any other bands like that, and please don't tell me wednesday's dragqueens from planet 13 or murderdolls.

Thanks..

And I don't care if it's a small unknown. Thanks :)

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im in special ed and my teacher goes into the rooms she writes my hw assignments in my agenda and she takes notes for me somewhat. in my social studies class i was taking a quiz and my teacher read it and then she said it didnt make sense so she rewrite it what does this mean i have a math calcuation,written expression,reading decoding and reading comprehension what does these mean please answer thank you

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hey guys. I am getting close to the deadline to pick a one act to direct. Being that I'm a lazy fuck, do any of you have suggestions for a one-act play I can do that doesn't have royalties?

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hey boys, well I need some advice I have a boyfriend name peter, he is the love of my life, who I adore and cherish so much, well anyway his birthday is coming up and I don't have any clue what to give him, he's in love with guitar,cars and stuff like that, I really wanted to give him a green guitar because that's his favorite color, do you think its too much to give or what? and if it is honestly guys what should I give him for his birthday cause I have no clue, what are your suggestions?

_thanks guys

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i stuck the needle in that big vein everyone has on their foot, it probably went 3/4 of an inch in.....as soon as i took it out i bled a little, and then all the blood in that vein along my foot and ankle dissapeared and went into about a square inch of the vein (which is now almost an inch wide) around the needlehole....its just a big bubble/bump thing...it wont bleed anymore though even if i press it...has this happened to anyone? what should i do? am i overreacting and its fine?

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